Dear firefly in Connecticut:
Undoubtedly, your situation presents a challenge. Thin skin reveals more than thick skin. Therefore, one of the challenges, with respect to grafting cartilage, bone, or any other material, is that the graft process, and Nature's management of it, over time, must be perfect. Otherwise, some irregularities can be visible. If your skin were thicker, it could obscure some minor imperfections.
Since there is some uncertainty exactly how the grafted tissue will conform and maintain shape, it is always a little risky, and if, in fact, it does not turn out perfectly, then you would be facing a third rhinoplasty.
Today, we have so many excellent filling materials that I think you should think in terms of a nonsurgical rhinoplasty. Certainly, you have nothing to lose by trying a temporary filler first. That makes sense because you can see the results, and if you like them, then, you do not have to have the rhinoplasty surgery.
Secondl: you can later go to a permanent filler. Another great feature of fillers is that you get to make the decision while sitting in the office treatment chair when you are satisfied. Even if you may have had computer imaging before the surgeries, there is nothing like being awake and telling the surgeon what you do like and do not like while he is changing your nose. Think about that. It is common sense. It is safe, predictable and, of course, the cost is far less than a revision rhinoplasty surgery.
Robert Kotler, MD, FACS
Facial Plastic Surgeon
Author, SECRETS OF A BEVERLY HILLS COSMETIC SURGEON