How to get rid of this lump on my eyelid? (Photo)

The first of your five photos shows your finger pointing to a small bump on the skin between your lower eyelid in your nose. If this is what's bothering you, this could be removed by a dermatologist or a facial plastic surgeon. Depending on your examination, a shave biopsy with local anesthetic may be curative. I hope this helps, and thank you for your question. Sincerely, Dr. Joseph

Generally it takes a few months to have these problems resolve completely after surgery. Hot compress with tea help. I'm not familiar with that product.