At the end of braces treatment , facial - upper dental - lower dental should be in one line. veneers need 1 mm preparation of front surface of teeth and little on back side. recementation of veneer is possible [ if not damaged]. after veneering, care is must. its difficult to say about...
I don't think you are being fobbed off, but I do think you should seek out a second opinion. True, he cannot get rid of the spaces without changing the shape to more square. Also true, all veneers should ideally replaced if you do not like the color. Perhaps a cosmetic...
U have large buccal corridors and contracted arch.best option for u is expand yr arch. by that u can get hollywood smile. damon braces is best option for u.if u do not want to go for braces second option is veneers.BUT remember as yr laters are rotated . so good amount of tooth...