How can I reduce the projection of my BBL? Is liposuction the answer? (Photos)

Hello, I’m a guy that was looking for thigh and love handles liposuction due to chafing and not liking how strange and long my back looked. Due to some promotion, I ended up getting a BBL as it was cheaper. Wanted a masculine/natural look, but ended up feminine. Real issue was asymmetry and flat areas, so years later I went to another surgeon (couldn’t find the original). Asked just to fix asymmetry and flat areas. Somehow, got entire 2nd MASSIVE BBL. Was extremely upset but staff claimed it was just swelling (wasn’t). Went back for 2 VASER liposuctions with JPLASMA a year apart to reduce butt to projection that would stop the DAILY ridicule and laughs. To this day this severely impacts my mental health and ability to work. I avoid going out and can’t get new jobs due to fear. I wear long bulky clothes to try hiding it, even on hot days. I want to reclaim my life and feel like a human again. I’m 4 months post VASER liposuction with JPLASMA. Worried it hasn’t shrunk much so far this time. I have excellent skin elasticity, so that’s not the issue. I attached photos of before any surgeries and current. At this point I’m ok with the shape, but I just want the projection reduced. I’m ok with a big but not obviously fake. I’d even go to Brazil itself to fix this if needed. Can I reduce the projection enough as shown in my photos or enough to stop the ridicule? I really don’t want a buttock lift. Can liposuction fix this? What projection measurement to avoid ridicule? 5'10 200 lbs.