Is it normal to have regrets after cosmetic surgery?

Question

I had a MM 5 weeks ago, I try to focus on the positive outcomes, on how healthy I am but I can avoid daily to feel regrets, Is it normal? should I see a psychologist? :(

Clark Schierle, MD, PhD, FACS · Answer

Hang in there! As long as the shape and feel are improving week to week, however slowly, there is still hope for the final outcome. Ask you plastic surgeon if there are any compression garments, stretches or massaging exercises that can help speed your recovery.

Jose M. Soler-Baillo, MD, MS · Answer

Thanks for your question. It is completely normal to feel some "ups and downs" after cosmetic procedures. Figuring out what is best for you is most important. If you are feeling more overwhelmed over time, there is no harm in seeing a psychologist, but know that your recent regrets are normal. All the best,Dr. JSB

Jaime Perez, MD · Answer

Regrets are a common occurrence
following any type of cosmetic surgery. After all, recovery can be a painful
process, and final results take time to emerge. Rest assured that these
feelings will likely subside as you continue in your recovery and begin to feel
and look better than ever. If you still have significant concerns, I recommend
consulting your PS for reassurance. If you feel excessively worried or anxious,
seeing a psychologist is certainly an option as well. I suggest doing whatever you
need to do to feel mentally at ease during your recovery. More than likely, you
will be delighted with your results. Best regards.

Jerome Edelstein, MD · Answer

Hello,Thank you for your question. It is not uncommon for some people to have a hard time adjusting emotionally and mentally after cosmetic surgery. It can be a big life/image change and also a very big, expensive decision to make for many people. Usually these feelings pass and if you are realistic and have good results you will be able to enjoy your new body soon. If you are having trouble adjusting, please tell your Plastic Surgeon and review your reasons for doing this as well as pre photos. It cannot hurt to seek professional help with a Psychologist/Psychiatrist and you shouldn't ever hesitate to seek help when you need it. Take care,

Vincent N. Zubowicz, MD · Answer

The vast majority of patients who undergo elective aesthetic surgery are delighted with the result. In the short term however buyers remorse is fairly common. Often times this is due to the appearance during the healing phase that can be intimidating but will improve as time passes. Your plastic surgeon should help you navigate through these psychologically difficult times.

Farah Naz Khan, MD · Answer

Yes, many patients do feel down or emotional after undergoing a cosmetic procedure. You are not alone and it may help you to see a professional who can listen to you and help you work through your feelings. Just remember that this is your time to feel good about yourself so don't feel guilty about making sure you feel and look your best!!

Camille Cash, MD · Answer

After plastic surgery some patients do experience "ups and downs" during their recovery and decision to have surgery.  These feelings are often very temporary but it is always recommended to speak with your surgeon about how you're feeling.  She/He can discuss if professional counseling is advised for you.

Brian Coan, MD, FACS · Answer

Thanks for your question and I am
sorry to hear you are having these feelings.  Best to discuss
directly with your plastic surgeon as they can help
you navigate the feelings and possibly help refer you to a therapist.  It
sounds like what
you are experiencing is normal as it is common to have ups and downs after surgery. 
My best to you.  –Dr. Coan

Robert Drielsma, MBBS, BSc, FRACS · Answer

Sorry to hear that you have been feeling regretful after your recent surgery.  You may be pleased to know that its not uncommon to experience post operative "blues" and mums especially feel this way as they aren't used to putting themselves first and can feel guilty for not been able to do everything quickly after surgery.  If you are having regrets because you are dissatisfied, then you should discuss your concerns with your plastic surgeon.  Either way, if speaking with a professional will help to make you feel better than it would be worthwhile.

Darryl J. Blinski, MD · Answer

To directly respond to the posted question - Yes emotional swings are common, more than we think. But usually these swings settle over the course of a few weeks(but you are already at 5 weeks postop). Always best to have weekly in person appointments with your chosen surgeon, even if for 5 minutes. This seems to help the patient by seeing her surgeon in person. As for seeking psych. visit, as the saying goes, "it couldn't hurt!" But from a responding doctor's view -  you have OVER 180 posts plus you seem to 'jump' around between doctors. Never being satisfied is an issue also. Maybe you need to discuss this with your surgeon, Dr Hockstein, in person the concept of realistic expectations. Because your posted photos demonstrate an 'excellent result. Or you can seek in person second paid opinions to review your results from other boarded PSs in Miami.

Is it normal to have regrets after cosmetic surgery?

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