At 4 months if you aren't seeing any growth then it's unlikely any hair will ever grow in that area again unless you get a hair transplant. You can try rogaine if you'd like but I doubt it will do anything.
The application of minoxidil may not be useful in the scar region as there may not be any hair in the underlying tissue. So, the better option would be to get a transplant done in this area.
The side effects of finasteride in women have been delineated by the other Physicians. It has been my experience that oncologists do not approve of using finasteride in women who have had breast cancer.