Thank you for your question. It’s completely understandable to feel hesitant before undergoing such a significant surgery like a tummy tuck with diastasis recti repair. Let me address each of your concerns so you can approach this with clarity and confidence. First, it’s important to understand that suture selection and technique are critical to successful outcomes. For repairing diastasis recti, permanent sutures are typically used to bring the separated rectus abdominis muscles back together. These sutures are designed to withstand the tension of muscle repair and ensure long-term results. Some patients report feeling tightness or discomfort where the sutures are placed, especially in the first few weeks post-op, but this sensation usually subsides as the tissues heal. However, the skill of your surgeon plays a significant role in ensuring the repair is done properly and minimizes complications. Regarding the issue of quilting sutures, these are often used to secure the abdominal skin to the underlying tissues. They help minimize fluid collection and reduce the need for post-operative drains. While some patients experience discomfort or feel "tightness" at these suture sites, this discomfort typically resolves as healing progresses. As for the risk of sutures opening or complications like burns during liposuction, these issues are often related to the technique and experience of the surgeon. It’s crucial to choose a board-certified plastic surgeon with extensive experience in abdominoplasty and related procedures. Proper pre-operative planning, precise technique, and adherence to post-operative care instructions can significantly reduce these risks. Given that you’ve been living with diastasis recti for 20 years, repairing the muscle separation can provide tremendous functional and aesthetic benefits. It can alleviate back pain, improve posture, and give your abdomen a flatter appearance. To ensure you feel confident moving forward, I recommend consulting with multiple board-certified plastic surgeons. During these consultations, don’t hesitate to ask about the type of sutures they use, how they manage complications, and their specific techniques to prevent issues like burns or suture failure. It’s clear you’ve done your research, and that’s an excellent first step. Finding the right surgeon and discussing your concerns openly will help ensure you achieve the best possible outcome. Sincerely, Dr. J. Timothy Katzen, MD, FASMBS, FICS