I went to a plastic surgeon and he told me that my nose is nice and he outright refused me told me to go get someone else.I don't like my nose because my alar is too wide, granted nobody told me its ugly but its really not my cup of tea. I have disliked it for as long as I can remember. I spoke to him and he eventually said he can put an implant, a number 8 silicone so we could see if it looks all right and if not just take it out. I called him and left messages but no response anymore.
Answer: Doctor refused rhinoplasty
There are many reasons doctors refuse to operate on patients
There is a saying " I would much rather a patient be made at me for not operating on them then for operating on them"
But with that bit of philosophy aside here are some common reasons
1) Patient is not emotionally or medically appropriate to operate on
2) Doctor does not think he/she can make the patient happy because the patient seems to be the type of patient that can never be happy
3) Doctor thinks that the patient’s description of what is wrong is out of touch with reality and/or the patient’s description of what they want to look like is not something that can be achieved
4) There is literally nothing wrong with the patients feature and therefore no surgery is needed (this is relatively rare - how many truly perfect noses, faces, breasts are floating around out there)
5) there is something wrong with the feature (perhaps subtle) but the doctors does not feel comfortable or confident in their ability to fix it (when this is true in the doctors mind they but the patient in category 4 and try to convince the patient of that) with that said it is good that surgeons who do not feel comfortable or confident in dealing with subtle changes do attempt to make them. That is to say some surgeons will only operate on patients with gross deformities because they know no matter what they do they can make a positive difference. The stakes are higher when the defect is more subtle. More experienced surgeons are more likely to tackle these patients’ problems.
With that said you do not need to chase down a plastic surgeon. There are literally hundreds who will beat down your doors to operate on you.
Go visit some others in your community
If a lot of surgeons start to refuse surgery then you might fit into category 1, 2, 3
But based on your photo I would consider offering you a surgical plan after a consultation if you should up in my office.
Interested in traveling to Austin?
We make arrangements for out of town patients
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Answer: Doctor refused rhinoplasty
There are many reasons doctors refuse to operate on patients
There is a saying " I would much rather a patient be made at me for not operating on them then for operating on them"
But with that bit of philosophy aside here are some common reasons
1) Patient is not emotionally or medically appropriate to operate on
2) Doctor does not think he/she can make the patient happy because the patient seems to be the type of patient that can never be happy
3) Doctor thinks that the patient’s description of what is wrong is out of touch with reality and/or the patient’s description of what they want to look like is not something that can be achieved
4) There is literally nothing wrong with the patients feature and therefore no surgery is needed (this is relatively rare - how many truly perfect noses, faces, breasts are floating around out there)
5) there is something wrong with the feature (perhaps subtle) but the doctors does not feel comfortable or confident in their ability to fix it (when this is true in the doctors mind they but the patient in category 4 and try to convince the patient of that) with that said it is good that surgeons who do not feel comfortable or confident in dealing with subtle changes do attempt to make them. That is to say some surgeons will only operate on patients with gross deformities because they know no matter what they do they can make a positive difference. The stakes are higher when the defect is more subtle. More experienced surgeons are more likely to tackle these patients’ problems.
With that said you do not need to chase down a plastic surgeon. There are literally hundreds who will beat down your doors to operate on you.
Go visit some others in your community
If a lot of surgeons start to refuse surgery then you might fit into category 1, 2, 3
But based on your photo I would consider offering you a surgical plan after a consultation if you should up in my office.
Interested in traveling to Austin?
We make arrangements for out of town patients
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Answer: Doctor refusing to do surgery
It’s actually a good thing that a surgeon recognizes he may not be able to perform a surgery that will make you happy. Surgeons refuse to do surgery for a variety of reasons. Sometimes it is because the patient has unrealistic expectations, or has placed great importance on perceived flaws that are not visible to the surgeon. Other times it is because the surgeon does not have enough experience to successfully achieve the desired results of the patient, or feels that achieving the result still would not make the patient happy. If one surgeon has refused you, you can always seek a second or third opinion. If the photograph that you posted is what you look like on the left, and what you want to achieve on the right, then it seems like your goals are reasonable and achievable. I would definitely research board certified plastic surgeons or facial plastic surgeons who have experience with rhinoplasty and alar base excision. That is one particular procedure that is difficult to fix when done poorly, so you want to get it right the first time.
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Answer: Doctor refusing to do surgery
It’s actually a good thing that a surgeon recognizes he may not be able to perform a surgery that will make you happy. Surgeons refuse to do surgery for a variety of reasons. Sometimes it is because the patient has unrealistic expectations, or has placed great importance on perceived flaws that are not visible to the surgeon. Other times it is because the surgeon does not have enough experience to successfully achieve the desired results of the patient, or feels that achieving the result still would not make the patient happy. If one surgeon has refused you, you can always seek a second or third opinion. If the photograph that you posted is what you look like on the left, and what you want to achieve on the right, then it seems like your goals are reasonable and achievable. I would definitely research board certified plastic surgeons or facial plastic surgeons who have experience with rhinoplasty and alar base excision. That is one particular procedure that is difficult to fix when done poorly, so you want to get it right the first time.
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January 25, 2016
Answer: Plastic surgeon decided not to operate.
Refusing to operate on a patient can be a challenge for plastic surgeon. He clearly did not feel confident that he could not make you happy. His honesty should be respected, but you should seek opinions from other board-certified plastic surgeons before giving up. Best of luck.
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January 25, 2016
Answer: Plastic surgeon decided not to operate.
Refusing to operate on a patient can be a challenge for plastic surgeon. He clearly did not feel confident that he could not make you happy. His honesty should be respected, but you should seek opinions from other board-certified plastic surgeons before giving up. Best of luck.
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March 10, 2012
Answer: Doctor refused rhinoplasty.
Hello. I would recommend you find another board certified plastic surgeon who specializes in rhinoplasty. It sounds as though the surgeon you spoke to was either not confident in performing your surgery or your expectations are unrealistic. Try consulting with another surgeon for a 2nd opinion.
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March 10, 2012
Answer: Doctor refused rhinoplasty.
Hello. I would recommend you find another board certified plastic surgeon who specializes in rhinoplasty. It sounds as though the surgeon you spoke to was either not confident in performing your surgery or your expectations are unrealistic. Try consulting with another surgeon for a 2nd opinion.
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March 10, 2012
Answer: Refused by surgeon
It is difficult to answer your question without seeing more pictures – you should consider posting more images showing your profile. It is possible that your expectations are not realistic. You can also consider getting consults with other surgeons
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March 10, 2012
Answer: Refused by surgeon
It is difficult to answer your question without seeing more pictures – you should consider posting more images showing your profile. It is possible that your expectations are not realistic. You can also consider getting consults with other surgeons
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