Correcting Large and Asymmetrical Earlobes?

It’s not unusual for patients to
develop large ear lobes as a result of the aging process.  In many cases, this process may be
asymmetric.  These ear lobe changes
can adversely impact facial aesthetics and as a result patients frequently
request surgical correction.  This
deformity is accentuated by the presence of jewelry which constantly draws
attention to the area.

In most cases, correction is
performed under local anesthesia. 
The procedure involves removing a wedge of ear lobe.  The scars are initially noticeable, but
gradually fade with time.

When ear lobe reduction is
performed, satisfaction rates are high and complication rates are low.  If you’re considering this procedure,
consultations with a board certified plastic surgeon is appropriate.  This surgeon should be able to
formulate a treatment plan thats appropriate for you.

Correcting ear lobes is a pretty common procedure and can really be tailored to the specific problem: too big, too fatty, torn, slot ear deformity, asymmetry, even undoing the effects of gauges, plugs, and so-called "flesh tunnels" (to some degree).
I do this in the office in our procedure room under local anesthesia (injection of numbing medicine). Piercing can be done about three months later, but care should be taken to avoid re-piercing the ear through any scar from the repair (scar is always weaker tissue). I typically recommend that my patients allow me to re-pierce the ear rather than the kid at the mall. :-)
All the best,
--DCP

It's common for your earlobes to elongate with age. I'm not sure why one side is larger than the other, but reduction can be performed with a relatively straightforward in-office procedure. Your stitches will be removed in around a week, and you can re-pierce your ears around 3 mos. following the procedure.
I've attached a photo demonstrating this procedure.
I hope this helps you, and best regards.