Is it possible to fix my eyelids without a blepharoplasty? (Photo)

Ptosis is when somebody has droopy eyelids. This leads to excessive show of the upper eyelid, and there can also be a symmetry as you are concerned about. I think it would be best for you to consult with a reputable oculoplastic surgeon about your options for repair. Thank you for your question. Sincerely, Dr Joseph

You do not look like a monster.
It looks like you have slight ptosis or droppings of one of your eyelids. At least in the first picture.
When looking at the picture it is on the left side (your right side). Ptosis is dynamic and it can be challenging to see it in one or two pictures. It changes by changing visual gaze angle. The same side also appears to have an eye socket that sits higher in your skull and may also be larger. This shows by the brow also sitting higher.
I think in your case the primary issue is based on bone structure with a possible secondary soft tissue component. Most plastic surgeons tend to be soft tissue oriented and tend to see things through that perspective. I’m not recommending craniofacial surgery but recognizing the skeletal component can help recognize potential limitations with soft tissue approaches. That is not to say unilateral eyelid surgery may not be beneficial. In complex situations it’s helpful to differentiate what is primary, what is secondary and what is tertiary. The first step in coming up with a good treatment plan should always be having a good understanding of what the problem actually is. In your case it is multifactorial.
Most people have some of this. The human face is not symmetrical on anyone.
During embryological development, the two sides of the face develop independently from each other and eventually fuse in the midline.
The human brain is accustomed to seeing facial asymmetry as being normal.
We typically don’t see friends and family as being a symmetrical, even though they are.
Sometimes when people recognize their own asymmetry, it may seem like a unique feature.
If you look at computer simulated symmetrical faces, you may notice they have an odd and unfamiliar appearance.
There’s lots of interesting information about this if you do a quick Google search
Ptosis correction can be done without a blepharoplasty and is typically covered by medical insurance.
There is also eye drops that will give temporary relief called oxymetazoline.
I suggest consulting with Oculoplastic surgeons in your community.
In my opinion, it’s never a bad idea to have multiple consultations before considering selecting a provider or before scheduling any surgical procedure.
Best,
Mats Hagstrom MD