Very Bright Pink Nipples After Reduction Surgery and Itcing, What Should I Do, Is There an Infection?

That is great that your Mom is supportive and will look into it. Seeing a Board Certified Plastic Surgeon that specializes in breast reduction would be of great benefit to you both to find out what your options are at this time. 14 is a bit young but not unheard of, insurance companies usually...

At only two weeks post op, it is still too early to tell how the nipple areola complex will look after it has fully healed. It is very common for the nipple to look like it has been pulled tightly, almost like a purse string, during the first few weeks after surgery. As surgeons, we tend to...

I'm not really certain what question you're asking. I can't see how massage of any type is going to reduce breast size.

Certainly the literature has reported the very rare death after breast reduction. I personally am unfamiliar with a death from breast reduction in the plastic surgery circles I keep.

You probably don't fit into the insurance company's criteria for them to pay for the surgery at your current weight.  Believe me, however, if you really want it done and are a reasonable candidate, you will be able to pay for it as a cosmetic procedure out of pocket and have no problem...