I am a 64 year old white female with an extreme pear shape. Any suggestions?

I have very small shoulders and very wide hips. It's as if I have two different body shapes joined at the waist. I have a huge butt, stomach, thighs and legs. It's nearly impossible for me to find clothes that fit my odd shape. I'm not thinking that perfection is even possible but I would like to be able to shop and find clothes that fit and help me feel like I am normal or average. I would like to find someone who specializes in lower body liposuction.