Is my ptosis surgery not healing right? (Photo)

I think the steroid shots are a mistake.  Without an actual examination it is hard to know precisely what the issue here is. Generally with a heavy upper eyelid, one should be patient including your surgeon. If you are insecure, consider getting a second opinion.  These can be confusing because often your surgeon is in competition with the doctor providing the second opinion. I think you need time to heal here but it is not unusual to need a second ptosis surgery.