Dr. Grasee was wonderful and professional. During the consult she gave me her opinion but did not try to push anything on me. She answered all of my questions and made me feel so comfortable that I canceled my two other consultations. I did not see her again until surgery day, but she came in with a smile and calmed my nerves. My two follow-up appointments have been very short and to the point.
My full TT with abs sewn and lipo on my lower back was on 11/2/2016. I read lots of reviews about how painful it was and was so scared that I almost backed out of surgery. My tummy looked saggier and tucked funny after each c-section I had- nothing too major but enough to make me look into plastic surgery. I didn't tell many people before the procedure since I didn't want to hear everyone tell me I looked fine or that hunk of skin would magically go away if I change my workout. My surgery took about 4 hours. For nausea: patch behind my ear right before surgery, medicine in my IV, phenergan to take home and use as needed. I felt fine when I woke up from surgery- so tight but nothing like I was afraid of! I went home and walked around the house a bit before going to bed. The worst part in the beginning was throwing up the first night (horrible ab pain during that) and upper-back pain from slouching while walking. My stomach/incision did not bother me at all but the 1 drain I had was very annoying. The drain was in my pubic region, the tube went under my compression garment and was safety pinned onto the top of the garment. I showered 24 hours after surgery and found it easiest to pin my drain pump into a lanyard while showering. Some people recommend pinning it to a bra but that was uncomfortable for me. It's been 5 weeks since my surgery and besides feeling tight (especially when walking in cold weather) I feel great. My lower back is sore when I touch it from the lipo & still a bit swollen. It is still hard for me to use my abs to get me up from bed. I walk and do a light jog on my treadmill. Five weeks out and it still hurts when I sneeze or cough. I ate plenty of ripe bananas and other fruit immediately after surgery and never had any problems with constipation. I love my results especially since I was so wishy-washy about having the surgery. I see a lot of people asking if TT pain is like a c-section...both are painful but in different ways.
I went for consult with Dr. Grasee in April. We just clicked, she answered all my questions, talked about things that I had not thought of, and we started the process for approval by my insurance company. Three years ago the discs in my spine began to degenerate, causing tremendous pain in my neck and shoulders. The girls were a 38H, too large and heavy for my 5'2" frame. Beginning of the year, I noticed that my body was hunching over, pulled by the weight of the front on my body. Insurance approval was received very quickly due to physical therapy and chiropractic treatments which only produced small reductions in pain. So, with breast reduction covered, I decided that I could afford the tummy tuck out of pocket. About 10 years ago, I went on a weight loss program and lost 65 pounds -- but that extra skin never went away no matter how many crunches, sit ups, or exercising I did! TT was best option! I opted to have both surgeries done at same time. This avoided having a surgery and then recovery, then turning around and having another surgery and another recovery. I am now 4 months post-op and very pleased with the results with both breasts and tummy. So wished that I had done this sooner! Dr. Grasee is a perfectionist in striving for the best results for her patients. She and her staff, especially Trish, took very good care of me and answered all my questions and concerns pre and post surgery and throughout my recovery. Dr. Grasee removed 15 pounds from the front of my body! I am relatively pain free and take pain medicine when needed. I feel better overall, am able to exercise again, and have lost 20 more pounds through more healthy eating. Free of pain, my husband and I planning vacations that would not have been possible without Dr. Grasee's skills and expertise.
Hello All, I am so excited to have found this site. I have gotten a lot of comfort reading about everyone's journey. So my story starts like this: pregnant at 17, 10lb baby c-section. I have very large breast 36DDD. They look at the floor, yuck! I am 5 foot tall and weigh 143. I have lost 40 lbs this past year. So time for a reward. Hoping to have breast reduction and TT. Just scheduled my surgery for April 16th. Will check in more the closer to time for sx . Updated on 4 Mar 2014: Geesh, still no change in my weight. So frustrating. I am going to decrease calories by 500/day and increase water. Not sure I can manage more then 60 min workouts 6/week. Can't believe I am 4 weeks from surgery!! Updated on 6 Mar 2014: I feel so frustrated, weight just won't budge. I didn't feel the desperation to lose weight until this week. Ok enough whining, get going! Btw, some pre pics Updated on 11 Mar 2014: Hello All, I continue to workout, eat clean except my addiction to diet soda. I drink about 2 cans a day and a 20oz coffee in the morning. Rest of day is water, about 32 -40 oz. I hope to lose at least 1/2lb this week. You see, I lose wt. very slowly and can get frustrated at times. I jog 2-3 x/week and do a boot camp class 3x/week. I am focusing on building muscle strength in back, arms and legs. I have made a lot gains in lifting/strength training this past month. Any suggestions on protein intake? I hate Greek yogurt but regular is ok. I noticed Special K drinks have 10g of protein and about 200 calories. I guess my weight will be what it will be but I sure would like to be 130's before sx Updated on 11 Mar 2014: I have been looking for reviews of Dr. Grassee work, unable to find anything. So If you know where to go to read some doctor reviews I would appreciate it. Updated on 12 Mar 2014: I am reading (really stalking, lol) reviews on here and seen som fabulous results. I just keep looking at my tummy and thinking, how can this mess get flat! I hate to think I will go through all this and not have the flat smooth stomach I dream about. Updated on 12 Mar 2014: I found some Greek yogurt that I can eat. It has 12 grams of protein and 80 calories, so much better than the 200 calorie Special K drink. Updated on 15 Mar 2014: Hello lovely ladies! Now I know a 1/2 pound is not all that much, but for me it is awesome. I lose weight slowly in spite of 5-6 day per week gym work outs. Cutting out an extra 500 calories is difficult since I eat about 1400 calories per day. So yes, I am excited for 1/2pound :)!!! Went to PS office yesterday and spoke with nurse Tricia. She was wonderful at explaining things. Since I am an RN I think I asked questions a little differently, lol. Most comforting was getting to know exactly PS would prescribe after surgery and the after care instructions. I now feel ready to take on this awesome new adventure!! Updated on 17 Mar 2014: Hello ladies, I just want to say that I am so thankful for this site. It has been a stressful day. Work issues had me contemplating canceling surgery. Then the dreaded money woes. I told my husband I might reschedule for later date because money is getting tight. He said "oh no we are not!" Then I realized maybe I was looking for excuses to cancel/reschedule. So came to my comfort place (RS) and feel much better. Thank you to everyone for sharing their journey, it really does make a difference. Updated on 18 Mar 2014: Hello beautiful ladies! I have such a bad cold, yep runny eyes, runny nose, cough, geesh!!! However on bright side it is unlikely I will get another cold prior to surgery :). Also, the most exciting part of the day was ordering my lift chair. 30.00 per week rental! They were very nice and waived deposit fee because I only needed for 2 weeks. Oh yeah, I also got my FMLA paper work back from PS so I can turn that in as well. See you all later, happy healing :). Updated on 19 Mar 2014: Updated on 19 Mar 2014: Well at least he thinks he is funny,lol. He said to "do you realize you have four weeks from today until your surgery?" Let's see, buying MOM, front closure bras, CG, washing clothing and putting in specific basket so he will know where to go to get what I need, and oh yeah did I mention the count down clock on my iPhone!! Yes honey, I know exactly how long until my surgery, lol. I just smiled and said yep getting closer. I think he is getting nervous. TTYL Updated on 24 Mar 2014: Hello all you lovely ladies. I have 3 weeks until my makeover. I have so much to do! I have lost another 1/2 pound, so yeah me! I have been working out at least 5 days a week. Trying to really watch my diet. I also set an alarm on my phone calendar so I will stop taking advil 2 weeks prior. I take advil daily so this should be really interesting. Going back and forth with renting an electric recliner, I have 3 regular recliners already. But I like the idea of being able to stand up without my hubby pulling on me :). Well that is all. Please keep posting everyone, your stories are a true inspiration to us all!! Updated on 27 Mar 2014: Hello All, Very excited to report that I made 5 day work out. Resting tomorrow, going to dinner with hubby :). And the biggest news, yep my money is in the savings account awaiting distribution next week. Such relief now that I know the money has been saved up. Getting very excited! Updated on 3 Apr 2014: Hello all you lovely ladies, I am officially 13 days away from being on flat side. I paid all my fees yesterday. Wasn't painful! Now I have a nursing conference in Vegas next week, so I hope that keeps me busy. I have lost 2lbs since I started posting on here, weigh 141. Lowest I have been since Grad school. Maybe I will win a little in Vegas (highly doubtful). Had my preop discussion with the PS nurse, she is very funny and said "I hate having nurses as patients, they are the worst" while we both were busting out laughing. I asked her if my Dr. was on call the weekend after my surgery, she had to go check. She said she has never been asked that question before, lol. I know crazy nurses! Going to start packing tomorrow since I leave Saturday. Me and some girlfriends are going to hang out a few days before the conference starts. I will be stalking everyone's reviews as usual and will post again prior to sx. Keep your fingers crossed for me that I don't gain weight next week! Btw, I WILL workout everyday except Saturday. Updated on 9 Apr 2014: Hello all 1 week until sx. Keeping busy here in Vegas. Trying to be healthy, but is hard to do here. A few glasses of wine and 1 milk shake! Salads everyday for lunch. Now supper has been not so great, steak and lobster, yum or hamburger ( did split with my friend). Work out has been ok, only 3 times. But water intake has been very good! Well that is all ladies. Updated on 12 Apr 2014: Hello all you lovely ladies! I got home from Vegas at 2am, nope not a winner,lol. Had a great time with friends. I have not weighed my self yet but I know I gained over the week. That is OK! Took my mind off of the upcoming sx. Well 4 days to go, time to get nervous! Post again soon. Updated on 13 Apr 2014: Hello all, Just returned from going to grocery store, Kmart and CVS. I think I have prepared as much as I can, lol. Now to do laundry and clean the house ( my least favorite thing to do). I have been trying to find the tummy boards on amazon and not having luck. If any of you ladies can help I would appreciate it! Just Monday and Tuesday left and then off to sx on Wednesday. Wishing everyone happy healing. Updated on 15 Apr 2014: Hello all you lovely ladies, Tomorrow is the big day. I am nervous, I won't lie :). I stayed home today to do laundry, last few dishes etc... I am prepared. My main worry is getting up from the recliner. I am extremely independent and you have no idea how much I truly dread relying on anyone!! Oh well, I must suck it up and whatever is necessary. I will try to post tomorrow. I will be staying over night and coming home on Thursday. Any and all prayers and positive thoughts will be appreciated. Updated on 16 Apr 2014: On my way to surgery center. Update you all as soon as I can :) Updated on 17 Apr 2014: Hello all, I made it home about an hour ago :) Pain is tolerable! TT is very sore with some muscle cramping. Incisional site burn. I stayed over night in surgical center. Best money I have ever spent! Will update more later Updated on 17 Apr 2014: Hello All Just peed for the 4th time:). I can do must things, however, I can't get out of recliner. Part of the reason is because I'm barley 5ft. Will update later. Keep falling asleep :) Updated on 18 Apr 2014: Percocets make me itchy! Going to trying hydrocodone. Soreness has left but pain quickly followed. Pics when I get a chance. Updated on 19 Apr 2014: Hello all, I feel much better than yesterday. The medication makes me very sleepy. Nothing new to report :) Updated on 19 Apr 2014: Hello, feeling pretty yucky. Moving a lot better by myself, still no POO! I really appreciate all you ladies postings. I know I am on target with healing. But jeeze a little relief would nice. Ladies this process is intense so be prepared. I have not had horrible pain but a lot of discomfort. Pretty comparable to C -section. This will only be temporary. Again, thank you all for the information. It does help to know what to expect. Updated on 19 Apr 2014: Updated on 19 Apr 2014: Please look at this incision. It is not bleeding or draining, and no pain! What do you ladies think is going on.? Updated on 20 Apr 2014: Hello All, Well I am 4th day post op. It has been a journey so far. Hopefully today will be better. I actually went and poo :). Going to attempt a shower later. Prayers for everyone. My only complaint is stinging in my breast. Updated on 20 Apr 2014: Hello all you lovely ladies. I am so thankful to have a place devoted to us. I have read many,many reviews. Been very prepared and thankful that I have this opportunity. However, tonight I've had it! I can't sleep, nauseated, dizzy, low grade temp, and pain ( not discomfort)! My breast feel like they are stinging (no drainage) and I can't get comfortable in any bra. The CG is a torture device, yep I said it, it is literally torturing me. I took that damn thing off! Tried to sleep in my bed and nope not happening. Now since I have read so many postings from all you ladies, I new what was coming on. Yes, WTH did do this to myself? And most stupidly paid good money to be in this misery. Rationally I know this will pass, but right now I would happily go back in time and buy myself a Louis Vuitton hand bag instead of new boobs and flat stomach. Ok, I feel slightly better. Hopefully tomorrow will be a good day. Goodnight ladies. Updated on 21 Apr 2014: Hello, I am feeling better. I got pain under control (should not try to come off narcotics to quickly). Still sore, but I can live with soreness, not like last night. Felt like breasts were going to fall off. Updated on 22 Apr 2014: Hello Each day is better. More energy and less discomfort. Working on sleeping in my bed. Husband went back to work yesterday, so been on my own. No problems except I can't reach microwave :). Still a lot of swelling in abdomen. Wearing my TD (CG). Weight is same as presurgery. No new pics yet because nothing has changed. Follow up appointment Thursday:). Updated on 22 Apr 2014: Hello, It is me again. I have been reading a lot of reviews and know that this journey would have been so much more difficult without the information that you ladies share. So being a little older (47), I wanted to share my advice. You must workout prior to sx! I spent a minimum of 5 days a week at the gym. I focused on cardio, back extensions, leg press, squats and upper body strengthening. I know it diffently made a difference. I have no low back pin, even though I walk stooped over. My legs are incredibly strong and squat to pick things up with out any pain. I was doing 200 squats a day and 50 full body push ups. I was planking 3-4 minutes at a time. I have picked up so many tips from ladies on here, ie... Miralax, MOM,recliners etc... So my one advice I want to share is strength training. I have had multiple surgeries in the past and this should have been the most difficult. Not that this has a breeze, see my I've had it update, but in general I know I am doing so well because of the amount of time I put in physical prep. Keep healing lovely ladies and if you are pre surgery work out like a mad demon,lol. Updated on 23 Apr 2014: Well crap, I had a pretty long update with things I suggest and it deleted itself, WTH!! Anyway, going for my follow up tomorrow and will let everyone know how it went tomorrow evening. Good night ladies. Updated on 24 Apr 2014: Hello Ladies, I had my follow up appt today. PS says I am ahead of the curve, healing, moving etc...so be careful not to over do! I can now drive. My drain was removed, no big deal, stung for about 30 seconds and that was it. Still have lifting restriction. PS said she was pleased and would see me in 10,days. I did get the ok walk on treadmill, slowly. Weighed myself before my appointment. Was 142 pre OP and 137.5 today ! Yeah me :). My goal wt. is 125. I have not seen the 130s in a decade. Went out to lunch and got tired and sore. Home and getting ready for a nap. Thank you to all you wonderful ladies for sharing your journey. I picked up so many "tips & tricks" that has made this an almost pleasant journey. So if you are "stalking" like so many of us did in our early stages, lol, please share. It is so helpful. Happy healing and prayers for us all! Updated on 25 Apr 2014: I just love reading all the reviews and think "I won't be like that". Well yep, I have had a weepy day today. Absolutely no reason!! Well I love my right boob! My left boob has "side boobage" which the PS said I stll have swelling. So I know I am only on day 9 so I tell myself to give it time to all sort out. Funny when I was reading reviews prior to surgery I would think "it is only your day 6, 7, 8, ect..." and now I find myself doing the same thing. One question for all you lovely ladies. How tight should my CG be? I can breathe, take deep breath ok, but it is just very tight. Any thoughts?? Updated on 25 Apr 2014: Updated on 25 Apr 2014: Updated on 27 Apr 2014: Hello Ladies, Well I have made it to day 11! Went out to lunch with sis- in- law yesterday. Out for about 3 hours and came home and took 2 hr nap :). I ate all my lunch, husband came home and fixed a great supper, steak and baked potatoes. Had a small glass of wine. Ok, I was totally miserable! Nauseated and vomited, lesson learned, can't eat a ton :). So back to healthier eating, fresh strawberries for breakfast. Still SORE, cut back on Vicodin. Took 1/2 pill before lunch outing, 1/2 pill when I got home and the 1 at bedtime. Going to try 1/2 pill before outing today, Advil after and 1 at bedtime. I had such a bad experience early on that I am being cautious :). No physical changes yet. Tip of the day, get the wedge pillow from amazon. About 30.00 dollars (free shipping). I move it around in so many positions and has been extremely helpful in sleeping. Updated on 29 Apr 2014: Hello all, Continue to heal. Spent about 6 hours in car yesterday. Swelling took over after about 4 hours. My breast are very uncomfortable. The stinging in nipple area is very annoying. But upside, I have full sensation :). One thing I have been reflecting on, my results. Not really sure what I was expecting, prebaby body ( unlikely, since that pregnancy was at 16), normal body (don't know what that is, since never experienced it), so what is my expectations? I haven't decided yet. However, so far I am satisfied, and my hubby is too. My boobies no longer lay on my stomach, stomach is 1000x better, so I believe this process has been "worth it" :) Updated on 29 Apr 2014: Updated on 30 Apr 2014: Hello Well I taught my class tonight. Felt so ready on my drive there, so tired now. I am surprised. So happy I took 6 weeks off from full time job. Could I do it, yes, just glad I don't have to. Moral of this story, take as much time off as you can. Happy healing Ladies. Updated on 1 May 2014: Hello all, Recovered from last night. Cannot believe how tired I was. I slept until 9 am. Plus took a 45 min nap before I took my grandson to his baseball game. I think I have tried to stop Vicodin to soon. So I took 1/2 tab about 8 hours apart and feel so much better. One thing I have noticed is a stinging pain in my right nipple. Well I know this normal because of all the great communication that is on here. I can't express enough how much you ladies have helped me in my preparation and recovery. So thankful for you ladies sharing your journey. Updated on 2 May 2014: Well not what we ladies normally get excited about but.... I sneezed with no PAIN.. just little pressure. I started to panic when I felt it coming on. Pleasant surprise. Question for my RSF, I have pain in upper abs, right below breast bone. I think it is from muscle repair, but it is swollen and painful. The rest of my MR does not feel this tender/painful. Ideas ladies. Thanks, happy healing to all. Updated on 3 May 2014: Hello Thought I would try new suit. Top is Lg. and bottom is size 8. Now some of you youngins' (lol) may not be so impressed, but I sure was. As you can see, I'm not a small framed 5 ft. I have a very muscular frame, lot's of gymnastics when I was young. I currently weigh 134, which is 7 lbs down from pre sx weight. Updated on 5 May 2014: Hello all you Beauties! I just had another follow up appointment. Every thing is healing well. She assured me that my "square boob" would "fluff" out over time. Took out some sutures. A little pinchy in BB area but not painful. Now I have to say, being a nurse I put my own steri-strips on my surgical sites after my first shower. Just wanted to make sure everything stayed closed :). My PS told me to quit it, lol, or I was never going to get them off. Of course I am now just shy of 3 weeks so everything is healing up really well. She did pull off all the steri-strips from TT incision. Hers and mine :). I fell so fortunate to be healing up so wonderfully. I thank God daily. A little bump was Hgb was 10.8, which was contributing to some of my tiredness. So I have to increase some iron intake. I have been cleared to exercise except for Pec muscles and abdomen exercises. Will start tomorrow. Let you all know how it goes. :) Updated on 6 May 2014: Hello All, I walked on treadmill at 1.8 for 30 minutes :). I even got a little glisten going, lol. I want to describe how I felt. The first 5 minutes I was a little apprehensive. Settled in to a walk, heart rate slight above resting rate. If you workout using perceived exertion I would rate at about a 3-4. Not much but made me so happy. After about 20 minutes I was feeling pretty good. Heart rate steady and no discomfort. At 25 minute mark I was starting to get a little tight in the abdomen area and a little pinching feeling in my incision. I had set for 30 minutes so I knew I would finish. So after 30 minutes I felt fine, funny a little nervous feeling but physically ok. I then done some bicep curls with a whooping 3 lb weight :). Then I went to grocery store. Whew, I came home and did a few household tasks. I am now sitting in my recliner. I feel a little tired and my abd incision feels a like it is pulling slightly. My breast incisions (bottom) feel a little irritated. I will have to be sure to wear cotton bra tomorrow. I hope my update helps someone else to slowly exercise if they have been cleared by PS. Happy healing ladies. Updated on 6 May 2014: For those of you that are wondering, yes I have swelling. I am experiencing the most swelling I have had. No worries, I was expecting this from reading all you wonderful ladies update. Do not let this deter you, just want to have full transparency on the process. I will update tomorrow :). Updated on 7 May 2014: To pretty not to share, lol. Dannon light & fit greek yogurt and strawberries. Only 100 calories!! Plus 12g protein. Updated on 7 May 2014: I have had a wonderful day. I was a little concerned I might be more swollen from exercising yesterday. No, I woke up the same. But I did sleep better last night so I know I done enough to help me sleep. I got up and actually went to McDonalds for egg mcmuffin sandwich. Here is my tricks, I don't really like Canadian bacon so have them leave that off, but here is my most genius move, absolutely no butter. They typically drench the English muffin in butter. So I request no butter and no Canadian bacon. I have a friend that is a Registered Dietician and she believes that those 2 things being left off is about 100 cal. So my modified sandwich is about 200 calories. Ok so on to today's review. I got up, had to drive 45 min to pay property taxes. Then my hubby needed a carpet piece for his horse trailer. Drove another 45 min to get that. Went gym for my 30 min walk. Felt the same as yesterday, maybe my calves were a little tight but not significant. Kept treadmill at 1.8. Funny side note, most of the same people go to the gym, so I have been working out for a year with these people. I was the balls to the walls type when in gym, so when they seen me yesterday and today you could tell they were wondering what was going on, just struck me funny seeing them glance at me side ways, lol. Next I had to pick grandson up from school, go to 3 places in town to pay bills. Help hubby pack up motor home ( he is going on a boys weekend camping trip with buddies), so I of course had to get sheets, towels, pillows, utensils and other crap we take out at end of season and put back in. Then we went to grocery store for his food (my son is going also). Now I have felt fine all day, but when we left the grocery I started shaking and sweating. Felt an overwhelming tiredness. WTH was going on??? I took me a minute to realize I had not taken anything for pain the entire day, no Advil, no Tylenol or pain med! My breast were stinging, my TT incision felt it was pulling and my legs were tired. Came straight home took pain pill, yep a whole pill and took shower and now laying in bed. My body is not ready to be without some type of analgesic. I will be more diligent tomorrow. Sorry for the long post. Just hope some one benefits from my experiences. Good night all you beautiful ladies! Updated on 10 May 2014: Hello all you lovely ladies, I went to gym today, yay! I walked on treadmill at level, wait for it, 2.2! Felt amazing, no anxiety. I did bicep curls with 3lb weights. I am being very careful and taking it extremely slow. Being a nurse, I have seen so many start out after any type surgery doing to much. I drove for 5 hours yesterday, i was really swollen. Incisions look better everyday. Can't wait until I feel comfortable with breast incisions. Worry my incision will open and my nipples fall off. Of course rationally I know that is not going to happen, but I still obsess a little over the "girls". New pic. Swollen but you can see i am healing????. Have a great day ladies. If you just had surgery, REST! If you are waiting for surgery get on those leg squats, lol. Updated on 10 May 2014: Hi ladies, just throwing this out there. I do not use cover ups on my photos. I do not show my face. I just feel this is plastic surgery site and if some one is offended by seeing my nipples or my pubic area they can pass up reading my posts. I am very comfortable with the human body, including my own. Maybe it is because I am a nurse (for over 20 years) and I have the body in all its glory and agony. I just want everyone to know why I chose not to use cover ups! Happy healing ladies. Updated on 10 May 2014: Hello, Well ladies I have never bought a bikini, not even when teen. So here is the one I decided on. Updated on 11 May 2014: First off, happy Mother's Day to all you wonderful women. I stumbled across a tip that I feel is to valuable not share. If you have some bras that were to tight or cups were wrong size just remove the underwire and you can still use them. I had about 5 bras stuck in bottom of drawer that I had not been able to wear. I cut out the wire and they fit pretty decent for this phase. I also have a flexeeze corset that I couldn't wear because wire would irritate under breast (I'm short), took those wires and now wearing my binder. I want to be clear, this was not my idea, but wanted to pass it along. Updated on 12 May 2014: Hello Ladies, I did 60 min of exercise today. :). I walked on treadmill for 45 min at 2.5 and incline of .5. Felt pretty good. No incision pulling or pinching. I did some leg exercises (lightest weight). I did 50 squats, that was pretty challenging, lol. I finished with 3 lb wt of shoulder workout and 5 lb bicep curls and tricep work. I left the gym a little shaky but felt accomplished. I will be 4 weeks post op on Wednesday. Now the bigger question, how did I feel a few hours later? I have been very tired! To me I feel like I did about 16 months ago when I started going to gym faithfully. Just that feeling of working my body. Yes I am swollen but I knew that was going to be the process. No nap today, trying to wean myself off naps, lol. I just need to get this appetite under control before I start gaining weight. Updated on 12 May 2014: My upper abdomen is very sore. You forget how much you use your core muscles. I also snipped off a few stray sutures. Updated on 13 May 2014: Hello all You ladies will probably be so happy when I go back to work and won't have much time to post, lol. But anyway, squats hurt! Yep I done 50 squats yesterday and my legs feel it today. I know I am sick, but I love that soreness. I know I am working muscle. I plan to work up to 200 aday again but will only add 25-50 per week. I have this weird thing where I have sagging skin on my arms, legs, calves and even forearms. I is like someone who is dehydrated. I know I am not dehydrated because I drink a lot of water and pee frequently. Just odd that I did not have prior to sx. Have any of you ladies experienced this or something similar. So strange. No Gym today. Will go tomorrow :) Updated on 13 May 2014: Today is my sons 31st birthday. So crazy to know that I am 47 with a 31 year old child, just crazy! I feel a little down. Not sure if it is because of his birthday or just tired of being sore and monitoring movements ect... My muscles ache from workout yesterday, all my incision sites are uncomfortable and I can't poop. Wow, what a pity party I have going on, lol. So amazed and thankful for this forum. I know my feelings are normal part of healing. If it wasn't for all the sharing of information on this site I would probably be a wreck. Thank you all RSF! We need each other. Updated on 14 May 2014: Hello all, So today is officially 4 weeks post op. I can't believe it has been that long. First 2 week was kinda of a blur. I had big plans to do some spring cleaning and so on. Work really wants me to come back but I am putting it off :). Really they are great! Physically I am doing great. I actually woke up and done a full body stretch this morning, WOW. My MR still is sore. Incisions do not have any discomfort. I must admit I have not really lifted anythig heavier then a gallon of milk. So guess it is time to quit babbying myself and get back into real world, lol. I am waiting until my 6 week update to change my status to worth it. Just want to make sure everything is good before I change my status. Off to the gym, happy healing ladies. Updated on 17 May 2014: Hello all, I went to gym and walked on treadmill at 3.5 and incline of 2.0. I actually broke a sweat! so excited. I am taking it very easy. Especially with weights. I have only used 7.5 lb weights. I done 75 squats as well. Starting to get better each day. If you haven't surgery yet please workout, it does help. If you have had surgery, take it easy. Women are so used to being "super" everything we over do it :). Every time I get on RS I am thankful for all you ladies. Reading your jouney's has been so inspiring and informative. I would have been lost through this process with out all you RSF. I will post pics next Wednesday when it has been my 5 week anniversary, lol. Updated on 19 May 2014: Hello All, I am so relieved! I just looked up my insurance claim for my BR and it was PAID! Even though I had done prior approval with insurance company I was really worried they would get bill and deny. This has been weighing on my mind for a while now. I just feel so relieved. I feel like I can now enjoy my results! I need to get back to work because my eating is really poor. I think I was focused on healing so my appetite was kept in check. However, this past week has sucked. I weigh myself daily, no weight gain yet. But you ladies know you cannot hide from the scales. I hope to be better focused tomorrow. Btw, I did walk for 45 min at 3.5 and incline of 2.0. So I guess I can put that in the positive column. Happy healing ladies. Updated on 20 May 2014: Hello, I am so upset. I think I have a seroma forming. Area is approx 2 inches long x 1 inch wide. Very puffy, does not hurt. I am calling office tomorrow. My Issue is we are leaving on Thursday for Memorial weekend. I am supposed to return to work on Tuesday after holiday. I hope it will reabsorb on its own! Also my left breast is very painful. I cannot lift my arm above my head with out pain. Now ladies I have a high pain tolerance and mostly have "discomfort". This is pain. Vicodin is relieving it for an hour at most. Feels like a deep burning sensation. I have been very active the past two days getting ready for our trip. If anyone has experienced this or has a clue to why it hurts so badly please let me know. I realize this is not my normal posts but I can't believe on week 5 (just started) this stuff would show up! Kinda bummed. Updated on 26 May 2014: Well had a really good Memorial weekend. First, thank you to all that have served our Country. We went camping (primitive, horse back). I did not ride horses but that is ok. I walked around the State park, had a few drinks (maybe more, lol) and rested up. I have to go back to work tomorrow. My abdomen is very swollen and girls hurt a bit, but overall doing very well. I don't think area was seroma. Ps says it was to small to be seroma, just swollen area. I will be keeping a close eye on this! Ladies, you will be swollen a long time! I knew this but it seems like forever, but worth it. I just keep remiding myself that this is a long process and to be patient. I would do it all over again. Updated on 28 May 2014: Hello All, I have been at work for 2 days now. Really tired, slightly sore and abdominal swelling is the worst. I wear CG but I feel like I am going to bust at times. My breast are great, slight stinging sensation that does go away with use of Advil. I have not been to gym, bad girl right! Just so worn out after work. I am going to start back on Saturday. I feel a little discouraged due to swelling. I must admit I am tired of it! Again ladies, this is a process, know what you are getting in it, but so totally worth it :). Night-night!!! Updated on 31 May 2014: Hello All, I have officially returned to my gym workout. It was awesome. I was able to jog for a half mile, walked the rest. I done all the weight machines (lower wt) and the only thing I noticed so far is abdominal swelling. I feel really good. I could not have done this without all you ladies. The sharing of journeys is to wonderful for words. If you are looking for info and support, this is the place. Updated on 11 Jun 2014: Hello Ladies, I have been away for awhile. Everything is going along wonderfully. No incision problems, starting fade pretty good. I am consistently at the gym. Still can't do abdominal workouts but all exercise engages your core so I am getting some work out. Couple of things I have noticed: my abdome is extremely tight. I have pulling sensation at times. Also the abdominal stiffness is getting better. I can now stand up without doing it in stages. I have quit wearing CG. I dislike the tightness in crouch area. Breast incisions are healing well. Still tight when I reach up. Occasionally I have some soreness in breast tissue, Advil works just fine. I have returned to regular workouts, and this is amazing! I have done full push ups, jogging, weight lifting etc... I have had so many compliments since returning to work. The breast reduction was the best thing I have ever done for myself. I look slimmer since breast size has decreased. I now wear a 34C. The only thing that I am not thrilled with is the shape of my breast. Check out my pics. Tummy tuck still swells everyday. No changes to report on that front. Hopefully I will get to post again next week. Bye for now Updated on 19 Jun 2014: Hello All, Just a quick update. I am feeling great. Incisions are healing. I feel so fortunate that I healed so well. I did not have any areas that widened. I ran today without discomfort and then participated in a HIIT class. Wore out but so happy that I am returning to presurgery strength and fitness. Still can't do actual abdomen work outs until July. So happy I had surgery. If you are healthy and wondering if you should do this, I say, yes, yes,yes! Updated on 16 Jul 2014: Hello everyone, I am officially 3 months post op. I feel great. My abdominal swelling continues, some days more so than others. :). I have gained 3 lbs, ughhhhh! Trying to get back on WW train, lol. I have not been able to run due to chronic knee injury, very frustrating. Oh well, elliptical and walking it is!! I am truly happy with my results. I could be thinner but that is on me, not the PS. I am posting 3 month pic. Scars are healing well. My boobs always look lopsided because of the way I hold my phone, but I assure you they are even. The rippling is from my bra. I was never able to wear front closing bras, so I love them now. Have a great week and happy thoughts to you all!' Updated on 28 Jul 2014: Well hello all, I have to confess that I am back at my presurgery weight. I am so upset with myself. My eating has been crazy!!! I am so disappointed. My surgery was really successful, so why am I sabatogging myself. The summer months are always the hardest. I hope that if I start visiting you all again, it will inspire me. Thank you for listening. Updated on 12 Jan 2015: Hello All, It has been awhile since I updated. I am doing great, scars healing great. I will have a small revision due to a small pooch in lower abdomen. Dr. feels it is a piece of fat pad. I didn't even notice, the Dr. noted area during my follow up visit. I also had botox treatment for frown lines and have been very satisfied. I just want to tell any new Realself gals to exercise prior to surgery. The strength in my legs and arms truly helped during my recovery. I am no spring chicken, so I firmly believe that being fit was instrumental in healing without complications. I no longer have swelling but do have an occasional day that numbness of abdomen plagues me. Just weird but is further apart all the time. Good luck to all you beautiful ladies. Updated on 21 May 2015: Hello All, Well I am 13 months post op! I am so very happy with my results. I have gained 10lbs, so I need to work on that. Scars healing nicely. I did not have the small fat pad removed. I thought, you know what, I have had awesome results, no complications etc... I am not going to push fate. However, I have had Botox in lines on forehead. Results ok, Dr. will use more next time or will have to get Juvederm in frown lines. Side note to anyone considering surgery, go for it!! But pre-exercise is a must. Strengthen your legs and back. It made my recovery so much easier. Bye for now!
So I am 26, with two small children ( 3 and 1), and I am 10 days PO. At this point I am not sure it was the best choice. I was never very big, but fluctuate between 135-145 and I am 5'3''. I gained about 60lbs with my 2nd child and it stretched me out alot so just wanted to remove tummy skin and some of the lovely baggage on my back. My husband was very supportive and has been great playing mister mom. I have actually been following all of you wonderful women for a couple months now because I wanted to see how everything would be, and it has been so encouraging and helpful I think I actually learned more on here from you ladies instead of my actual doctor. I did decide to have the tummy tuck and to be honest I didnt really have any pain from that area like my muscle repair or anything. Not able to stand up straight has been the only real issue and the incisions on my hip bones rubbing on my garment. I also had lipo in the flanks and bra region and to be honest that sucks the most. I found that the lipo was more painful especially when getting up and down, but found that when I stood up I would just rub where it hurt and the pain would subside. The drain wasnt great either it wasnt that big deal at first but toward the end it started getting a little infected and it was driving me nuts. I think when you read through everyones elses experiences you feel like you are prepared but I think it is different when you actually have to go through it yourself. For some reason since I have a high pain tolerance and was a little in shape and wasnt getting rid of alot of fat I would just bounce back but its truly not the case. At times it feels like what in the heck did I do but each day does get better, and that is so true its such a process.... But now i havent mentioned the outcome so far as to how my procedure went and I am sure you may be wondering how I like the results thus far.. prepare yourself.. but after the tummy tuck and lipo of my back region im not sure it was the best choice considering I cant really tell that much of a difference at all, and the bigger issue is my belly button is no longer in the center of my body and its obvious atleast to me and my husband, and it is totally stressing me out. I haven't had a chance to speak with my doctor about it because I went to have my drain finally pulled out today 10DPO which sucked really bad and her nurse did it so I didnt say anything to her about my belly button, and I would rather speak to the Doctor in person so it looks like another week I will have to wait and totally freak out on her because my belly button is on the side of my body.. okay breathing... Like I had mentioned before I dont see a difference from before until now like most of the women who love their results right away, im honestly not loving it especially my BB and really I am thinking it wasnt worth it.. but I will keep everyone updated as time goes on and hopefully get some before pics and after pics thus far.. please do say a little prayer for me though cuz this belly button thing really sucks :)Updated on 10 Apr 2013:Well today is 12 DPO and I am feeling better, my back where I had lipo doesnt hurt that much anymore but it is swollen sometimes and kinda looks like I have two butts on my back. I took the binder off the doctor gave me last night finally couldnt take the zipper any more, it kept scrunching up and digging into my sides. I am glad I am feeling better wishing I could stand up a little straighter, (this older man passed me today walking, and asked me if I was sick cuz I wasnt moving very fast and a little hunched and "pale" looking) I love people :) I totally spaced taking pictures last night and when I remembered I had already put on the stage 2 garment which took me forever to squeeze myself into, so I willl try to remember to take pics without the garment on soon. I will post some today with the garment but they arent very clear so I will hopefully get to that soon. And I am not as stressed as I was about the BB, yes it is still not in the center of my stomach but Im trying not to worry about things I cant change or fix right this second, and I am not even sure they can fix it. But anyways I will post some pics I took today at work and then try to update later. Maybe work on my tan, since I look pale and sickly.. lolUpdated on 10 Apr 2013:Okay took a shower and took some pics started to put bandages on and all of a sudden got real light headed and dizzy had to sit on the toilet I felt so sick, had to scream for my husband cuz I was passing out.. Needless to say I had to lay down with cold rags. I just didnt know if anyone else experienced this? Also posted pics for u gals.. I am happy with my upper stomach and hoping the lower is just swelling but my husband and I def noticed my butt cheeks.. If u look at the pics it looks like the doctor did lipo and took half of my butt cheek, def not happy about that and I don't think that will be changing as time goes on, I'm actually really mad about it.. Well that's another thing to talk to this doctor aboutUpdated on 17 Apr 2013:Well finally meeting with the doctor tomorrow... The BB is a lil off but it's not that big of a deal anymore since the swelling has went down. I'm really glad each day is getting better... I had origanally ordered a large binder and stage 2 garment which fit fine, but I went ahead and ordered a medium, and put it on Monday ... Lol that was an experience , but I feel less swollen and more held together with the smaller size on.. I've gained 5lbs which really stinks, I'm not sure why or how but just can't wait to start working out again... Can't wait to the swelling goes away I'm 2 1/2 weeks po and it feels like its been so much longer... Some days I feel like I wasted money and sometimes I'm glad I did it.. But since its a process I'm trying to focus on the positive and not worry about anything until atleast 6 months.. Incision did start itching like crazy today so I iced it and it stopped.. Well that's all for now until tomorrow where I will be discussing my progress with my doctor and also talking to her about my butt (she lipo 'd it and I'm not happy) well happy healing to everyone
This forum has been so helpful to me that I wanted to contribute back to the community. Thought I’d start with an intro and follow up with regular updates, as I’ve found so helpful from others. I tried to do this in advance, but struggled to get the system to take the review, so I’m trying to play catch up with the postings. I’ve been keeping a journal each day and once this first review is approved, I’ll add the follow-up postings, along with a few pics tied to specific updates. I'll also update the cost once I see the bills. A few stats: - 59 years old with 3 adult children and 2 grandchildren - 5’2” and 130 pounds (I’ve lost 45 lbs over the last 5 years with a goal of losing 10 more after surgery) - Size varied between 34DDD and 36G, depending on brand, etc - Hoping to end up between a full B and a small C cup - And, most importantly, this will be my 2nd BR ! My first BR was in 1977 – I know, many of you weren’t even born yet then. At that time, I was 19 and had just delivered my first child a few months earlier. The surgery went well, they took off 1300 grams (700 & 600) and I had excellent surgeons. At that time, the surgery took 5 hours with 2 surgeons, each performing one side only and I was in the hospital for 6 days – all of which was normal. Everything healed very well with minimal scaring and nice symmetry. I do remember telling the doctor at a follow-up appointment that I thought my breasts were still too large to which he commented that I would be glad when I was older. Fast forward 40 years of not being able to buy bras, swim suits or clothes that fit properly, not to mention constantly being self-conscious and uncomfortable … and I still think they’re too large!! About 6 years ago my adult daughter had a BR and mentioned to her surgeon that she didn’t want to have the issues I had with being left too large. That’s how I became aware that it was possible to have a second BR. Time passed and I kept thinking about this, but took no action. Then this past summer I was catching up with a colleague and he mentioned that his wife had overcome breast cancer during the prior year, and that the surgeon who did her reconstruction was a ‘true artist.’ Of course, I asked for the surgeon’s name. It took several months to get in with her. The first appointment went well, but I didn’t ask near enough questions. I was impressed that when I described the markings from the 1st surgery, she instantly knew the name of that technique -- McKissock. She submitted to insurance, backed up by files from my chiropractor, but weren’t sure whether they would cover a 2nd BR. Lo and behold, after several delays, it was approved around Thanksgiving. I was ecstatic! Tried to schedule in December, but the surgeon was booked solid. With working around business travel & a vacation, surgery was scheduled for March 8th. Updated on 17 Mar 2017: PRE-OP APPOINTMENT Had my pre-op appointment and my husband came along. I had a ton of questions for the PS. We discussed her method, the size I wanted to end up, how she would go after side boob, incisions, etc. She was very forthcoming with the details of the surgery, etc. She said that I most likely will not have drains. She explained why she prefers not to use them and what would make her decide they should be used. She did play down some of my questions and concerns regarding recovery and basically told me not to worry about it. That she felt quite certain I will heal well with a relatively quick recovery. Admittedly, I have healed well from surgeries in the past, including a hysterectomy & pelvic floor repair about 5 years ago. We also talked at length about the impact of this being my 2nd BR. What she's likely to find and how it could impact this newest surgery. She really doesn't expect any significant concerns, but did acknowledge that there's no way to tell for sure. Afterwards, my husband expressed concern that she hadn’t directly answered some of my questions, rather told me not to worry about it. I had the same concern as I’m a bit of a control freak who needs to know all the details and I don’t handle “trust me” very well as an answer. After all, this is MY body and the impact will be on MY life. I kept moving forward with the schedule despite that small voice of concern in the back of my head. I’ve wanted this for so long and now it was within reach, and approved by insurance. Plus, she was highly recommended by a colleague whose wife had her for reconstruction, which I’m presuming is a much tougher process than reduction. So, I convinced myself all would be fine. Updated on 17 Mar 2017: SURGERY DAY Let’s do this!! The surgical center did a great job. The anesthesiologist was awesome, roughly my age, explaining everything very thoroughly (worked great with my OCD personality). He asked if I was nervous, which I was, and he reassured me that my surgeon was one of the best and he was quite sure I’d be pleased with her work. Once in ER, he joked that I should think of my favorite place, which he suggested would include wearing a swim suit. Of course, I don’t remember much after that. ? I've attached a before photo with the markings from the surgeon. Very different from the way I was marked for my first BR. I woke up and felt like I had a desert in my mouth and throat. They had crushed ice available and brought me some Sprite Zero, which really hit the spot. The nurse encouraged me to eat some crackers, but they seemed to turn to dry cement in my very dry mouth. Then they offered applesauce, which was much better. All in all, I had 2 small Sprites, at least 2 cups of ice, & the applesauce, yet no nausea. Yea! I was offered a choice of 2 pain meds, and chose to go with the weaker one (hydrocodone). I started off taking 2 at a time that night (every 6 hrs). I also had anti-nausea meds, but never needed them. And, of course, I had an antibiotic as well. When we left, I put a pillow under the shoulder harness. The nurse commented what a great idea, as if she’d not seen it done before. Thanks to those on this list who recommended it – very helpful. One of my huge concerns had been sleeping on my back as I’m a stomach sleeper. To combat this, I slept with a large yoga bolster under my knees & pillows on both sides. The first night didn’t go very well. Between being dehydrated prior to surgery (no food or drink) and then trying to rehydrate afterwards, my system was a bit messed up. I woke up once an hour to go pee. On the bright side, this gave me a chance to keep up on my meds overnight. Updated on 17 Mar 2017: 1ST DAY POST-OP I am really surprised with how well I feel so far. Of course, the incisions hurt, but I seem to be over most of the effects of the anesthesia. I credit this mostly to the skill of the anesthesiologist in mixing his ‘cocktail’. I do have quite the sore throat and am glad I had some Hall’s to help sooth it. I’m going between sitting on the sofa and walking around the house (slowly). I was taking 2 pain pills at a time, but found they would take an hour to take full effect & wear off almost an hour before I could have more. Going to 1 pill every 3-4 hours has maintained a more steady control of the pain. The surgical center called to follow up on me. I mentioned to her that I was itching all over, which I was blaming on how the Hibiclens had dried my skin out. She said it’s a side effect of the pain meds and to take some Benadryl. That was one thing I had not purchased in advance, but luckily I had some that was still within expiry date. It has helped tremendously. I’m now taking 1 Benadryl with each pain pill during the day. The worst pain is in the side boob where I suspect she took the lipo to it. It feels like I have a half golf ball on each side under my arm. Haven’t had the nerve to look yet. I’m trying not to disturb the dressing until I’m ready to take my first shower. I don’t have any visible drainage through the bra. After dinner, I couldn’t stay awake and slept several hours on the recliner. Then off to bed. Hopefully, tonight will be better. I’m going with a small yoga bolster under my knees (the large was a bit too large by morning), along with the pillows. Wish me luck. Updated on 17 Mar 2017: 2nd DAY POST-OP Last night was much better. I only woke up every 3-4 hours, which was when I needed pain meds. In total, I slept over 9 hours, which was much needed. I started off by taking a shower this morning. My PS allowed a shower at 24 hrs post-surgery, but I chose to wait a bit longer until the 2nd morning. Took off the dressing and I was amazed with what I saw. Turns out there had been very little bleeding or drainage. But more surprising is that I have very little bruising. And even though quite swollen, the size and shape are perfect!! I love them already. I just kept looking in the mirror – I never thought I’d have ‘normal’ boobs, and I sort of couldn’t believe it was me. I didn’t take any pics, but will tomorrow morning. Doing everything I reasonably can to prevent infection. Using hibiclens, clean washrag & towel, clean robe, fresh gauze, etc. This is particularly important since we’re on well water (although we do have a great water treatment system removing impurities & sediment). After the shower, I put the surgical bra back on with gauze padding the incisions. I’ve still been lounging around on the sofa today, and piddling around the house some. My husband had taken the last 3 days off as well to take care of me. But I’ve recovered so well that he’s now out in the workshop building ‘something.’ He is continuing to cook the meals (which he does very well), and checks on me regularly. He knows that I’ll overdo if given the chance and he’s doing everything he can to slow me down. The pain in the incisions is getting a bit stronger today, but it’s still tolerable. It doesn’t help that I get preoccupied and end up sitting here until past time for the pain meds. On the nutrition side, I had increased my Vit C 2 weeks before surgery, at the same time I stopped taking my krill oil, etc. I also added a zinc supplement a week before surgery, and am being very careful to make sure I get at least 50 gm of protein, with more than that most days. I’m also taking the stool softener, and drinking lots of water. I did stay on my hormone therapy throughout, skipping just the morning of surgery. It took too long to get my hormones balanced to let them get out of whack over this – and the compounding pharmacy assured me they would not thin my blood or have any ill effect on my recovery. I’ll try to post again tomorrow with some pictures this time. Until then …. Updated on 18 Mar 2017: 3rd DAY POST-OP Slept fairly well last night – only up twice. When I showered this morning, I noticed that there’s a bit more bruising than there was yesterday, but still not nearly as bad as I expected. I’m also noticing that the breast tissue is a bit softer in some places, which makes me think the swelling is starting to go down just a bit. Took a pic this morning. Yesterday, much of my pain was along the lower incisions. It felt as if I was in an underwire bra that was too tight. Of course, I was still in the surgical bra (without wires) and it’s not tight across the lower band at all. It was probably from too much leaning forward while sitting on the sofa – I was on my laptop or tablet most of the day which could have put undue pressure along the lower incision. I’m trying to keep my back much straighter today and relieve the pressure on the incisions as much as possible. All in all a much better day. Even through the gauze & tape, I can tell I still have pretty good sensitivity, which is great. With this being a 2nd BR, I was really worried that my sense of touch on the breast tissue or nipples would be impacted quite a bit. It appears that has not happened. Still taking all the meds & supplements on schedule – pain pills, Benadryl, antibiotics, zinc, vit c, etc, plus the stool softener. It’s been a long day and I’m starting to feel it. Time to give it a rest for the evening! Updated on 18 Mar 2017: 4th DAY POST-OP So boredom is officially setting in. While I know the lifting restrictions are important in my healing, there just isn’t much one can do that doesn’t include lifting more than 5 lbs. I’m so ready for the first two weeks to be over and I’m only on day 4. ? And even though I’m sure the 3rd & 4th week with a 15 lb restriction will also feel limiting, it’s certainly better than 5!! Sleeping on my back has been less of an issue that I anticipated. The bolster under my knees & pillows at my sides help tremendously. And I’m timing my pain meds so that I take a dose right as I’m going to bed to help me sleep. Tried ice packs tonight for the first time in the side boob area. That’s where the most swelling has been. Probably should have done that a day or two ago. There was nothing on the after-surgery instructions about ice and I didn’t think about it until now. And I was feeling much better than I expected to for those first few days. I also started with the arnica gel, being careful not to let it near the actual incisions. It has a nice cooling effect which felt good. Hopefully, it will help with the swelling & bruising, even though the bruising is nowhere near as bad as I expected it to be. The stitches are not yet itching, just steady aching. The only itching I have is all over the rest of my body, from the pain meds, and taking a Benadryl with each pain pill is helping a lot. Oh, and of course continuing with the stool softeners since we know the pain pills have a constipating effect for most of us. Updated on 18 Mar 2017: 5th DAY POST-OP Returned to work today, which in my case means that I walk down the hall to a spare bedroom which is my office. Working from home I can dress however I like, which is very convenient during recovery. I’m trying to go without pain pills during the day, taking them only at night to help me sleep. We’ll see how this first day goes. Ended up putting in 9 hours at the laptop, not counting a break for lunch. Probably a bit too long, but there were some errors made last week while I was out that had to be researched & then corrected. I started wearing down around 3, but kept going until my last conference call was over at 5:15. I survived without pain pills, but will definitely take them to sleep tonight. (By the way, my colleagues don’t know I had this surgery last week, only that I took a few days of PTO. For a variety of reasons I won’t bore you with that felt like the right choice for my situation.) Once done for the day, I came downstairs and found the ice packs. The side boob area was a bit swollen and achy again, so I sat here for 15 or so minutes with the ice (until I was shivering even though I had a blanket & the heated recliner on). It helped a bit. My husband had made some tasty potato soup yesterday, so we heated that up for supper. Glad I didn’t need to cook this evening. He did all the cooking last week, with me helping with a few meals over the weekend. Think he’s going to be cooking most of this week as well, especially if I keep putting in such full days. Even with some of the extenuating circumstances, I still have absolutely no regrets. Only wish I’d have done it years ago … or that the original surgeons had taken enough off the first time. The anesthesiologist asked me about that after noticing that this was a 2nd BR surgery. But as I told him, I was a 19 year old who was not yet comfortable with such subjects – it never even dawned on me that first time to discuss what size I would end up. Not to mention that those were different times and without the internet or even the most basic home computers yet, there was no good way to research medical subjects so most of us trusted the advice we were given. Time to crash for this night. I’m trying to keep up with this daily journal at least through the first follow-up appointment. Then I’ll probably cut back a bit unless something new is happening. Updated on 18 Mar 2017: 6th DAY POST-OP Today was much better. I put in a full day at the laptop without hitting a ‘wall’ mid-afternoon. Pain is definitely at a manageable level & itching isn’t yet bad (although I’m sure that is coming in the next few weeks). The bruising is continuing to improve as well. Not sure if that’s the normal rate or if the arnica gel is helping that along. Either way, I am pleased. I really look forward to my morning showers as the warm water running over my chest feels so good. I’m still just gently dabbing with the hibiclens on the chest, but I feel that it’s really helping with the healing. So far, the steri-strips from surgery are holding strong. I lost just a couple on day 2, but since then I haven’t lost any. I change the gauze every day as well, even though I’ve had no drainage or bleeding. I definitely should have bought more gauze pads in advance. Tonight will be my first night without the pain meds. I’m trying to move to just Tylenol. Wish me luck! ? I have only had 1 pain pill each night for the last 2 nights, with no others during the day. I have continued to take the stool softeners for obvious reasons. I finally feel like they have caught up with the constipating effect of the pain meds, and I’m comfortable in that area. I’m going to try to stop them as well. The sooner I’m able to get back to a regular routine of only supplements & healthy eating, the better. I’m shocked at how well my recovery has gone. I was really worried that now that I’m pushing 60, things would heal much slower than in the past. If anything, I feel that I’m actually healing quicker. I suspect some of that is that I now live a much healthier lifestyle that in prior years. And some of it is because I took the advice of so many of you who have gone down this path before me. Whatever it is, I couldn’t be happier. Bottom line – for all of you who are hesitating because you’re worried about recovery, just know that for every difficult story you read on here there’s at least that many good stories, probably many more who haven’t take the time to write about their experiences. Updated on 18 Mar 2017: 7th DAY POST-OP So … the itching is really starting to set in, but the pain is fairly minimal. The tape is still sticking like it’s never going to let go. I do let warm water run over it in the shower each morning, and pat it with a pouf and hibiclens. Then pat dry with a towel. I’m also keeping the incisions padded with gauze between them and the surgical bra. Basically, being very careful not to disturb the tape as it seems logical to me that the longer it chooses to stay on, the more likely that the incisions will be mostly or fully closed by then. At least that’s what I’m telling myself. I didn’t sleep well last night, which was the first night I tried to do without pain pills. I’m fine without them during the day, but just 1 pain pill seems to help me get to sleep. Think I’ll keep with that routine as sleeping on my back is difficult enough, and with even minimal pain or itching, it can become very frustrating. Hopefully, tonight will be better. Updated on 18 Mar 2017: 8th DAY POST-OP Slept really well last night. In fact, according to my Fitbit, it was one of the better nights of sleep I’ve ever had. Since the first day, I had not had any bleeding or drainage. Well, this morning I noticed a small spot where it had bled, maybe just a drop, at the T-incision. Not surprising, but not what I wanted to see either. I had my 1st follow-up appointment today. It took a whole 1 to maybe 2 minutes. She felt things are looking good. She OK’d me to begin wearing sports bras (no underwires) rather than the surgical bra they sent me home in. I asked how long to expect the tape to last, and she said I’d probably start losing it within the next week or so. That it would probably be mostly gone by my next follow-up appointment which is 2 weeks from today. Also, asked about the minor bleeding since yesterday, she wasn’t concerned, but did say we’ll just want to keep an eye on it. This is all so different than what I remember from my first BR 40 years ago. Then I remember going home with lots of stitches. I can even remember the stitching pattern – a running stitch around the nipple and then individual stitches on the rest of the incisions. When they removed the surface stitches, that’s when they put tape on to help hold the incisions. I also had dissolvable stitches on the inside areas, which mostly dissolved, but a few of them worked to the surface for the next year or so. The incisions (and thus my scars) weren’t all that different from what I have now. I do remember very well the day they removed the tape. I had not been allowed to get that area wet at all and it was really starting to smell by then. Turns out I had developed an abscess in an incision area – the smell was literally my infected flesh. The amount of infection that ran out when they removed the tape seemed huge. I remember the nurse & doctor’s shocked faces. Then once they cleaned & treated everything, they tried to tell me that it was not all that unusual … but their faces had told a different story. They packed it and gave me antibiotics and it cleared up rather quickly, with no permanent effects. So, when they sent me home with antibiotics this time right off the bat, you can bet I made sure to take them religiously and to take every last one of them. I almost wanted to ask for more, just in case, but know we need to also be careful not to overdo antibiotics so that they’ll still work for us when we really need them. That’s also part of why I’ve been so strict about using only hibiclens since well before surgery and taken the other precautions I have to keep the incisions clean. Hopefully, it will work as it should this time. Updated on 18 Mar 2017: 9th DAY POST-OP Today went really well. First whole day in the sports bra. When I first put it on yesterday it seemed almost like a compression bra, but then the surgical bra had seemed almost too large and loose. Today, though, the sports bra simply felt like a nice, snug fit. And the incisions aren’t hurting or itching near as much, possibly because this bra barely moved vs the other one shifting at times. I did notice in the shower that a few pieces of tape are just starting to loosen. It’s great that they’ve held so well for so long, but it’s probably time. I’m expecting that as they loosen, it will impact the scab that’s obviously formed over most of the incisions. And with any other scab that is working loose, there will almost certainly be some bleeding and pain, not to mention itching. I’m not looking forward to that, but realize its part of the healing process. I’ve been able to work a full day (9-10 hrs) each day this week (in my home office). Monday was a bit rough, but the remaining days haven’t been bad at all. It’s been a really busy week as far as work tasks needing attention and the occasional fire drill that keeps things exciting and frustrating at the same time. Many of you know just what I mean by that. It definitely helps in my recovery that I’m not in a true office with all the expectations that come with that. Bottom line is that my fears on returning back to work after just a few days were unfounded. All seems to be going well. I’m also very pleased with the size, which I suspect will be a B once the swelling is all gone. My husband is thrilled with them, although he’s scared to even hug me right now for fear of hurting me. Updated on 18 Mar 2017: 10th DAY POST-OP So, today was Saturday. Started losing a few strips of tape this morning after my shower. Not all that many, but at 10 days it’s probably time for them to start coming lose. Didn’t seem to cause any bleeding, which I’m grateful for. I took another pic this morning as I’m still amazed at how well things are healing, but more than that I still love the size and shape. Of course, I know that it will take months for everything to settle into place, but I’m still confident that this was the right decision and I’m loving the outcome. Since my husband and I are both woodworkers and in the midst of a totally-DIY remodel, weekends are usually our busy time. But I’m still under a 5 lb lift restriction! So, we decided to build a couple of bat houses, which we’ve been wanting to do for several years, but never had time. Seemed like a project that we could get done in a weekend and wouldn’t stress me beyond my restriction. All in all, that was a fair plan. I did have to keep reminding myself to back off and ask for help, even with something as simple as tightening a clamp. It was a good day and we got a lot done. All of the cutting is done, but ran into a slow process when it came to making sure all of the interior surfaces had appropriate foot holds for the little bats. We still have a bit to do tomorrow. Finished up by going out for Mexican and had a margarita – sure did miss them when I was taking pain meds. I don’t think I overdid it, but I’ll know more in the morning. Ok, so I’m caught up with the posts. I’ll try to keep adding them real time from this point forward. I am curious … for those who went home all taped up … how long did it take for the tape to come off? And what impact did it have on the bleeding or drainage? Just curious what to expect. Updated on 19 Mar 2017: 11th DAY POST-OP Finished the bat house project and don’t feel like I overdid it … much. For most of the day, I had no pain or itching. But toward the end of the day I could feel the lower incisions just a bit. Not bad, but they are making their presence known. Finishing the weekend as we often do with a nice dinner and a fire in the fireplace. Hopefully, I’ll be able to sleep well tonight. I’ve been counting down the days of having to sleep on my back since day 1! I’m so ready to be able to roll over!! Updated on 20 Mar 2017: 12th DAY POST-OP Having a bit more seepage, which according to the take-home sheet from the surgeon, is perfectly normal for this point … and is liquefied fat. How glorious! One more reason why it’s good to have a lot, and I mean a lot, of gauze pads stocked up before surgery Since my 20’s, I’ve always felt I carried my stress in my neck, shoulders & particularly between my shoulder blades. Since I had already had a breast reduction, it never dawned on me it could be cause by my boobs. It must be my Type A personality and job stress. After reading many of the posts here, I started to wonder … is it really stress or has the fact that my breasts were still rather large been the cause all along. So many of you have talked about the ‘pain’ being gone immediately after surgery and I wondered … could I really be that lucky. Well, I have to admit it seems, at this early point, to be a mix of both. The pain in my shoulders and shoulder blades seems to be gone. But the neck pain most likely is tied to the stress of being a Type A person in a somewhat stressful job. Nothing that a little yoga can’t handle! Updated on 21 Mar 2017: 13th DAY POST-OP Not much change from yesterday … still seeping, still itching and the tape is still hanging on. Strange thing with the seepage, it never seems to be wet. It just dries and makes the gauze stick to the tape or the incision. I then have to very carefully peel it away to keep it from taking the tape or scab with it. I called the PS office today to see how long I should expect the seepage to last. Talked with the receptionist, who is quite knowledgeable. The response was that it varies by person. And that as long as it wasn’t looking infected & I wasn’t running a temp, then it should be fine. I also asked about the tape just to confirm what I already thought regarding keeping it in place as long as you can. She agreed the longer it stays on, the more likely the incisions will close up without any issues. I’m sure there’s a point where they’d take it off, but apparently that seldom becomes a concern. And then, out of curiosity, I asked if she knew where the liquefied fat was coming from. What had caused it to liquefy. I don’t remember anything like that from my first BR (40 yrs ago). It would make sense at the side boob area where they did lipo, but most of the seepage is around the nipples, with a few very small spots along the lower incision. The receptionist laughed and said she had no idea. She’d never been asked that before. She suggested I ask the PS at my next follow-up. That’s one of several questions I have for the PS when I see her next Thursday. Updated on 24 Mar 2017: 2 Weeks Post-Op So, today I go from a 5 lb lifting restriction to 15 lbs. That should give me a bit more freedom to do things around the house and in the workshop. Otherwise, everything remains the same. We went out to dinner & then the store in preparation for dinner guests tomorrow. Found some arnica tablets & arnica oil at the store, so decided to give them a try. Hoping it will help with the swelling. Then came home to do a quick straightening. Luckily we had thoroughly cleaned just before the surgery, so it wasn’t all that bad yet. I’ve found the pain seems to come and go, and move around from place to place. Assuming that’s a combination of tissue healing and nerves reconnecting. Had one spot above the nipple start hurting quite a bit, then a new bruise showed up. Didn’t expect that 2 weeks after the surgery. Not sure if I overdid at some point, or if this is a normal part of healing. Even with the change in lifting restriction, it would be prudent to keep being careful about lifting & activities that use those same muscles. Updated on 24 Mar 2017: 15 Days Post-Op I feel like a broken record. The tape is holding strong, and the incisions continue to itch. At home I’ve found I can gently rub through my clothing and help the itching. But in public that’s a bit tough. We had dinner guests tonight and by the end of the evening I had had it with sitting at the table & not being able to rub things. Just like a cut would on any other part of the body, the scab is continuing to thicken & pull back just a bit from the surrounding skin. It feels as if the incisions are a size or two smaller than the surrounding tissue. I’m hitting that point where I can’t wait for the tape & scabs to fall off. Yet, I’m completely resisting the urge to help them as I truly want the incisions to close on their own. I’ve seen pics of some of incisions that are slow to close, something my daughter struggled with as well, and I’m trying very hard to be careful of anything that could get in the way of full healing. Hopefully, that will happen naturally very soon. The seepage is a bit less, but I’m still changing the gauze twice a day & having to wash a bra every day. Not sure how long that will keep happening. And I’ve found that my morning shower is my favorite part of the day. The warm water is the best relief for the itching I’ve found. It probably helps that our shower head has a very gentle flow rather than like some of the shower heads that have so much pressure they feel as if they could almost cut your skin. Updated on 24 Mar 2017: 16 Days Post-Op The weather was beautiful today, so I took my first walk around the subdivision this evening. Surprisingly, I found I had to walk a bit slower than usual (I’m normally a fast walker). Not because I was tired or low on energy, but because I could feel the impact in my incisions. This sports bra fits tightly enough that it almost feels like a compression bra, so I don’t think it was for lack of support. I’m assuming things are still tender deep within the tissue just as it is on the surface. It still felt great to be out in the fresh air! Looking forward to a weekend of getting a few things done around the house without overdoing. We’ll see how it goes. Updated on 25 Mar 2017: 17 Days Post-Op Finally, some of the tape strips started releasing this morning, and it appears that the incisions are well healed underneath. Sure hope that continues to be the case. At the point a bit more of the tape has released, I’ll post a new pic. The good news … due to my lifting restrictions, we’re getting some of the smaller projects done we’ve been putting off for years done. Hung the bat houses we made last weekend, and built a support system I’ve been wanting for quite a while for my Asiatic lilies. My husband is looking forward to one more slow weekend and finally building that mail box structure he’s been wanting to build. The bruising that came up new last week is continuing to both grow and subside (different places). I’m not sure why this is happening, but it doesn’t seem to be causing any serious pain or concern. Just the same, I’ll be glad for my next follow up on Thursday to make sure it truly is nothing. Otherwise, things are going well. Updated on 27 Mar 2017: 18 Days Post-Op The tape is all off around the nipples, along with the crusty stuff that seems to be a mix of surgical glue, dried seepage & a few small blood spots. The incisions seems to have closed really well. It’s amazing how that relieved the itching in that area. I still intend to pad them with gauze each day for quite a while. There are a few spots that have still been seeping. I’m hoping that by opening them up it will help them dry out. We’ll see. Out of an abundance of caution, I’ve left the rest of the tape in place for now. Just want to make sure the incisions are well healed first. Otherwise, I’m doing fine. Finished up one more small project that was mostly done, but had been procrastinating on. Guess that’s the silver lining of dealing with these limitations. Updated on 27 Mar 2017: 19 Days Post-Op Based on how well the tissue around the nipple is feeling without the tape, I allowed some of the other tape to fall off (or encouraged it just a bit) – OK, maybe it was most of the tape. I did leave on the tape at the T-incision, just to play it safe. The area that’s been hurting and itching the most is right between the boobs. It’s literally been a non-stop irritation (or worse) since day 1. As I was removing the tape, which in this case, was still solidly attached. It turns out the skin under just those areas had reacted to the tape. It literally had whelps where the tape had been. I’m hoping that this will go down quickly. After a full day of work, plus a few errands, I can say that the areas where I removed the tape are also feeling great. And the area between my boobs is feeling much better. But the tape I left on the T-zone area is driving me absolutely batty. Most of it was ready to come off this morning, but I pressed it back into place even though it appeared to be healed underneath the tape. Now, I can’t wait to take a shower in the morning so that I can allow that to come off. I truly think it’s ready. Once it’s all off, I’ll take another pic. Updated on 28 Mar 2017: 20 Days Post-Op So, the last of the tape is now off, which has helped immensely with the itching. I feel like things are healing well, particularly since I’m not a young chicken any more (as my daughter so kindly reminded me). And as the tape has come off, the seepage has pretty much stopped. I have one spot that was just uncovered this morning that is seeping a little, but I suspect that will stop in a day or two. Overall, I’m quite pleased with the progress. I had ordered two more sports bras which finally arrived. They are MUCH more comfortable than the others were. In case you’re interested, they are Fruit of the Loom 96014 ($9.80 each through www.herroom.com). They’re probably also available from one or more of the big box stores. Updated on 29 Mar 2017: 3 Weeks Post Op So, today I celebrated 3 weeks post-op and I couldn’t be happier that I finally decided to do this. I’m pleased with the rate I’ve recovered at, which had been my biggest concern. The incisions are completely closed with no infections this time. Not bad for someone pushing 60. Trying to decide what size to request was one of the toughest parts. I’ve always had big boobs and almost felt like that was part of who ‘I’ was. Yet, that’s why I was having this done a 2nd time and I didn’t want to regret not having gone smaller. In the end, I requested to be a B cup (although a small C was OK as well), and that’s where I think I’ll be once the swelling is all gone. When I first saw the new girls, I have to admit to an internal reaction of, “what have I done? This doesn’t even look like me.” But that quickly changed to acceptance and then being thrilled with the new size. The thought of being able to wear a sun dress, or buy a swim suit off the rack and have it fit, or wear some of the cute yoga tops I see in class, or actually being able to buy a lacey bra, and so on … well, it’s just amazing! Equally amazing has been my husband’s reaction. He was never a ‘boob man’ and completely embraced me having this done. But he now beams as he sees me and them, and can’t wait until they’re healed. Yet, he’s been so good to me through it all, doing all the cooking those first few days and doting over me making sure I wasn’t overdoing it too soon. He’s been hesitant to even hug me for fear of hurting me. This was totally worth it!! Updated on 30 Mar 2017: 22 Days Post-Op Today I had my 2nd follow-up appointment with the PS. She was very pleased with the progress. Glad to see the tape was all off, and reassured me that I’d done the right thing by ‘persuading’ the last few pieces of tape to come off. She noticed without me saying anything that some of the tape had irritated my skin (which it definitely had). She also cut off the loops of stitching at the end of the incisions, which I was very grateful for as they were irritating when anything rubbed against them. I’m now free to wear any bra (without an underwire) that I’d like. The spot that has been irritating me the most is right between the boobs, and I truly feel it will help when a bra is trying to separate them rather than the sports bra that turns them into a uni-boob. She did comment that I happen to have boobs that are close to each other vs some women who have ones set farther apart. She also commented that normally she would not have taken the incisions so close to the center, but she had no choice given the way my first BR was done. I’m also free to sleep in whatever position I find comfortable. Hallelujah!! Not sure I’m ready for stomach sleeping, but really glad to get off my back. And my husband is thrilled to no longer have a pillow between us! I’m under the 15 lb lifting restriction for another week. She recommended that I not go crazy with lifting after that, but to take it easy for another 2-4 weeks. She did say I’m fine with a full range of movement of my arms, including movement that affects the chest muscles as long as I listen to my body and not go overboard. My plan is to start yoga back up the 2nd week of May with a few private sessions where the movements can be adapted to my limitations, and then go back to full classes in June (3 months post-op). She felt that was a great plan. I also asked about scar treatment. She prefers silicone treatments. She’s OK with Mederma, but not so much with vitamin E or natural oil treatments. That pretty much matches the consensus of what I’ve been reading online. I did ask how much she took off in the surgery. She said the pathology reports showed it as just over 480 grams per side. That’s much more than I even thought I had to lose, so I’ve very pleased with that as the insurance approval was based on her removing 300-400 grams per side. So I should be good to go on that. All in all, I couldn’t be happier. I’m healing well and feeling great. I’m confident the scars will heal in time, and the swelling will all go down as well. I’m looking forward to seeing what they’ll look like once they settle into a final shape. At this point, I’m going to stop the daily updates as they would become boring very quickly. I will add updates only as things change. I only hope that some of you have found these daily updates to be helpful and even encouraging. I’m so happy I did this and only wish I’d have done it sooner. And I hope the same for each of you! Updated on 21 Apr 2017: So, I’m now 6 weeks post-op and am amazed at how well I’m healing, especially considering I’m 59. I went on my first business trip last week with no issues with my luggage or briefcase. The team I work with is the same each monthly trip, and none of them seemed to notice at all. Granted we were exceptionally busy for the entire 4 days, but I still expected 1 or 2 of the women to notice and that didn’t happen. To me that’s a testament to how well the PS did her work. I look so natural, particularly under clothes, and I’m thrilled. The scars are blending nicely. There are still a few spots that are thicker, but I’m massaging the scar cream into them regularly and using silicone gel. I’ve had one spot that leaked a very tiny amount well past when the others had stopped, but that seems to have finally healed as well. I went bra shopping at the mall, which is something I hadn’t done in decades. I seem to be a small C cup, but that could change as the last of the swelling goes down over the next few months. The bras I’m wearing now are so comfortable that I just can’t believe it. So this is how the rest of the women feel each day – makes me wonder what they were complaining about! Can’t wait to go swim suit shopping, which I always dreaded. Also looking forward to buying a new yoga top. And the best part is that I no longer have any pain in my shoulders, back or shoulder blades. It is completely gone. I’m amazed. All those years I blamed it on stress, and it was actually caused by my big boobs. A fun side note – as I said in an earlier post, my husband is not a boob man. I’ve asked more than once through the years why me, to which he replies there’s more to women than their bodies (which is another reason I love him). But now that they are smaller, he’s paying more attention to them. He refers to them lovingly as ‘his little buddies.’ He’s still very afraid of hurting me, but is beginning to get past that. All in all, it’s been a great experience. So, for those who are worried or hesitant and have read the horror stories, just know that there are just as many good stories out there (probably many more than the bad ones). Follow your heart, trust your gut and listen to your body … you’ll be so glad you did.
I'm a little concerned I thought maybe it was swelling but now I'm not sure. Its been 16 days and my right breast looks totally different than my left. I've been massaging them my right hurts and is harder than my left. Next appointment with PS is March 17. Should I be worried or are they just healing differently?
Wanted juvaderm in lips usually get 1/2syring but receive 1 full this visit but just seemed to much for me. I have duck look and can't move top lip whe talking. I'm leaving for mexico next wk and would like this taken care of possibly with whydase Friday morning if at all possible I have to be at work at noon. I'd appreciate any help as soon as possible.
