I have been dieting on and off my whole life! At about he 17, I started gaining weight and could not get it off. Turns out I had been diagnosed , much later, with polycystic ovary syndrome, making it very difficult to lose weight. I developed the classic PCOS body shape...skinny legs and a big belly. My mom died of cancer bout 10 years ago. Shortly before her death, I had reached an all time high of 260 lbs. she said her wish for me was to be happy and to have weight loss surgery to lose weight and get healthy. About a year later, I had gastric band surgery. I lost about 50 lbs and stayed that way for many years. About 2 yers ago I started taking Farxiga, a drug for diabetes, and jump started my weight loss again. I lost 30 more lbs. Now down 80lbs, I have excess skin and flab to deal with. I am 52 years old now, eek, how did that happen lol, and ready to do it! I have picked 3 local surgeons to have consults with and plan to have my surgery in October. Any advice is appreciated!
Updated on 17 Aug 2019:
I’ve picked my surgeon and made a date for surgery! So excited and nervous, 6 weeks til a new me!
Updated on 27 Aug 2019:
7 weeks til my life changing operation. I am so excited and nervous at the same time. I’m mentally and physically preparing for this. I was up all night looking at tuckthattummy.com, this is an awesome resource for before, during and after tt surgery. I am also planning a garage sale in sept and have been purging my house, almost like when I was about to give birth to my son. I feel the need to ‘lightener ‘ in body and life so I have nothing to worry about during recovery. I can’t stop thinking about what to wear to the surgery and after. I bought a couple t-shirt dresses but not sure why is best to wear. Any suggestions are appreciated
Updated on 2 Oct 2019:
Went for my pre-op apt today. So excited and nervous, surgery is 2 weeks from tomorrow and I can’t wait. The possibility of a flat stomach is something I thought I’d never achieve! Every time I look in the mirror I imagine the results I might obtain and it’s jut so hard to believe. I feel like I’m trapped in this abused (by me) body. I’m so tired of the constant fight to keep my under belly clean and dry, avoiding rashes/itchiness. It’s a constant battle.
All of my questions were answered and I got all my pre-op and post -op instructions today. I feel more prepared and less scared after my apt today. SO EXCITED!!
Updated on 20 Oct 2019:
Holy cow, it does hurt, but I still say it’s worth it! Sleeping in a recliner is a must. Loose comfy clothes, and husband/friends are the best
Updated on 3 Nov 2019:
Wow, what a difference. I can do so much more now. Pain pump and 2 drains removed after week 1. I still have 2 drains. Swelling is still present but less. Lots of numbness. Still sleeping in recliner but sleeping all night now. Walks around the block daily. The only pain I have is near the drain insertions. Daily dressing changes and recording drains output 2 times a day. Next appt in 3 days
Updated on 11 Jan 2020:
Wow, I finally feel great. Still a bit of numbness all around the incision areas, which is normal. No swelling that I can tell. Have been back to rl for a month and all is well. I also had my final pics for the before/after pic. I am so happy. There are other areas of my body that need attention, but this was definitely a must. I can live with the rest. So thankful all went so well!