Get the real deal on beauty treatments—real doctors, real reviews, and real photos with real results.Here's how we earn your trust.

One week! Post op and feeling good! San Diego, CA

ORIGINAL POST

I am a mother of 4 amazing kids that are 22,20, 6...

betterwithage
WORTH IT$15,500

I am a mother of 4 amazing kids that are 22,20, 6 and 5. From the time I had my first child....who was over 9lbs the toll was evident on my body. Even though I loved being pregnant I was not happy with the stretch marks and left over skin each pregnancy left behind and made worse with each new baby but it would take me 22 years to make the dream of my flat tummy and breasts that are not sagging a reality and a gift to myself.

I am now a 41 year old single working mom with a full time career and an even busier full time life and decided to do this for myself. It has taken me the last 2 years of saving and planning but not without a few set backs to get to this point. I had a small health scare when my doctor found a that needed to be removed and biopsed and my surgery would need to wait. Then ex had some things that would make me as a 100% full time parent for almost 6 months so my surgery would have to wait.

But here I am ready to move forward with a full clean bill of health and the help of an amazing support system of friends. Now I am here with 30 days to go my big day. I decided to post as so many of the entries have helped me with planning. I will be chronicalling just how I manage to get ready and prepare for my surgery and the recovery in the midst of juggling all the things in my life. To help I have decided to do hot yoga everyday for the next 30 days to get in better shape and mostly to manage the stress. I will be updating every few days what I get done. Today I started with the lists....things I need to get info to gather. The calendar of all the days I will need help for with the kids. I am taking off from work for 8 days so I will be off for almost 2 weeks and I sure hope this enough. Will post some lovely pics soon.

betterwithage's provider

Larry Pollack, MD

Larry Pollack, MD

Board Certified Plastic Surgeon

betterwithage rating for Dr. Pollack:

Overall rating

Replies (5)

User Avatar
May 2, 2012

Woo hoo! So happy for you that you finally get to do this.

Make sure you read Kimmers' Tummy Tuck survival guide.

Will you be getting a breast lift or implants or both?

May 3, 2012

WELCOME and CONGRATS! .. Youll be laughing when you read the Tummy tuck survival guide... and more so after you go through the process and you to do some of that stuff.. haha ..Again congrats and if you have any questions we are here for you..
May 3, 2012
Thanks for the encouragement and tips. 29 days and counting!!
User Avatar
May 3, 2012
Welcome to realself! This is a good place to chat to others that are going through the same things. :) Congrats !!
User Avatar
May 4, 2012
Good for you girl!!!!! Ice packs can be a girls best friend ;) put em on the list!!
User Avatar
May 4, 2012
I used ice pack omg they were a life saver. Got me through some nights. I wrapped them in towels and put them under my hip area.
UPDATED FROM betterwithage
24 days pre

OK so I am 24 days away and am starting to freak...

betterwithage
OK so I am 24 days away and am starting to freak out a little bit...I feel nervous all the time and was thinking of cancelling until I viewed my PreOP pics I just snapped. I am committed!!

Replies (1)

User Avatar
May 27, 2012
Your surgery is soon how are feeling about it?
UPDATED FROM betterwithage
2 days pre

Well I am officially freaking out...I have nearly...

betterwithage
Well I am officially freaking out...I have nearly cancelled twice this week alone. If not for the support of my amazing friends and my kids I would have. Finding ways to cover all I do in a day has proven tougher than I thought. My x has decided to be less than cooperative and my duties as a single mom seriously require a team of people to cover. I have one more day until my surgery and I know I am in good hands but can't shut off the overly worried mom in me that keeps saying what are you doing? Any last minute tips for what I may need?

Replies (5)

User Avatar
May 30, 2012
Hi Betterwithage, sux that your plate is so full right now but we women are masters at making it all work! Keep your chin up and stick to your guns, you can do this and it will be awesome! Lean on the women here at Realself. I certainly have and the advice and just plain conversation has been priceless.
May 30, 2012
You are gonna do great, I'm right here in S.D. too. Is your PS Larry or Robert Pollack, as they are both good, I considered both of them for my surgery, consulted with one of them, cancelled the appt. with the other when I found my doctor. Either way they are both top notch! Good luck tomorrow, you deserve this!
User Avatar
May 30, 2012
good luck everything gonna work out great......keep us posted
User Avatar
May 30, 2012
I felt the same way before my surgery. I am glad I did it, but at 5 days post op, I am still pretty dependent on my support system. Make sure that you have enough help after the surgery. I am super excited for you, but I can't stress enough that you will need help in the recovery process. I am a pretty independant woman, but am learning a hard lesson about how to rely on others......Good luck!!!!! Can't wait to see your results!!!
User Avatar
May 30, 2012
oh.....and you probably already know this, but I would not have survived without my recliner :)
May 31, 2012
Recliner w/ a lift is a must, walker with wheels in the front, so you can stay hunched over after the TT but still get around, toilet seat riser is a MUST, and a shower seat!!! I am going to send you a private message message with my phone number and you can come pick all of this up tonight at my house if you want, I'm done with it, you are welcome to it, recliner with lift included, its a 20 year old lazy boy that I bought on craigslist and totally cleaned myself but I would have been lost without it, I had to sleep in it for 2 weeks!!!