Over liposuction, muscle damage & rippling from scar tissue

I thought a lot about weather to write this or not. Im doing it for other woman like me. So i saw only good reviews, i liked her web site about woman surgeons, I thought she was knowledgeable. I really thought i was in good hands. I saved money to go to her! She doesn’t have credit systems, which I thought was weird, but i also thought maybe shes that good, she doesn’t have to mess with it. I was convinced she was the best. I had a terrible year , a lot of mental damage and insecurities with the under chin lipo. I have been assessed by many surgeons now, that say it was over liposuction and the muscle damaged and all the rippling from scar tissue. The worst part is the whole year she kept making me believe that this was do to my skin being too loose, that i had so much fat. She told me ..”we talked about that you could hsve saggy skin”, which we did not! Im 37years old . I cried all year. Terribly insecure . I didn’t even want to go to work or take my kids places. I thought i did this to myself. She finally excused me from the practice, saying i need a full facelift and its beyond her scope. Me devastated started my journey, realizing this was not because of my skin condition. I need a revision , very expensive. Im jacked up from a simple lipo. Second thing…. Nipples too big on breast lift, bad scars on nipples. Third thing…. She didn’t do a great job at contouring me on lipo and tummy tuck, i have what I learned are “dog ears”. I need to be further contoured…. Another revision . Also worst part i asked her if she could lipo those areas , she said no, its loose skin. I thought that cant be true. I just don’t think she had the fine skills to contour completely. Im devastated. I did research and went to many consultations for mommy makeover and i really wonder why she had so many good reviews. Im embarrassed . I feel stupid. I am actually very mad at myself for choosing her. I keep replaying, i wish i would have chosen someone else. I have cried so much this last year. I spent 23k cash and credit cards to feel better of myself after having 2 kids back to back. And instead I spent the whole year so insecure. It damaged my whole family. My husband has to see me so depressed and we spent all that money.