No Need for shame--these are cavities from the heavy sugar exposure--like many kids and some adults do--most likely it will be a simple repair--a good cosmetic dentist can make your teeth look perfect again--typically this is not a big expense like crowns or root canals or implants --$2-300 each...
Good question--this area is most likely a cavity. The white areas along the same areas on the other teeth is decay at an earlier stage--this is usually caused by oral hygiene issues or frequent sugar intake in the form of liquids--it can be anything from sweet sodas to fruit juices to energy...
Thank you for asking a great question. Based on the picture you provided it looks more like a tartar then decay. In either case, most likely it is fixable. I would definitely advise you to see a dentist asap.
Good luck!