Worried about what others might think on Rhinoplasty. Do you get many patients with this kind of apprehension?

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I know this is silly, but pretty much the only thing holding me back from having Rhinoplasty surgery is the fear of what others might think about my decision. I would rather have the surgery, not tell anyone and then be back after two weeks and then tell people. That way they can't judge ahead of time. Do you get many patients with this kind of apprehension. I am 38 years old and my group of friends and family would probably think was a waste of money and very extreme.

Jamil Asaria, MD · Answer

Thank you for your question. Your apprehension about the way others may feel about your decision to have rhinoplasty is actually very common. At the end of the day, the procedure is a very personal choice. While it can be very helpful to have the support of some close family members or friends around the time of the surgery, for some people, privacy before undergoing surgery can make them feel more comfortable.When done well, rhinoplasty shouldn't change your identity or appearance in a drastic way. Subtle changes should help to make you feel confident about your appearance and at the end of the day, you might be surprised by the positive reaction from those that are dear to you!

Mark D. Wigod, MD · Answer

Being subconscious about other's opinions is natural and common. What's amazing is that with most rhinoplasties after the splint is removed at one week, the casual observer rarely notices the changes. I even had one patient have to tell her family at a holiday dinner when no one noticed. What it comes down to is do what is right for your body image because most others really do not care much.

Chase Lay, MD · Answer

I like this question.  I'd say people have many reasons for being nervous about the surgery and possible outcomes.  Many patients also worry about what friends and family with think.  The way you describe your  concerns it sounds like you wouldn't worry so much about what people think about the surgery itself but that you're worried you'll be talked out of it.  If that's the case then maybe you still have reservations yourself?  If you are close to your friends and family and their support is important to you then you may want to discuss this with some of them before because after surgery their support could be very important to you.  This is particularly true if you are slow to heal or something isn't perfect.  Terrific surgery or not so great surgery, you'll need to be surrounded by positivity.  You may want to discuss it with some friends or family first but in the end you're responsible for your decisions and how you feel about them.Chase Lay, MD

Steven Wallach, MD · Answer

I think most patients are a bit nervous about undergoing a rhinoplasty.  But, everyone responds differently. Some patients tell everyone, and others like to keep it private. It's a personal choice.

William Portuese, MD · Answer

Many patients have this type of apprehension  before undergoing a rhinoplasty procedure. It's important to perform the rhinoplasty for yourself, and not anyone else. If  the issues on your nose are bothering you  enough,  then proceed with performing the procedure.  It is important to find an experienced  rhinoplasty surgeon for best results

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