BodyTite or Tummy Tuck? I’m struggling with the decision and reading mixed reviews (Photo)

It really depends on what your overall goals are.
BodyTite (RFAL radiofrequency assisted liposuction) can shrink tissues very well overall, particularly in someone that has overall good skin tone like you. When done in combination with a more standard form of liposuction you would have a very nice improvement to your shape.
If you want the most dramatic look possible, an abdominoplasty (tummy tuck) would theoretically give you that, with the trade off being the scar and 2-3 week preliminary recovery period. Still, an abdominoplasty will not address fat on your insides that make the belly pouch outward and in those cases the abdomen may still round out (convexly) rather than being flat or concave. This is why overall weight loss and a stable weight is often recommended prior to abdominoplasty. 
Based on your pictures, I would tell you the following if you were my patient. You very likely may not need either procedure if you were to lose weight in a sustainable fashion with lifestyle modification. That’s why if you decide to have a procedure I would more likely recommend BodyTite at this point. 

Hello and thank you for your question and photos.
After reviewing your photo, I would recommend a full tummy tuck combined with liposuction. A full tummy tuck corrects the aftermath of pregnancy:
1.  The separation of the abdominal muscles (diastasis recti) is repaired to reduce the bulge
2.  The loose skin is tightened
3.  Fat deposits can be reduced with liposuction
Liposuction alone would not correct the bulge due to the muscle separation or the loose skin and would, in all likelihood, lead to a disappointing result for you. However, if you do extensive liposuction as the sole procedure, you would benefit from a skin tightening device along with it such as Renuvion powered by J-Plasma or Imode BodyTite.  A tummy tuck combine with liposuction would give the best result in terms of flattening and tightening the tummy, but has the disadvantage of scarring and a longer recovery.  So if getting back to activities quickly is your preference, then look into Renuvion powered by J-Plasma or BodyTite with Vaser liposuction.
I would recommend a consultation with a Board Certified Plastic Surgeon.
Best regards,
Andrew Lyos MD, FACS
 

You probably need some sort of skin removal to be happy, but this really just depends upon your expectations and your plans to become pregnant in the future.  BodyTite is a non-excisional device that utilizes radio-frequency assisted lipolysis to address the shortcomings often associated with traditional liposuction or surgical body and face lifts, including sagging or wrinkly skin and scarring, by inserting a wand under the skin to coagulate inside while tightening the skin on top. While a traditional TT can do wonders for your body, it leaves a large and unwanted scar behind. At Hughes Plastic Surgery, we offer a better option: the short-scar TT.
A short-scar TT was developed to enhance a patient’s abdomen and get rid of excess fat and skin in a way that created more attractive results. The shorter scar it leaves is the same length as that of the mini TT.  While the mini TT is less invasive, it also isn’t as comprehensive as the full TT. A short-scar TT, however, offers double the amount of loose skin and fat removal that a mini offers.
Kenneth Hughes, MD, Board Certified Plastic Surgeon
Los Angeles, CA