What's the best way to soften or get rid of my jowls? (Photo)

Photos are no substitute for an in-person examination that allows for manipulation and palpation of the tissues. However, from what I can see, your problem is the kind I see several times per day practically every day in my practice.  You would likely obtain significant improvement in the jowl formation along your jawline with the skillful use of volumizing fillers. The injection of a volumizing filler, such as Voluma XC, which I would choose in my NY office, in the cheekbone regions can lift and contour the cheeks and diminish both the smile lines below and to some extent, secondarily the jowl formation along the jawline. The use of Voluma XC in the region of in front of the ears and particularly along the jawline would likely lead to substantial straightening and definition and finally, if the chin, which seems somewhat recessed in the photos, were augmented with a volumizing filler, this would additionally not only sharpen the jawline, but improve the profile view, as well. The results typically yield an immediate "Wow!" reaction.  In my Israel satellite facility, where a far greater number of regulatory agency approved volumizing fillers are available, I would choose Stylage XXL and Aliaxin EV for the cheeks, Restylane Volyme for the jawline, and Neauvia Intense Flux for the chin.  You would be wise to seek consultation and treatment by a board certified aesthetic physician and make sure to ask to see his/her personal before and after photos before agreeing to proceed. Best of luck , 

In our practice, we perform a non-surgical face lift / skin resurfacing treatment using Renuvion Helium Plasma Radiofrequency. ​To get the most improvement with skin tightening, we combine Renuvion (formerly J-Plasma) with lasers (Fraxel, Clear + Brilliant, CO2), microneedling/PRP, Ultherapy and InMode FaceTite. I suggest getting a formal evaluation with a cosmetic dermatologist. Best, Dr. Emer​​​​

The appearance of jowls can be improved without surgery using a versatile facial contouring filler called Radiesse. This is the approach we offer at the Dr.U Hair and Skin Clinics in Los Angeles for patients like yourself who don’t wish to undergo surgery. Radiesse is made of tiny microspheres of a calcium compound within a gel matrix. It is able to mimic surrounding tissue environments and maintain a hold based on how it is molded and shaped. We apply the filler into the jowls to lift the tissue and prevent it from sagging. Below is a link to a patient case from our office where this was done. 

For most patients, facial cosmetic surgeries can be done in the office under local anesthesia - mini facelift, mid face lift, neck lift, blepharoplasties etc. For example, bilateral upper & lower blepharoplasty, mid face lift, Short Scar facelift and neck lift usually takes me about 90 minutes in the office under local anesthesia. The goal is to have patients looking natural.I routinely tell people to take a few days to a week off work and to hide out but some people are very nervous especially celebrities and I usually tell them to hide out for two weeks. As with any scar on the human body, initially scars are red, hard and raised and it typically takes six months to a year for them to become a soft thin white line. I strongly feel that it's very important to have an honest conversation with your surgeon about your particular situation, lifestyle, work environment and specifically which procedures you're having done so that you both have the most honest answer about your recovery and are realistic with expectations and results.

Thank you for your question.  The only way to remove loose skin around the jawline would be through a facelift.  This doesn't need to be really invasive and can be performed a under local anaesthetic.  The facelift I perform is under a local anaesthetic which means a significantly reduced downtime.
Most of my patients want a facelift however do not want the downtime associated.  The Concept Facelift and Necklift is the procedure I perform, which combines the latest surgical techniques with the use of local anaesthetic to dramatically reduce the risks associated with traditional facelifts, while significantly reducing the bruising and downtime of your recovery, from months to a matter of days. 
If you have lax facial skin, lost volume and feel that you have jowls and wrinkles on your cheeks and you look tired when you're not then the concept facelift can help improve your appearance. With concept facelift you will look natural and fresh just like the way you feel inside. There are no bandages, drains and hospital stay but with lasting results of traditional facelift techniques it fits with today's age.
This can be combined with resurfacing options such as chemical peels or laser which gives your skin a glow and helps the appearance of acne scarring. 
 Typically recovery period is 7-10 days as you do tend to bruise more with your eyes than facelift and necklift.  You would need to return for a follow up appointment 7 days later to check your healing progress.  This can be combined with lower eyelid surgery which I think will give you a fresher appearance.
What are the benefits of a local anaesthetic facelift?
Minimally invasive as it is a short scar facelift, although has the same effects as the Traditional Facelift as the SMAS muscle is tightened along with the skin.There is minimal bruising and swelling, especially when compared to traditional faceliftsAs the procedure is performed under local anaesthetic, you can go straight home following the procedureFull recovery in a matter of days rather than monthsSignificantly less risk than Facelifts performed under general anaestheticFresh, youthful and long lasting resultsPlease make sure you find a reputable and qualified plastic surgeon

I would say the best method to reduce or improve jowls would be with a facelift.  There are some non-surgical treatments that can improve jowls, but not to the same degree that surgery could.  Fillers can sometimes be used to help as well as radio frequency treatments such as FaceTite.  

Jowls have different causes in different people. If there is only a bit of excess fat with tight skin, liposuction alone will work well. For other people, use of a filler like Voluma that lifts the cheek tissue is of great help. In your particular case, however, you have a combination of loose skin and excess tissue. A minimal surgical lift of the jawline region done under local anesthesia may be quite effective. See a plastic surgeon for an evaluation.

rebecca-nichol, I would tell you that photos are not the best way to diagnose patients, however from what I can see fillers would be a waste of time and money. See an experienced plastic surgeon who is familiar with deep plane surgery and specializes in only faces. See the video and good luck!

Based on your photo, you are a great candidate for a facelift which would provide you with the most improvement in your jowls. Other minimally invasive options are filler to the pre-jowl sulcus and marionette lines or injectable radio frequency to help tighten the area. These can be considered if surgery is out of the question, though the results will not be as significant. Best of luck!