Yes, you can redo the procedure if the crease is not formed well. It all depends on your age and how much redundant skin there is. If you would like to have non cutting blepharoplasty when you have redundant skin, just simply create the crease line slightly higher than original one and...
Preop shows minimal asymmetry. Very slight (if any) ptosis on the left side, which is the side with the issues. At this stage, looks pretty symmetric and healing on schedule. Hang tight, I suspect you'll have a nice result.
I am sorry you are struggling with this. It looks like your surgeon did a good job. It is very early and changes can be expected but I think your eyelids look better than before surgery. For your specific questions, it is best to visit again with your surgeon and discuss your concerns.