NHS General Surgeon Refuses to Repair my Diastasis Recti Because It Will Create More Problems for Me Than Its Worth- True?

As others have commented, in general a diastasis repair is very worthwhile as part of an abdominal contouring procedure. It should not create other deformities or defects laterally. However, in your case a full exam is necessary by a Board Certified Plastic Surgeon to rule out any other pathology such as a significant abdominal hernia, which may require a combined approach with a General Surgeon.

A plastic surgeon can give you a better idea as to whether rectus diastasis can be repaired in your case.  What your general surgeon is probably telling you is that if you do not have a true hernia, then insurance will not pay for the surgery.  Regardless of your symptoms, most insurance companies do not pay for tummy tucks not matter how you present it to them.

It is worth it in the vast majority of cases. Repairing a Diastasis Recti deformity should not create holes in your side as you were told by your general surgeon. Patients tend to really appreciate the appearance after the repair and that they have such improved tone afterwards.

Note that this procedure is rarely in my experience covered by insurance despite your description of discomfort, unless of course you have a true hernia.That being said you should go to an expert in this sort of repair which without a doubt would be a board certified plastic surgeon. It is what they do as part of their routine practice. For example it is an essential part of an abdominoplasty, tummy tuck, procedure. Below is a link for the American Board of Plastic Surgery. Find a reputable doctor in your area that is listed and go in for a formal consultation.