As a cosmetic oculofacial plastic surgeon practicing for 20 years, I have a background in eye surgery and plastic surgery of the eyes and face. Ptosis is something I deal with a lot in my practice. People generally have a difference of about 1-2 millimeters between the two eyes. That’s part of the reason why your family is not acknowledging an obvious difference. However, when you take photos or when you get tired, a lot of those differences are obvious. During evaluation, I would ask you to look at previous photos. There’s a condition called congenital ptosis which is when one or both eyes are drooping because of the development during gestation of a muscle that lifts the eyelid called the levator muscle. Someone may have symptoms of drooping eyelid that causes the eyelid to progress a little bit lower but they may also have some degree of drooping eyelid throughout their lives. . In addition, any kind of trauma that causes the eyelid to swell can make it droop because of eyelid stretching. If that’s not the case, then we want to also rule out any unusual neurologic issues. So an examination with an ophthalmologist, neuro-ophthalmologist or neurologist is indicated to make sure that the eyelid drooping is not a sign or symptom of something else that may need intervention other than surgery. Normally, people have drooping eyelids as they get older because the tendon of the levator muscle called the aponeurosis tends to get thinner and detaches. This phenomenon is called involutional ptosis and is a very common problem as we get older. That’s an acquired ptosis, probably the most common type of ptosis there is. However, you’re very young for that type of situation. It is very important to establish whether or not this is congenital ptosis or if there is any other neurologic reason for the ptosis. Once those things are ruled out, especially the systemic issues, then you can entertain the surgical options. Typically, we perform ptosis surgery under local anesthesia with LITE™ sedation and it is deceptively complex procedure. It is done in a very small space in the eyelid area where a very sensitive muscle has to be manipulated so that the eyelid height, shape and contour are symmetric with the other eye. There are situations with one drooping eyelid where we lift that eyelid during an examination and the other eyelid droops. That is one of the manifestations of Hering’s :aw which has to do with the way the brain feeds the eyelids so that when you correct one, the other one will droop. We check that and we decide whether or not it’s significant enough to do both eyes. We also do a proper evaluation of eye function in terms of how you blink and how high your eye rolls to protect the eye when you are blinking. These are part of a standard opthamological examination. During surgery, we often sit the patient up several times to evaluate what the eyelid level is relative to the effects of gravity. We let the patient open and close their eyes during surgery. They never feel any pain and they are comfortable. This helps us predict the appearance of the eyes after the surgery is completed. Once the surgery is completed, we basically do the same thing we do with other cosmetic eyelid procedures. We put cold compresses in the eyes, we observe, and a week later we take stitches out. I suggest that you have an evaluation first by an ophthalmologist, possibly a neurologist to eliminate the other systemic causes of ptosis. Once that’s eliminated, then it’s time to then identify a doctor you feel comfortable with most likely an oculofacial or oculoplastic surgeon who does a lot of ptosis surgery. Hopefully, this surgeon has a cosmetic sense that resonates with you. Ptosis surgery can really be very fulfilling and can restore the patient’s confidence about the asymmetry of their eyes. This personalized video answer to your question is posted on RealSelf and on YouTube. To provide you with a personal and expert response, we use the image(s) you submitted on RealSelf in the video, but with respect to your privacy, we only show the body feature in question so you are not personally identifiable. If you prefer not to have your video question visible on YouTube, please contact us.