Hi and thank you for your question.
Do not put on any creams, lotions, or sunscreen unless your surgeon has approved it. Reach out to him/her with your concerns. Best wishes!
The extra tissue or "dog ears" will definitely flatten and improve with time. If there is any residual excess tissue after full healing and maturation, it can generally be removed as a simple office procedure.
At four days post-op, it is too soon to determine what the final outcome of your surgery will be. You are still in the very early postoperative period, and you will notice changes as you heal. Without even seeing photos, it is reasonable to say that you have swelling that will decrease with time...