I would not have an issue using a Zirconium abutment in this situation. The restorative doctor needs to be sure that the crown does not take a great deal of occlusal forces when you close. That will drastically reduce the risk of fracture and improve the aesthetics...
The fees you presented seem more than fair. If this is a stretch for your budget you might consider trying to become a patient at the dental school in Los Angeles. Prices are reduced and students will do your treatment. Hope this helps.
I am not sure why you would need another crown after the root canal. Typically, a small access hole is made for the root canal procedure. Once completed, it is filled with a composite leaving the crown intact. If your case is unique and a new crown is recommended, then I would...