Help with full face - what combination can I do to help?

I’m looking for a confidence boost. I used to be a handsome dude, now trying to “get the gal and settle down,” but I’m not really making any progress. For the nasolabial folds- I’ve considered fillers but heard they make you look puffy. Considered a facelift, but is it too soon, would I regret it later? Sculptra makes me nervous Under eye hollows- I’ve considered fillers I did Botox to the frown lines and it worked great. I wouldn’t do it anywhere else though im trying to maintain masculinity and ..like being able to move my face. I microneedle and occasionally laser. But what would be a comprehensive plan or approach for someone like me? It would really help with my confidence. I’m regretting all the sleepless nights and partying. Trying to find the wife! Any input is much appreciated. I just don’t know what combination approach to do