How do I talk to my parents about a breast reduction?

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Hi. I am 17 and my bra size is a 34D and has been since i was 14. The last 3 months i have been seeing a chiropractor (i have had xrays and it does not show any growths but there is displacement in one of the vertebrae - that lies just under my bra strap). My back/neck pain gives me trouble sleeping, and sitting all day in school. Also i have pain in my back and breasts when i exercise. I am very insecure about my breasts size, shape, and how large they look in clothing and bathing suits.

Jaime Perez, MD · Answer

I recommend having an honest conversation
with your parents in which you explain how your breast size is having a
significant negative impact on your life. If you are overweight, I recommend reaching
your ideal (sustainable) weight before going forward with surgery. Keep in mind
that since you are very young, additional surgeries may be needed in the future
if your breasts grow in size again due to weight gain, pregnancy, etc. Best of
luck to you.

Miguel Delgado, MD · Answer

If your parents are aware that you are suffering they most likely would want to help you. If it is hard to start a conversation you might show them this posting and let them know this is important to you. Good luck!

Tom J. Pousti, MD · Answer

Thank you for the question. I'm sorry that you are experiencing the physical and emotional “trauma” of juvenile breast hypertrophy.This condition refers to breasts  that are too large for a young lady's frame causing  both physical and psychological distress. I would suggest that you do your homework and understand the potential risks and complications associated with breast reduction surgery. You should also understand that further surgery may be necessary in the future (for example if the breasts were to grow in size again).On the other hand, breast reduction surgery is one of the most patient pleasing operations we perform and I think that for the right teenager (enough symptoms and at the right time) it may be an excellent option.I would also suggest calm communication with your parents explaining the physical and emotional problems associated with the breast hypertrophy. Eventually, you should seek consultation (and take your parents along with you) with well experienced  board-certified plastic surgeons. Ask to see lots of examples of their work and communicate your goals carefully as well. I hope this, and the attached link, helps. Best wishes.

Josef Hadeed, MD, FACS · Answer

You should have a discussion with your parents and tell them about the symptoms that you have been experiencing.  You and your parents should schedule a consultation with a board certified plastic surgeon so that you may understand what your options are.  Your parents would need to provide consent for surgery if you are under 18 years of age.  Best wishes.

Steven Wallach, MD · Answer

I think that you have to be direct with you parents and discuss your concerns and feelings. Good luck with your decision to move forward.

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