The answer to your first question really depends on the size of the defect, and location of cartilage exposed. A small area of exposed cartilage will likely do very well being left open and healing by secondary intent (allowing the body to grow skin over a defect). Larger defects can do well with healing by secondary intent as well; however, they will usually take longer to heal, and may expose the uncovered cartilage to the possibility of infection. A skin graft places a covering of skin over a defect, and, given good healing, will generally result in a better cosmetic outcome over a large exposed cartilage defect. While you can always opt out of a skin graft, you would do best to discuss your reconstructive options with your Mohs surgeon or plastic surgeon doing your reconstruction. He/ she will advise you of your reconstructive options based on your health, cosmetic expectations, and their experience. Best of luck.