How long after fleur de lis can I have sex with my husband? After c section it was difficult to wait two weeks

should be cleared by your surgeon as your surgeon will have to manage any problems that may arise from such activities.  I certainly understand the importance of intimacy and do allow for it with restrictions and after my patient has met certain milestones in recovering from surgery.  This usually happens after 4 weeks.

The Fleur de Lis surgery is a procedure that involves large wounds and inflammation. I would recommend you wait at least six weeks to start this type of activity because of the risk of having open wounds.