Your concern is understandable because the eyes are so important to appearance. While the other doctors have been most respectful and kind in their comments, I presume these would not have satisfied you if you want the situation to be permanently corrected. I presume you would feel relieved only if the left lid matches the appearance of the other lid. Unfortunately, the only way to achieve this requires surgery. The reason is that the difference between the 2 sides is to do with the internal anatomy of the left upper lid. This internal anatomical adjustment is performed after precise measurements, to match the other side and then a form of internal tarsal fixation technique would be used. Until your eyes are examined more closely in person, it is not possible to answer the question whether the good eye may also require some surgery to ensure the result is as close to symmetrical as possible? The next question is at what age should this be performed? While I realize you may want to do this as soon as possible, it would be preferable to wait until you are a responsible adult, age 18. Regarding expectations, while a major improvement of the left lid would be expected, to obtain exact symmetry cannot be guaranteed. There is the possibility that a revision of the surgery for adjustment, may be required to improve symmetry, up to a year after the surgery.