I am 36Yrs Old with 2 kids - a 6 year old and a 2 year old. After I had my 2 year old, my breast size never went back to normal even after I stopped breastfeeding! Over time this is beginning to hurt my shoulders and back. Also it makes me hunch over. It's a vicious cycle for me as I joined crossfit to lose weight and get fit (hoping the breast will get smaller) however I am not able to participate in full exercises because of the weight of my breasts. My darling husband tried talking me into a Breast Reduction but I have been too scared.
Finally here I am!!!!
I had a consultation with the plastic surgeon in August 2017 and it went amazing. He is so professional yet so friendly ...I literally felt like I was having a conversation with a friend.
My Surgery date is fixed and I'm a little nervous and have a lot to say ...I tend to ramble away ....I'm trying not to do that right now :)
I will post details of my visit and also keep you all posted on how everything goes.
Please feel free to reach out to me if you have questions or even just for a comment or Electronic Hug :)
Updated on 27 Aug 2017:
Yesterday I clocked 36! I didn't want any presents or something special and just wanted to sleep in!!!
As a full time working wife and mom, my day couldn't have gone better! my sweet husband kept the kids occupied and I slept in till noon. I woke up to cake and lots of presents put together by them!!! Later in the evening we went to global fest finale and watched fireworks with friends.
I am so nervous about my upcoming surgery , yesterday was so filled up I didn't have a second to worry about it!
Updated on 29 Aug 2017:
Today I it a call from Rocky View hospital - just to get more information about me and also to verify my mailing address. The lady told me she will be mailing everything I need to know about my upcoming surgery to me. Soooo curious!!!
I'll put up whatever comes, if it may be of help to anyone.
I decided to take a vacation day just before my surgery as I feel I will be too nervous at work. I am already a bag of emotions as it is!
Can't believe I'm doing this -I haven't told my mum and my elder sisters. Don't want them to panic or try to talk me out of it.
I hope It goes successful then it will not be so bad when I eventually tell them. Phew!!!
Updated on 1 Sep 2017:
Today I went to see my Doctor one more time before my procedure. Basically went over the paper work in regards to my Short Term Disability allowance meaning my insurance will pay me 70% of my salary for my time off work. I opted for the maximum healing time which is 6 weeks! I guess I will be needing it.
He also gave a sick note so my husband can also get paid time off work!
I'm so so happy and a little less nervous.
I got my surgical bra and the antiseptic soap to use for the surgery day.
I can't believe I'm going through with this, it feels so surreal ????
A nurse from Rocky View Hospital called me today to review my medical history.
She talked to me about the pre-surgery and post. That was super helpful - you know I feel so ready for this I know exactly where to go to, what to do and who to talk to if the need arises. There so much support from the hospital and also from the Surgeon's office!
Phew! It's been a long day!
Updated on 1 Sep 2017:
So my doctor told me I need only one surgery bra I paid $26.50CAD and a free travel size soap. The soap is really small but he said I need it only for the night before and on the morning of the surgery.
Updated on 2 Sep 2017:
When I get really really nervous about my fast approaching procedure - i calm my nerves by listing out reasons.
Here is another reason why!
Updated on 3 Sep 2017:
I got this bra from the Surgeon's Office. Don't think it has a specific brand. Just part of the surgical supplies I guess! Here is a picture of the bra tag.
Updated on 5 Sep 2017:
Hey Guys! I got a tip from a fellow real selfer - snobbyblog that Electric Recliners are Alice saver post surgery! So I went on a hunt and got me a used one (almost new + fully functional). This gave me so much joy :)
It comes with a massage feature which is a bonus for me.
I can imagine trying to sit up or even get up from a flat bed will be a hassle - the lift feature will definitely come in handy!
I'll post on here afterwards if the lift changer is a life saver post op! #FingersCrossed!
Updated on 7 Sep 2017:
The count down is on!
Today I got the complete instruction manual from Rocky View Hospital in the mail. It's basically information on preparing myself for the surgery and also post op.
-It has the contact number to the admitting office
-time to call to confirm surgery
-where to come to on the day of surgery
-what to bring along ( I was advised not to bring my phone or credit cards etc.) hubby will bring all of that in my over night bag after the surgery
- what to wear etc
I am totally greatful to Real Self, I didn't find any new information in the manuals to be honest, as pretty much all my questions and much more has been covered here in this forum! :) and also by my surgeons office.
It doesn't hurt to have it in writing though.
Just to let anyone out there procrastinating or just plain scared to take the big step especially here in Alberta ... between Rocky View and the Surgeons office the support system is immense.
Right now I'm just taking pictures for memory sakes ????
Updated on 10 Sep 2017:
Just a few more days!
I can't wait... earlier I was so nervous but I have had so many people on here and generally encouraging me! Thank you :)
I was told not to come to the hospital on the day of surgery with my phone. My hubby can bring the phone to me after surgery - hospital can't be held liable for lost items. But i wanted selfies :(
I got this book so to occupy myself while waiting :) - since I won't have my phone , to be honest, I couldn't wait and already started colouring. I love it!!!!
Updated on 13 Sep 2017:
I spent the most part of the day in bed just resting!
Last week I checked my Blood Pressure it was so high my family doctor warned that if not controlled m surgery maybe postponed!
That even spiked it more haha! (Don't you just hate that)
Well she advised I cut down on salt and fries which I followed and it's gotten better -thankfully.
I called Rocky View Hospital and my surgery has been scheduled for 12noon, though i have to go in 3 hours before.. just wondering what I'll be doing in all that time. Well I have my coloring book..
I'll keep you all posted!
Updated on 15 Sep 2017:
Surgery was successful!! I still had high blood pressure which caused a little complication. I will update full details in my next post when I'm less woozy from pain meds.
Thank everyone who was praying with me!I'm home now and healing well!
Updated on 16 Sep 2017:
My surgery was scheduled for 12:30 noon September 14. it was successful and I was awake at 4:10pm
I immediately noticed a shooting pain in my left Breast. It became so engorged and painful. I was so woozy and groggy and in horrible pain. My Surgeon (what an amazing doctor) he kept talking to me and ensuring my pain was managed. I honestly don't know what was going on. The big suspicion was my skyrocketing Blood Pressure that could have led to that. Anyway I had a catheter in and at 10:30pm i went back into surgery to fix the left breast. We came out round 1 am and was finally okay. This time bigger drains were used to ensure I drained out nicely.
The anesthesiologist explained to me that they had difficulty with intubation. He recommended I get a Medical Alert Bracelet for that. #ScaryStuff
I take this to be another benefit of my breast surgery.
We discovered this in a controlled environment!!
Anyway we stayed back in the hospital for a couple more hours and I was discharged at around 4pm on Friday after the drains were taken out.
I'm healing very well. Still in pain meds so a scale of 0-10my pains or rather discomfort is a 2. My hubby got time off and he is helping with the kids so that helps 100%
P.S the Recliner is a life saver!!!!!!!!!
Updated on 21 Sep 2017:
It’s been a week since my procedure an I must say I am healing very nicely!
I’m 3 days off pain meds not even Tylenol :)
I realized that the surgical bra I have was biting into my incisions and hurting so I went to Walmart and got this bralette as seen in my pictures and it’s very very comfortable like I usually use it when I want to take a break from my surgical bra and it’s Amazing! I got it if I can remember for like $10.
Also I was so constipated by day 4 I couldn’t take it anymore I tried prunes I tried green tea, That didn’t help, so I walked into to a walk-in clinic and they gave me a laxative that I take every morning and so far I am beginning to be regular.
I still sleep in my recliner ,I have no fear of rolling over to my side it’s amazing it’s a lifesaver actually :). To be honest, I don’t know what I would’ve done without the recliner it’s amazing I can’t like emphasize enough the benefits of this lift chair. Mine comes with a massage function, so i use that when I wake up in the middle of the night and can’t fall asleep.
My first post op with my surgeon is on the 27th about a week from today so I will post updates then that’s when the Steri-Strips will be taken off. I can’t wait! :)
Updated on 27 Sep 2017:
The Visit went well.The Steri-Strip tapes were taken off and the stitches were removed where necessary. my PS give me a silicon gel to help with the scars. Basically I’m really really OK, maybe cos I’ve got the steri-stip tapes taken off my boobs feel a little sore than usual I took Tylenol I’m better. I’m very happy with my size I don’t feel any pain in my back and my shoulders anymore. I still am on medical leave so I spend the majority of the day in bed or relaxing. I will be able to say for sure how great I feel when I return back to work.
I am a little worried about my left breast as it’s bigger and the shape looks a little bit different when you look at it from the side. My PS advised not to worry about it as it is as a result of the complication I had from high blood pressure that required a second surgery in the left breast on the same day. He says not to worry about it that should give it like another month it’s going to settle down and all the swelling will go away.
So fingers crossed! Blog again in a bit hopefully everything should be perfect by then bye :)
Updated on 14 Oct 2017:
So happy with my boobs! I’m so so glad I made the choice ( one of my best decisions). the left breast has evened out. My nipples still feel super sensitive. I wince every time the shower spray hits them :)
I got a scar treatment gel - rejuvasil from my PS for CAD50 and also got rose hip oil. My PS said it’s not a medical requirement to massage my breasts... I still do Cos I find it therapeutic :)
The ident marks from before are fast fading out (also using the rose hip oil for that)
My next visit to PS office is on 25th October, I’ll let you know how it goes.
Hugs
Updated on 15 Nov 2017:
I know this is totally cliche ...but how time flies :)
It’s 2 months already. Nothing changed I think. I still look like my one month milestone to me.
My sleep is much better, I caught myself sleeping face down twice, I try not to (Wouldn’t want to risk anything ...you know!)
I resumed back to work on the 6th November and I have 0% Back pain.
I can confidently say IT WAS WORTH IT!!!!
It’s winter and I live in Calgary, it’s so severe!!!!when the temperature drops I feel so much pain and twitches in my nipple area/ incisions. Does anyone know about this??? I will surely ask my PS on my next visit
Updated on 17 Dec 2017:
It’s been about 3 months and I feel I’m like 80% recovered. I started wearing underwire Bras but not for the the whole day, as I find my incisions still hurt. So it seems I’ll end up a D cup bigger than I thought but I like it! Been trying out cardio for over a week and so far so good.
Still can’t lie on my tummy.
It’s winter and sometime my breasts especially the nipples hurt all day long. I’m guessing it’s the cold! Saw my PS but he said I’m doing very well nothing to worry about!
My next appointment with him is 3 months from now #Phew
Updated on 4 Jan 2019:
It’s Been over a year since my surgery I have lost over 20pounds nd wanted to show what my boobs look like. I definitely shrunk in my sides but bookies didn’t sag yay!