Where to start. I've wanted this procedure since I learned of its existence around the age of 16. I did my research and around 2017 I was finally brave enough to speak with a professional about my issue. That was Dr. Allan. My opinion of him then was that he was very professional and straight to business. His staff were friendly and the atmosphere felt clean and welcoming as well. I was given a quote of a little over 5k. At the time I had no hope of affording such an expense out of pocket. Dr. Allan encouraged me to shop around and to see what types of quotes I could get.
I took my quote home and weighed my options with my husband and we decided that while I was able to get it covered via healthcare through the hospital, I'd much rather pay for the job to be done right by a professional. I decided Dr. Allan was that guy after reading reviews and investigating other options. I felt comfortable with my choice. So save my husband and I did. Fast forward to September 14th 2020 when I walked back into the Allan center for a brief consult. Again I was met with a clean atmosphere as per covid regulations by friendly staff. While the waiting room wasnt as cute as the previous location, it was sterile and that's what's important in these crazy times. Dr. Allan met me with a smile and confirmed I still wanted the labiaplasty, I expressed some concerns with my labia I had noticed since the last consult. I had some stitches pop from my first birth that I didn't notice and it sort of made the base of my vagina ever off to the side. After taking a quick look he assured/agreed it wasn't worth a perineal repair (an additional 5k) and showed me how he would work around it. We came to an agreement and that concluded the consult, next I moved to his assistants office (I'm the worst I forget her name, she was wonderful though!!) We invited my husband into the office where I was offered a date for September 25th 2020. It was much sooner than I thought, but I jumped at the opportunity. I went home in a daze that I had finally done it. September 25th I was called by the surgical center and told they were running ahead and asked if I could come in an hour and a half earlier. Naturally I shoved my husband out of bed and off we went. I forced down a cliff bar despite my sudden nervousness. I arrived at the back door where I was met by a pleasant nurse who gave clear instructions. They made sure I was comfortable, complete with heated blanket and cozy slippers while I waited for numbing cream to do its thang. The procedure itself was a breeze, the nurses kept me comfortable and provided lots of conversation. The nice thing about being awake is having that open line of communication. It was over very quickly and when he handed me the mirror I couldn't have been happier to see not my vagina, but a puffy new vagina. (I'll update the post op photo once I crop my butt out of it . Lol)
Updated on 29 Sep 2020:
The pain is very manageable. Sometimes I get a little itchy, but an ice pack helps with that a lot. I'm due to start my period right away so I wont update again until that fiasco has finished.
I took a shower with success, but otherwise I've stayed in bed and kept myself entertained.
I was sick the whole first night after surgery, the medication prescribed didn't agree with my stomach. Since it had been 24 hrs Dr. Allan told me to go ahead and switch to tylenol extra strength, which has been perfectly adequate for pain management since then.
Updated on 2 Oct 2020:
Well it's been a few days. I ca6nt say I was comfortable, though it wasn't unbearable.
What I've noticed is I think my stitches dissolved too quickly on the surface of my left labia, though it seems to be keeping together I'm keeping a close eye on it.
I've started using the minty topical cream provided for the itch, which I've only needed to use very small amounts of, it helps a lot especially before bed. My poor clitorus has usually been well protected by my labia and hood, definitely feeling sensitive and raw now that it's got a little exposure. Today is a little more bearable and I'll try walking about the house some again after the weekend.
I knew I wouldn't walk away with a picture perfect vagina, but I am so happy with the results, I'd say my swelling has become very minimal. I believe that today I am officially a week PO.
Updated on 10 Oct 2020:
Well another week has passed, I have been dealing with some swelling as my stitching clearly came undone too early. However; it all seems to be keeping together so I haven't felt the need to contact Dr. Allan. Obviously some discomfort comes with that, including the occasional stabbing of my nerves coming back to life. Which is a good thing I suppose although uncomfortable.
I am officially up and about, I'll lay down when I start to get sore but I can get up and down my stairs without trouble. Victory!
Still some stitches needing to dissolve and they are bothersome. My labia are kinda stiff and the scabbing sucks but I expect that to soften up over the coming weeks and hopefully the lips will relax and sit together a little more naturally. Over all I'd have to say this process has been more uncomfortable than painful all the way through. I flip flop on whether or not I'll want a hood reduction later, I'm still happy with my results though!
I'll keep updating until I'm 6 weeks PO so tune in soon.
Updated on 18 Oct 2020:
Well I made it half way. I used my cream religiously this week, the itch was incredible but manageable as long as I kept cleaning and applying.
Still waiting for some stitches to finish dissolving. I've accidentally pulled a few out while cleaning myself but they came out without resistance and without pain, so I'm guessing they were ready to go anyway.
I'm still happy with my results. It will always veer off to the side because of my choice to skip a perineal repair and to simply have the separated tissue trimmed away, since it was not severe. It's only a minor cosmetic flaw and I'm overwhelmed with joy over the rest of my results. I have taken to wearing my husbands boxer briefs because of the way they sag at the groin, gives me the feeling of being covered while having the comfort of giving my lady bits some space. Three more weeks to go, I'll check in again at 4 weeks.
Updated on 8 Nov 2020:
I made it to that 6 week mark and I'm stoked!
This week was basically spent just enjoying it. My sensation is better than it used to be, which is a happy surprise. It's amazing what a simply little trim has done for me.
A little birdy requested I post a front standing photo, so this ones for you ;)
I like that my hood is still "fleshy" looking, I feel like it gives me a more natural appeal, I dont think reducing it would have done me any extra favors visually anyway.
I've put away my cream, I havent needed it at all.
I know you're all dying to know. What's the sex like?
Let me tell you! It's like losing your virginity, but worse lol. I found the easiest position was to get on top, so I could be in control. The skin was not happy about the new stretch after the trauma of surgery, but after a little persistence I've got elasticity coming back and my labia are starting to soften. I'm happy to announce that I hardly experience any pain at all now during sex and look forward to a long, and healthy sex life.
I'm going to count this as a victory for myself, as well as Dr. Allan. He changed my life and I'm so glad I placed my happiness in his capable hands. I dont think I'll be updating further after this. So thanks for joining me, I hope my story is helpful and encourages others forward to confidence too!