I Think I Might Have Made a Bad Decision. Is There Anything out There More Permanent & Durable? - Salt Lake City, Utah
Before I got my veneers, my teeth were pretty bad....
Before I got my veneers, my teeth were pretty bad. I had gaps all through out the front of my mouth and this might sound a little funny, but I ate a lot of lemons when I was younger, so givin that token my teeth were a little on the yellow side and whitening really didn't help because the enamel was ruined, anyway about a year ago I decided to get 10 veneers on the top part of my mouth and the results were amazing, they were big and white, exactly what I wanted ! A Hollywood smile, I was really happy. Well after a year of having them I'm already starting to notice the wear and tear on them and I'm having three replaced. One feel off and cracked, one I noticed is shorter than the other on the opposite side and another has a few dents in it.
The dentist has agreed to replace them, but I have to fly out there twice. Once to get a mold done and another time to have them fitted, just like when I first got them done. The dentist was really convincing in telling me that they would last a long time saying things like 'I have patients that have had their veneers for 15 years and they still look the same' and stuff like 'yeah you should be able to eat whatever you want' well no, that's obviously not the case. I can't eat kettle cooked chips which were my favorite or almond roca candies which I use to love, because I am I'm so much fear of them becoming anymore tarnished. You never know until you actually hav them in your mouth, but this seems to me more and more with every passing day that I made a mistake because these will probably be short lived and from what I've read on here, I'll have to replace them every 10 years or so and I am only 19 years old ! How crappy is that?
I love cars and I was hoping I'd be able to experience driving all kinds of different ones through out my life, but it now looks like I will have to invest all of my money in my teeth instead. It makes me really sad because being a 19 year old it was really hard for me to save up all of that money and now that I am on my own it's hard enough to even get rent paid, I don't know how I'm going to be able to do this my whole life ! Super depressing. Especially because my boyfriend has naturally amazing teeth and I get to watch him enjoy all of the things that I use to and can't anymore. I can't even eat a hard shell taco from taco bell ! Lol, anyway can someone help me out on this? I JUST WANT GOOD LOOKING TEETH THAT WILL LAST !!! Without having to worry about them and having anxiety all the time. I'll pay whatever I have to again, I just want a permanent solution ! Will someone please help me out? Caps are still made out of shitty porcilain that you have to replace just like veneers, what about dental implants? Are those more durable? My mother and I would get them together when my veneers completely go to crap, so someone should give a little info and help me out ! :) I wish my dentist would have explained to me how fragile these things really are ! But everything's a business these days, even if it means ruining a young mans teeth and putting him in a financial rut for the rest of his life. Jeez. I really wish I would have just gotten a snap on smile for a fraction of the price, but it's too late for that now that my teeth have been shaved down for these coverings of fragile porcilain. SOMEONE HELP !
Replies (8)
Wow, I don't blame you for being upset. I'm so glad you went to get a second opinion. Of course its hard for me to speculate what your original dentist was thinking...but I have to agree with you that it seems there should have been clues.
Please keep us updated on how you are doing with all of this.
Dylan, I'm also 19 and regretting my decision to get veneers everyday. Read my review http://www.realself.com/review/porcelain-veneers-depressed-and-upset-after-veneers.
I got veneers for two upper front teeth I had fractured as a kid. My dentist said the exact same thing as yours. About them lasting ''a long,long time'' and ''you can eat anything you like'' etc. Well I know they were all lies! Most of all I know that he drilled my teeth down excessively, not want I learned on the internet about minimal shaving. I've had mornings when I couldn't get out of bed and literally feel my heart aching. I've also contemplated implants. I just want a lasting solution. What hurts the most is that people in family keep most of their teeth till their eighties and I don't see that happening for my front two teeth. Just know your NOT ALONE. My heart goes out to you. It's very painful to know our vain choices sabotage our health and happiness. Please contact me if you want to discuss anything.
I am so sorry to hear about the problems you have been having with your veneers. That really is very unfortunate. It is especially unfortunate that your dentist didn't educate you on the upkeep/replacement.
It does sound like you have been having a lot more trouble than most do with porcelain veneers. Do you know what brand? It seems Lumineers are notoriously problematic.
It is my understand that most people do get an average of 10 years out of a set of veneers (of course everyone is a little different, some last longer, some not as long) Here is a Q&A that gives more info on that:
How Long Do Porcelain Veneers and Crowns Last?
It doesn't sound like you feel you are getting the best care from your current dentist. If this is the case you may be better off cutting your losses now, and looking for a dentist who will give you high quality of care. There are lots of good dentists out there who really want the best for their patients, and you deserve that.
As for dental implants, if your roots are healthy, which it sounds like they are, this probably would be too aggressive of a treatment, but a good cosmetic dentist would be the best one to consult on that.
Have you considered setting up a few consultations with different dentists to get their opinions, then going with the treatment plan that you are most comfortable with?
Please keep us posted on how you are doing and what you have found out.