Thank you for sharing your concerns so openly. Facial volume changes and asymmetry can feel especially overwhelming when you’re hearing different recommendations from different providers, and it’s very understandable to want something that still looks soft, natural, and true to you. With your history of hEDS, certain considerations are especially important, and it’s good that you’re thinking carefully before choosing a treatment. Here’s how I would break it down: Volume loss in the face Cheek and temple fillers are common options for restoring gentle volume, but the technique matters. You mentioned not liking the “line” some people get along the cheek — that typically comes from filler placed too superficially or too far laterally. Done correctly and conservatively, cheek and temple filler can look very natural and simply restore the support you used to have. Jaw asymmetry Jawline filler or very precise contouring can help even out subtle differences, but in some cases, muscle activity plays a role. If one side of the jaw is more active, it can create an imbalance that filler alone won’t fix. In those cases, a small dose of masseter Botox can help improve symmetry without altering your natural structure. hEDS considerations With hypermobile EDS, some patients experience faster filler migration, delayed healing, or less predictable results — but this varies widely. Some tolerate hyaluronic acid fillers perfectly well. Sculptra can be an option in some, but because it stimulates collagen, some providers avoid it in EDS due to theoretical risks of nodule formation or unpredictable collagen behavior. It’s not an absolute rule, but it does require extra caution. Botox in the neck (“Nefertiti lift”) This can help refine the jawline and soften downward pull from strong neck bands, but it won’t restore lost volume in the face. It works best as a complement, not the primary solution, for volume-related concerns. What may make the most sense for you Based on your description, a conservative, deep-plane hyaluronic acid filler approach to restore gentle volume — placed thoughtfully to avoid that sharp cheek line — can be very natural. This can be combined with small adjustments to the jaw muscles if asymmetry is partly muscular. What matters most is working with someone who understands both facial harmony and the nuances of hEDS. A careful, minimal approach can absolutely give you subtle improvement without making you look “done.” If you’d like, I can help you weigh the pros and cons of each option more specifically.