What is an average hair loss per day in a woman? What if I shower every other day?

It's normal to lose 50-75 on a typical non wash day. On the days you shower, the loss could be 130 or so and this would still be considered normal. If you're worried please see a physician specializing in hair loss

daily hair loss in men and women are generally the same at between 100-`50 hairs per day. When you get older, women usually cycle less hair per day than men