If you are a true H cup, there would be no problem removing over 1000 grams per breast. Having performed many such reductions, I am unconvinced that you are that big. Proportion is the key. Also keep in mind that you cannot have your cake and eat it,too on the insurance company's dollar....
Every surgeon has his or her protocol for management of dressings but stapling dressing on is unusual. It is more likely that during surgery sterile drapes to isolate the operative are were temporarily stapled to your niece. These area will improve rapidly. Please discuss with...
I would recommend that you contact your surgeon for an evaluation. The stinging sensation may be skin irritation from the steristrips or nerve sensitivity. It is difficult to troubleshoot the problem without an examination. Your surgeon will be able to figure out what is wrong. Good luck....