I never recommend weight gain in preparation for surgery. I want my patients at a stable and healthy weight prior to surgery. With weight gain, your waist will likley be larger, whereas the goal of this surgery is a smaller waist.
You had Butt injections, probably by non-physician, which could be non-medical grade silicone, or hydrogel. After infection and treatment in Emergency Room. I am sure you still have a lot of the material injected still in waiting to get infected, because of the previuos infection the material...
Sculptra is a great non surgical alternative to surgery for the butt. Sculptra builds up over time therefore you can spread out the cost over multiple sessions if needed.
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