It is a small area and the skin is sensitive so shaving is a good option.However laser is doable but will cause redness and swelling and a tear spot is recommended
It is appropriate to have the hair shaved before laser. This prevents burns on the skin from the laser targeting the hair above the skin instead of below the skin (where the root is - the target). It would be best if you shaved this at home the day of or day before laser to avoid any...
Absolutely, laser hair removal in the pubic area is safe. Make sure you go to a plastic surgery or dermatology office that does a lot of laser hair removal, understands different skin types, and has the proper laser for your skin type (not just one laser for everyone).