I am 43 and have I have sagging jowls, neck and cheeks. My skin is very thin. Ultherapy or Mini lift? (photos)

I am a thin person and I don't have very much volume in my face or neck. I am considering Ultherapy face /neck, but I'm afraid it may not have good results and may even cause more volume loss in my face. I also have upper lip lines. Would I be a good candidate for Ultherapy or a mini lift? I am concerned with down time (have little kids), and embarrassing obvious facelift scars. Can a neck lift be done under local anesthesia? Any recommendations for my melting face would be appreciated!