I had a panniculectomy in 2015 and thigh lift with lipo in 2017 with Dr. Defranzo. He is very competent and I had good results with both. I healed nicely and barely have a scar on my abdomen. My thighs do have some scarring but that is more related to the area being more difficult.
Today is the big day. I am very nervous, happy, scared all at one time. I love working out, but have to wear 2 sports bras when I do. The indentations on my shoulders hurt and my lower back has started to hurt more lately. Thank god after going to many private plastic surgeons, one suggested that I could possibly have my insurance pick it up. After speaking to my primary health care physician, I was approved 3 weeks later. I have to have my procedure in the main hospital and main OR. That's a requirement by blue cross and blue shield. I also have to stay overnight as well. I paid 1600.00 out of pocket, which makes the total price 21,000. Updated on 6 Nov 2015: I'm so shocked to see how one side is almost 2 cups bigger than left. Thank god my insurance company paid.i really needed this. Off to the doctor for my procedure this morning. Updated on 6 Nov 2015: Omg goodness it was suppose to be 2 hour surgery, but it was closer to 6. I had alot of tissue to remove. Got reduce to a full C hopefully. They gave me so much nausea medicine that I feel good in recovery. I needed some morphine, but now since I ate crackers I feel much better. My. Doctor came to check in on me, but one big blur lol. Mt husband has been right by my side. He miss my biggest boobs, but he understands why I needed the procedure. Updated on 7 Nov 2015: I was so tired, my husband and I got some much needed rest. The staff was amazing and so kind. Updated on 8 Nov 2015: Finally made it home. As long as I keep a tight regimen of my medicines, I hardly hurt Trying up load pictures of day 3. Mom my is a nurse and she said that my doctor did the best breast reduction and lift she had ever seen. Updated on 8 Nov 2015: So I followed all the rules putting frozen peas on the itching. This really works, help take my mind off the burning sensation at the incisions. I'm really lifted which I love. My family is so shocked that I'm up moving around. I have been taking my laxatives, ready to get things moving. Updated on 9 Nov 2015: Hopefully I can get my drains out soon. I'm barely bleeding any more. Had a few sharp chest pains, but nothing major. I am still very tired. Taking all my medicines and had a great night resting. Updated on 10 Nov 2015: Today my drains came out. And she pulled all the tape off. I was so nervous about my babies getting hurt, my anxiety was on 10. However it did not. Well I took my perk before I got there. They put me in a 38 c cup bra and man it was to tight. I went home and put the tube top back on they gave me in the hospital. Still not able to shower but tomorrow I can wash off. I felt really weak today. Light headed and dizzy. I cried because I never felt like this. I called my doctor and he said going to sleep by gas can make your brain feel weird. Not to mention all the medicine I'm on. I just prayed and ask God to keep healing me. Just emotional but the girls look nice, but i think I'm a D not a full C. I put Vaseline on my nipple to reduce itching. Updated on 13 Jan 2016: Hi everyone, I'm loving my new breast. I can run, walk, lift and work out with no worries. I feel so young and playing with my 3 kids has been amazing. I do feel aches and light shooting pains here and they're. I'm starting to massage tyke raised areas on my scars now. They were way to sensitive before now to massage. This may be too much to say, but sex is amazing, not having my breast smack my husband or suffocate him lol lol. I feel more confident and sexy now with my new perky girls. Yass. No more banana boobs. I have now elected to have a tummy tuck in 2 weeks on Jan 26,2016 to finish the mommy makeover. Using my same doctor I love Dr. Defrenzo in Winston-Salem NC. I am really excited. I still can't go without a bra, it hurts my breast to be without one for 5 mins. Maybe the intern stitches are being pulled or something. Anyway recovery was a beast. I would never do it again. The pain pills, make you feel crazy. I had to spend the 4th day after surgery in my room with the windows up. I was just spinning in my head. Updated on 14 Jan 2016: Hey everyone as promised I took a few pictures this morning. Not sure why they came in upside down, but you get the point. I'm trying to find a solution for the raised areas on my incisions, but i do massage every other day the incisions itself to help with the swelling in them. I love love love them. I look better in my clothes now. It's so funny because my kids said mommy your breast are to small now they make your stomach look huge. Lol lol. Talk about honesty. And they ate right, so I am getting my tummy tuck in 2 weeks, hopefully I will have a great time healing as I did with my breast. Oh and ladies, please do not try and lift anything until 3 weeks. You honestly need that much time to feel better mentally, physically and emotionally. Put Vaseline on the cuts twice a day and always wear your bra. I am a true 40 D now. Updated on 14 Jan 2016: It's funny because I was wearing the wrong bra size the entire time. When I asked my doctor to get me to a full C, he chuckled, because he said even if I took 50 percent of your breast away you would not be a Full C cup. Since my insurance covered mine, they had to take at least 50% I believe, but i was still left with a D, so I'm completely happy with that. I'll keep you guys updated. Oh I almost forgot, my husband complains a little, because they are not as big anymore. Can you believe that ? Men are the worst. I told him he can walk around with a 5 pound bag of potatoes on his chest wall everyday, but I'm not doing it. :)
After some consideration and consultation with my mother and grandmother (who are super amazing and supportive) we decided to make an appointment to meet with the PS and discuss whether or not I should have a BR. He said I would be a perfect candidate. I am 18 and have been a size 36 DDD/G for about a year and a half. I've always been rather busty but it wasn't until I was trying on dresses for my senior prom that I noticed how big I really was. (It should have been a clue when I put on 2-3 sports bras for working out) I think I had a bit of Big Boob Denial... Anyways, I've always had back, neck, and shoulder problems since I broke my arm freshman year of high school in a snowboarding accident. I swam in high school before that and continued after, which didn't really help things much. Prom dress shopping was really the breaking point. When I met with the PS early this month, he said it could happen either in a few weeks or over winter break in college. So we waited and heard that it could happen the 27th. I was over the moon when I found out!!! Finally I wouldn't have to worry about squeezing into multiple sports bras or making sure I didn't get the dreaded double-boob anymore! And the best part is that it is before I start college so no one will know anything different. People from home would say "WOW your boobs are HUGE" like it was a compliment but, in all honesty, it made me feel super self conscious, especially if it was coming from a guy. Another thing I'm looking forward to is being able to walk into Target or wherever and pick a swimsuit off the rack versus having to order them offline. I'm just nervous about being put under because I've never had to be before. Also a little uneasy about the recovery, though I'm sure my ma and grandma will be on it like nobody's business. I hope that I'll be able to workout easier, that the numbness and strain on my back and shoulder will disappear and that I'll just feel better. I know it might take a little while but I'm hoping it'll be worth it. I have the pre-op appointment in Winston Salem tomorrow! Updated on 26 Jul 2012: Pre-op went well! They really are wonderful at the Wake Forest Baptist Hospital and they made me and my mom feel reassured and a LOT less worried about it. They told us everything we needed to know and I think they plan on keeping mom well informed throughout. I'm getting more excited as time passes so today is going to seem so LOOOOOOONG. Updated on 2 Aug 2012: Surgery went great and I'm on the recovery road! No news over the last few days other than I had my first post-op visit and he said they were looking great! I haven't had any pain in my shoulder or neck since Friday when I had the surgery. I think that's a great sign. Updated on 7 Nov 2012: I never knew I could be this busy. I started college and have been settling in quite nicely! I love my school. I can't believe it's been this long since surgery!! I am feeling fantastic. There is no pain anywhere in my back, neck, or shoulders and I could't be any happier. The only thing that still happens is that after a workout, my boobs are a little tender. This also occurs during that time of the month. But that should go away in time! The scars are healing up well, they're still a bit raised, but that should also clear up. Having the procedure has severely impacted my day to day life in a very positive way. Honestly, I cannot even remember what it was like to have gargantuan boobs and I am so glad.
2 kids ~ 1 c-section 1990 105 lbs gained ~ 1 natural birth 2000 30 lbs gained .... lost 60 lbs & 50 inches this past year .... current weight is 148 ;) ... Curves member for the past 16 months ... lower ab muscles torn ;( I'm so excited and scared at the same time I can't even think straight anymore lol ... I have read so many tt stories on here I. Just had to share my journey with you all ;) I look forward to sharing my feelings with everyone & I wish all you the best in your tt journey ;) Updated on 29 Oct 2011: Only 3 more days ;) I'm so ready for the new "funsize" that is my nickname lol little about me since I forgot to put in my first post. I'm 39 years young I'm 5' 3" and weigh 148 lbs. I have been married for 16 years (on 11-11-11 be 16 years) to the man of my dreams that I love with every breath that I take. Well, got everything that I need for surgery thanks to this site there are several things that you all mentioned that I put on my list. We are just going to go out and about today. Take daughter to get her a pair of jeans and try not to worry about surgery (yea right that is not going to happen) Well I will post later on today how I'm doing/feeling ;) have a GREAT day my tt friends! Updated on 30 Oct 2011: 2 more days ladies ;) getting so excited just really want this all behind me (I think) I'm not looking forward to the pain or just being down, and not working etc... maybe it will be a good thing to just chill and have someone else take care of me and do house work lol ... well, I will post later today going to stay home today clean house, laundry etc... oh yea and cry! Lol my emotions are all over the placeUpdated on 31 Oct 2011:Tummy Tuck in the morning at 10:00 I'm totally freaking out. Went shopping this morning to get some things and I couldn't for the life of me remember what I needed when I got in the store. My mind is so not with it today. I'm happy one minute and then crying the next minute. I can see me tonight going trick or treating walking ... crying ... eating all the canding in the bag LOL ... Well, I will try to post some more later on tonight or in the morning before I leave. Going to go clean the bathrooms and wipe everything for the 10th time :) Have a GREAT day my tt friendsUpdated on 31 Oct 2011:Just got back from trick or treating ;) had a great time hubby helped me keep my mind off tt, but it was hard to not show how freaked out I am. Sitting on the couch right now watching Happy Days, and just praying that everything will go ok. I wanted to Thank everyone for making a comment and I wish you ALL the best in your tt journey. I will post in the morning before I leave going to try to calm down and watch tv. Night Night my tt friends ;)Updated on 1 Nov 2011:Good morning my tt friends ;) sitting on the couch and wanted to post a comment before I left. I'm doing really good this morning. Went to bed at 12:00 woke up at 5:00 I'm tired, but I will sleep during surgery lol lol I wish I could have something to drink (coffee) they told me not to drink or eat anything past midnight. Well I better get up and see if everyone is ready. Please keep me in your thoughts today my tt friends ;)Updated on 1 Nov 2011:Phone is going to shut down at hospital I'm doing great I'm so happy ;) the only thing something happen to my left eye got cut or something can't blink hurts really bad feels lik a needle is stuck in the corner ;( I'm so hungry I swear I'm rating everything I see lol good food of course ... post a comment tomorrow. Stay over night at hospital they are so nice to me doctor come in and said to me I looked like a supermodel oh my he made me feel sp good he said noproblems during surgery bleeding etc.... he said I have no streatch marks he cut them all off have seen tummy I'm so tiny and flat it finally paid off all the hard work I have done this past year. Hope this all makes sence cause I feel pretty good lol have a great night and I wish you all the best on your tt journey you will love it ;)Updated on 2 Nov 2011:Hell my tt friends ... I made it just fine. Surgery went great had no problems what so ever and I'm feelin fantastic. My reults are so amazing I would have never thought I would have did as great as I doing. First night at hospital couldn't sleep think it was just more everyone coming in giving me meds checking blood presure etc... the only thing that happened is that come how my left eye got scratched and it hurt so bad I wouldn't blink without it feeling like a needle was in there. Still kind of hurts but not ass bad. Doctor gave me some meds and t seems to making it better ;) my cut is very low looks fantastic lipo went great no bruising ... all I can say is WOW I'm so thrilled with my doctor and how he listened to me and did exactly what I asked of him. Taking my pain meds and feeling fine. Right now sitting on couch getting ready to watch a movie we rent at redbox. Just hope it don't make me laugh cause it really does hurt to laugh. Oh I have cried several times just looking in mirror just seeing what I have wanted for over 20 years and I still can't believe it. I don't have 1 single streatch mark he cut everything away. I just can't say enough about my doctor he is fantastic ;) well off to watch our movie and relax. Oh asked doctor about binder he is totally against them he said that if wore not right to tight etc.. it can cause you blood flow to not flow as well and it can do more harm make your skin not get enough blood flow have dead skin ;( don't want that ... I just overall honestly feel fantastic and I'm so happy I did this for me. Have a great night my tt friends. I will post photos tomorrow when I can ;)Updated on 3 Nov 2011:Hello all my tt friends ;) hope you all are doing great in your recovery or are getting ready for surgery and all is going well ;) well I slept great last night (recliner) hubby woke me up every 4 hours to take my meds what a wonderful hubby ;) haven't had to much trouble getting around the hardest part is getting up to go to the bathroom seems like everything is so tight in my back and tummy. I'm really concered about eating cause everything that I see I'm eating lol doctor said its just fine just eat and drink water and I will be just fine. I'm going to have hubby take photos her shortly and I will post them as soon as I can. Hope you all are having a great recovery and I will keep you all in my thoughts on the ones that are having surgery. Again this is the best thing I could have ever done .... I just feel so complete and finally feel like a woman that I. Have always wanted ;) ok just made myself cry and it hurts to cry lol ....Updated on 9 Nov 2011:Just a quick update thanks for all the messages I have received ;) each one that I read means the world to me knowing how much you all care ;) went to doctors today and I was so surprised he took both drains out which I only figured one so I was a happy camper ;) let me just say the one didn't hurt the other one let me just say I said a few not so good words lol I'm doing great and I feel fantastic sleeping in the recliner which I'm really comfy to tell the truth lol .... I have 2 throw pillows behind my back one regular pillow on one side and a regular pillow on the other side a regular pillow under my legs and 2 blankets I'm just as comfy as I can be ;) doctor told me today to stay off my feet for at least 2 days bathroom and up to eat and that is it. He wants to make sure I get no fluid in my tummy since both drains was removed. He took off all tape today and my cut looks great ... I'm telling you I have never in my life been so happy with me. I have so much confidence in me know and when I left doctors office he wanted me to go to walmart to get me a binder ... the binder is like a pair of underware but has a high waist to cover tummy and hips ;) I will promise to post photos tomorrow I have been just taking it easy but I'm so excited to share them with you all ;) plus I will tell you all about what I have bought etc... so all the up coming tt will see what they may or may not need. Have a great night my tt friends I wish you all the best in your journey. Deb ~ SunshineUpdated on 10 Nov 2011:Hello my tt friends :) Well here are the photos that I promised. I had some up before, but they got deleted some how? They was the ones before my surgery YUCK LOL so I will post them all again. If you have any questions please leave me a comment I love to hear from you all :) I'm really swollen on both sides (hips) doctor said he took more then what he thought, but I can deal with the swollen part. I have NO stretch marks what so ever on my body, and trust me I had some that was 3" wide and like an 1" deep. That is why my sides (hips) are so swollen, cause he went all the way around and made sure to get all of them. I just LOVE my doctor he did a FANTASTIC job! Thanks Dr. Anthony J. DeFranzo fo Wake Forest Baptist Medical Center you are the best :) Going to go lay back down on the couch and watch tv and then go back to sleep. The meds do make me very tired :(Updated on 10 Nov 2011:wanted to post something really fast after I uploaded all the photos. I noticed some of the photos was showing some stretch marks? Must have been the flash on the camera, cause I don't see any on my tummy. Oh another thing I looked at my before photos and after photos and I just had to tell you all that I cried and I'm so happy that I did this for me I feel so much better about myself & I can say I FEEL LIKE A WOMAN again and my confidence level will never be hurt again :) there are some really bad people in this world and I will never understand why they would hurt you the way they do, but I can say that what has happened to me made me a STRONGER WOMAN ... AMEN!Updated on 12 Nov 2011:Well ladies not sure what is up with me, but went to bed at 5:30 last night cried all night woke up at 12:00 and started crying again. I'm having a really hard time with my hip/lipo area. I swear in my heart that I'm so much bigger. Yeserday was our 16 year anniversary and I didn't have one pair of pants in closet that fit me so needless to say we didn't go anywhere. The only thing that fit me was a pair of monkey pjs pants and I wasn't going out to dinner in that. I just feel so bad about myself I love my tummy it looks flat just perfect but doctor told me I would have some swelling on hipsbut this is just crazy! When I say this I mean it I can grab a full handful of fat to me its not nswelling its fat cause its the same fat well feels the same as day of surgery. I went the other day and bought me a half garment to wear to like undies that come up past my hips. I'm going to get ready shortly and head out and get me a full body garment maybe that will help me. I'm not sure if I'm just like having just like a moment but this really makes my confidence level at a 0 right now ;( I hope once I get a full bosy garment it will help hold in the hip ares so I can at least wear 1 pair of pants. Sorry for not such a happy post but it just seems that others can't understand that I want to look and feel like a woman and I feel like a big piece of dog dodo ;( xoxoUpdated on 13 Nov 2011:Wanted to thank everyone for posting a comment to me yesterday on me having a bad day I'm doing much better this morning. Started my period maybe that is why my emotions was off the chart cause I'm hardly ever in a bad mood let alone cry for 2 days. Again thank you all for your kind words you all really do help me. Even if I don't know you I know and can feel how much you all care in my heart. Again have a great day and thanks again wink wink ... xoxo deb ps going to layon couch all day and watch christmas shows they are playing them on the hallmark channel if you get it ;)Updated on 16 Nov 2011:Good morning ;) need some advise until I can get talk to doctor. I think I have slept 2 hrs last night I'm in NO pain but my tummy feels like its on fire ... its like a burning feeling .. it don't hurt it just willnt let up and its driving me crazy! Ifeel great just the burning feeling? Hubby and I think it my the muscle repair cause the numbness has wore off? If anyone has had this can you tell me what uou did or what they said to you until I can talk to my doctor ;) thanks everyone hope all my tt friends are doing great! Xoxo debUpdated on 23 Nov 2011:Good Morning my tt friends :) Just a quick update on how I'm doing. Went to the doctors yesterday (3 weeks post op) and he said that I'm doing great & everything looks GREAT! YEA..... I'm still really swollen on my hips & lower back (lipo) my incision looks WONDERFUL! I'm so happy. They removed the final tape yesterday & I get to leave my incision uncovered for the next 2 weeks & then I can start my scar strips & bio-oil :) I was so surprised at the incision/scar .... there are some spots that you can't even tell I was cut at all :)I just LOVE my doctor ... he is amazing and I told him so. I haven't had any problems really just some burning and my tummy sometimes feels likes it cement (gets really hard at times) and really bothers me. He told me that was a sign of over doing it & I should be relaxing more ... so going to slow it down some. I totally want the best result possible so I will do anything that he tells me to do. Other then that I'm going GREAT and I LOVE my results. At this time I going to start wearing a full body undergarment. He said that would help with the swelling I'm having. The tighter the better. I told him that I was concered about the swelling in my hips/lower back area he told me with time that would go down. I have went up 2 sizes in pants due to the swelling, but he told me that with time the swelling would go down. So just telling with that right now. It's just hard going up 2 sizes, but he told me it has to go somewhere & it ended up in my hips/lower back. He also told me that I looked TINY ... that just made me smile :) Well, I hope everyone has a great day & Happy Thanksgiving to you all. Hope you enjoy the new photos. Deb p.s. I feel like the pillsbury doughboy LOL ...Updated on 30 Nov 2011:Hello my tt friends :) Hope you are all doing ok. I just wanted to update my forum with some new photos. I had hubby take my after photos (which these are 26 days) to match my before photos that way you can really see the difference. I have been doing really good this past week. I have listened to the doctor and have been sitting on the couch with legs up and not doing anything. I'm not really having any problems right now (knock on wood lol) just some swelling in my hips and lower back, but I did purchase a new TIGHTER garment and WOW has it made a difference. I have noticed that my tummy is getting much softer not so hard, but I'm still really swollen so I'm not sure of the final results yet. So far I LOVE my new tummy. I'm still sleeping on the couch/recliner. I start out in the recliner then by morning I'm laying over on the couch. This morning I woke up on my back and let me tell you it was really hard to get up. It felt like someone had just kicked me really hard in my lower back. I looked at my cat and was like you going to help me or not LOL ... to funny! My incision/scar is looking really good to me. I'm not allowed to put anything on it until I go back to the doctors on Dec. 7th :( he wanted me to keep it dry with nothing on it no lotion or nothing. So I can't wait to start my scar treatment sheets and bio-oil. The photo of my new garment below I have been wearing 24/7. I either wear my one piece garment under it or a tub tank top. I didn't like the way it felt on my skin and it was really leaving bad marks on me so this way I'm protecting my skin from it :) Also you will notice in one of th photos the metal strips that was in the garment there was like 6 of them. I put a small hole and pulled them all out .. and wow what a difference it made. With the metal strips in there it was really bad almost like a knife when I sat down so out they come :) Well, if you have any questions just let me know. Enjoy the photos :)Updated on 30 Nov 2011:I forgot to mention ... I'm still not into any of my pants that I wore before surgery :( I'm still up 2 sizes even with the TIGHT garment on :( It makes me really sad, but I know it's part of healing etc.... it's just we try so hard to get at a size we are comfortable with and then we have surgery and we go up 2 sizes ... I know stop complaining LOL... I'm so swollen on the hips/lower back just hope it goes downUpdated on 10 Dec 2011:Hello tt friends :) Hope you all are healing well. Wanted to update you all ... doing GREAT on my end. Went this past Tuesday for my 1 month check up and he said that I looked GREAT :) YEA.... I have did everything that the ps has asked me to do no excercise, lifting, moving a lot in general just sit on my butt LOL ... I'm so glad that I listened to him it has made a world of difference in my healing :) It's been hard but I wanted the best results possible. My ps told me that I could start back to Curves 2nd week of January, but I'm going to go back the first of February. I'm really excited to see how my body will change after working out again I love how I look now I can only imaigne what I will look like when I start working out & walking again. Haven't had any problems on my end feeling really great. Wearing my binder still all day & night don't bother me at all. Going to start on my scar gel & scaraway sheets tonight so look forward to seeing how the scar heals. I'm really happy how my scar/incision and bb turned out :) I told hubby today that I don't even feel like I have had a tt, cause I feel wonderful! Well hope you like my 36 days post op photos. If you have any questions just let me know. Happy healing everyone ..... p.s. I'm still somewhat swollen on my hips area, but I'm so ok right now :)Updated on 12 Dec 2011:Well just a quick update. I have decided to leave Curves after 16 months ... I'm really not looking forward to telling them cause the lady that works at Curves has been with me for 16 months she is truely a special friend to me. Its going to break my heart to tell her, but its time for me to move on and do more ;) went to another gym today and I'm really excited about joining (feburary 1st) I'm going to be doing free weights, kick boxing, weight training, yoga, pilates, spin, cardio training in water, aqua fit in water, interval insanity, kettleball pump, metabolic effect, zumba, zumba toning ... this is just some of what I will be doing ;) this is going to be such a big change for me but I just know in my heart its time to move on and do more of what I know I can do ... well hope I can do! All I can do is try right ;) well until next time ... happy healing!Updated on 14 Dec 2011:Hello my tt friends :) Hope everyone is healing ok. I just wanted to share a photo with you all. Hubby took it this morning on his phone. This is the first photo I have took in my jeans without my binder on :) I just had to share. Sorry if it's fuzzy hubby phone not that good LOL... I'm 43 days post op as of today 12-14-11 and I'm doing GREAT! I still have some swelling going on which ps told me that I could expect swelling up to 6 months or longer :( Really excited about starting a new workout program Feb. 1st. Started my scar gel & scar sheets .... looking better & better everyday. Well, until next time ....Updated on 30 Dec 2011:Good Morning my TT Friends :) Hope you all had a GREAT Christmas. I just wanted to update on how everything is going. I'm 59 days today since my tt & I'm doing GREAT! I did have a scare last Tuesday the 20th ... woke up and felt like something was wrong with my tummy right above my belly button ... it hurt really bad. I couldn't get comfortable no matter what I did. So around 11:00 I had enough got in the truck & drove to my ps. Needless to say I cried all the way there felt like a needle was just poking me. When I got there I walked in and they took me straight back. My ps told me that I had moved the wrong way & my inside stitch (upper ab muscle repair) was poking into my tissue :( He said he wasn't poking my muscle just my tissue. Which that was a good thing. I guess I twisted etc... and caused the stitch to move and poke into my tissue. Let me just say it hurt! He gave me some pain meds and told me not to do anything but lay on couch and try not to move or twist my tummy. So I did what he said and I'm good to go :) It really scared me cause he said if it would have poked the muscle I would have know cause my tummy would turn black and blue due to the stitch poking my muscle it would cause it to bleed, but it never did I layed like a baby for a week on the couch LOL ...I feel like it never happened as of today. Other then that I'm feeling GREAT today! I feel like I'm back to normal... well I will never be normal LOL I'm sleeping in the bed on my sides on my back no pain or nothing. My incision is looking wonderful I started my scar treatment on the 11th. I used the scar away silicone sheets (whole box) but I'm going to stick with the Mederma Scar GEL ... I love the results of this product and it's so much easier to use then the scar away silicone sheets. I put it on the incision 4 days a day ... morning, lunch, dinner & bedtime ... My incison is healing very nice there are some places you can't even see the incision :) I also put it around my belly button. My belly button is looking good and I'm so happy with how everyting turned out. I never really had any problems along the way. I did what the doctor asked of me. I'm still wearing my binder all day I only take off when I take a shower & sometimes I leave off when I go to the grocery store (maybe 3 hours at the most) I do get swelling, but it's nothing I can't deal with :) I'm still not into my post op jeans due to the swelling of my hips. My ps told me at the 6 month mark if I wasn't happy with my hips he would do a revision and do more lipo so that put my mind at ease. I don't want to wait 6 months, but I have to keep telling myself that it was major surgery and everything will work out. My ps is WONDERFUL and he really listens to me & gives me answers to all my questions. It's still hard to accept that I'm bigger after a tt, but I know in time it will all work out & I will be 100% happy :) Since my last post I mentioned that I was going to quit Curves after being a member for 16 months, but I'm going back to Curves Feb 1st and I'm also going to join another gym for body building. I'm going to be doing Curves Mon. Wed. Fri. and body building on Tues. Thurs. Sat..... I'm really excited about getting back to the gym and see what I can do to help with the results of my tt :) It's going to be hard to do it all, but I have decided that is what I want :) I have a business where I work out of my house, but I'm going to take a much needed break and work on me :) Well until next time ... I hope you all are doing GREAT and all the up coming tt I wish you the best results :) If you have any questions please let me know. I would be more then happy to answer them :)Updated on 31 Dec 2011:HAPPY NEW "YOU" YEAR ....Updated on 1 Jan 2012:2 months today & a NEW YEAR! Going to make it the best that I can ;) good luck to all the upcoming tt for the new year. I wish everyone the best ;) DebUpdated on 7 Jan 2012:Hello all my tt friends ;) just a quick update .... I'm doing great on my end. I stopped wearing any kind of binder/garment on Jan. 1st and feeling fine. Some swelling at times but I wanted to let my body just be ;) tummy still feels tight belly button healing very well scar/incision looks great doing scar gel 4 times a day and just moving right along. Haven't started back working out yet ... start back on the 24th at a new gym going to be weight training 3 days a week and Feb. 1st going back to Curves 3 days a week ;) I'm hoping with working out 6 days I will begin to loose the swelling/fluid I'm still holding on too ;) hope everyone is moving right along and enjoying the new YOU ... Deb Going to try to post new photos tom. I will be 68 days tom. Wow time is flying by!Updated on 23 Jan 2012:Hello all my tt friends ;) just a quick update. I start my weight training tomorrow which I'm really excited about and scared at the same time. Just don't want to hurt myself in anyway. I'm feeling really good I'm 83 days today. Went to the doctors last Wednesday due to swelling getting worse. My doctor told me I did have some fluid build up but he couldn't drain cause it wasn't all in a pocket (one area) its like the fluid is all in my hips and lower back area. Its like just spreaded all out ... hope you understand what I'm trying to say. He told me to walk, walk and more walk and it will go away ;) other then the swelling I'm doing really good on my end and I wish you all the best in your recovery and to all the up coming tt I wish you the best. I will post new photos sometime this week. DebUpdated on 23 Jan 2012:Hello all my tt friends ;) just a quick update. I start my weight training tomorrow which I'm really excited about and scared at the same time. Just don't want to hurt myself in anyway. I'm feeling really good I'm 83 days today. Went to the doctors last Wednesday due to swelling getting worse. My doctor told me I did have some fluid build up but he couldn't drain cause it wasn't all in a pocket (one area) its like the fluid is all in my hips and lower back area. Its like just spreaded all out ... hope you understand what I'm trying to say. He told me to walk, walk and more walk and it will go away ;) other then the swelling I'm doing really good on my end and I wish you all the best in your recovery and to all the up coming tt I wish you the best. I will post new photos sometime this week. Deb
So I have been considering doing this since last summer but couldn't muster the courage till now. Have had several consultations but finally made a decision to go 1 hour out of town to Winston Salem. Have had my consultation, paid my deposit and finally picked a date. April 12th is the D day. Back in college and until 10 years ago, I was known for my shapely figure especially my slim waist. But sadly, that is now all gone. Have gained quite some weight the past 2 years and now at my heaviest. I aim to lose some weight and get fitter before surgery. Let the count down begin! Updated on 21 Feb 2016: Still reviewing my plans to have this tummy tuck. I am sure i want to improve my appearance and the tummy tuck is easily affordable and will be a somewhat permanent solution. ..... but I sometimes wonder if I am also being too vain In wanting to get it. When I manage to lose weight, my shape is not too bad although the saging skin on my lower belly and the stretch marks remain.... right now I am at my heaviest and was just looking at my body... even now at this weight I do not look so terrible. .... Should I just get Lipo to my waist and back and abdomen? The destroyed skin on my lower abdomen from stretching skin during my 4 pregnancis do not bother me that much. I consider them battle scars but for a great cause. This body has carried 4 beautiful babies! My hubby does not seem to mind. And I am not one to ever consider wearing a bikini. But on the other hand I also feel since I am fixing things to do a good job. Not sure how much change just Lipo will make. But lipo ( i believe) comes with less risks and less downtime...Any opinions are very welcome. Thanks Updated on 24 Feb 2016: I am finding this wait so distracting. Just want to get this over and done with so I can move on. All I do these days is read reviews on RS and check out post op pictures. Then I stand in front of a mirror and try to imagine what I will look like post op :). Which I could get my Dr to do it now but I am only Nicotine free 3 weeks now. Will still try to move my date to Easter. Updated on 8 Mar 2016: So, I had a virtual consultation yesterday with a Maimi Area Dr and he used a software to show me what my results would look like. I was really impressed with the potential outcome. Even more excited now. Currently taking daily walks and minding my diet as well as using the elliptical machine once a day. I'm trying to keep fit and lose some weight but perhaps not too much. I carry most of my excess weight on my boobs and buttocks and then abdominal area. My current thinking is to keep the boobs and bottom the way they are and get rid of the tummy to get the result depicted in the potential post op image. Updated on 9 Mar 2016: Hurray! I'm getting bumped up to the 22nd of March due to a cancelation . Really happy. Oh my God.. I'm having surgery in less than 2 weeks. Really need to start getting my supplies. Where to start....? :) Updated on 15 Mar 2016: Went in to see my primary care provider for physical which included labs and ECG . Went ok and I am ok to proceed as long as pending lab results are fine. Will see the Plastic surgeon tomorrow for final review and preop assessment. Surgery is next week. I have to admit i am a bit more worried /anxcious than excited as the surgery date approaches. I think other peoples anxieties regarding anasthesia and surgery and associated risks are getting to me. Ordinarily i wouldnt have been that concerned as I am an experienced RN and have been around for quiet few surgeries and looked after hundreds of patients post op. But I am going to put my trust in God and ask for his peace which passet all understanding to wash over me. His grace is more than enough for me. ... And with that, I march boldly forward towards the flat side :) Updated on 20 Mar 2016: Can't believe I'll be having surgery in less than 48 hrs. Getting every thing organised at home. My daughter flew in from Dublin Ireland for the easter/ surgery to help out. She is looking great. Also my sister in law is flying in from San Francisco to help out. Plenty of support. .. I feel so blessed. Moved the Chaise Lounger in my bed room to the Loft so I can still be a part of the family while healing. Will serve as my recliner. Have the supplies I anticipate I will need and also filled in my prescription for post op care. Will post an entry when I am all marked up in the hospital Updated on 22 Mar 2016: So folks. i got a call yesterday from my awesome, rather goodlooking and really nice Nurse Aneasthetist who took time to reassure me that he will take good care of me. How cool is that? Amazingly i felt great yesterady and happy and even excited. I arrived this morning at 8am and was promptly attended to. My nurse Sarah was super. Then Dr DeFrano came in and marked me all up. I can tell he is a nice man but the straightfoward -no- meaninless- niceties type. i dont mind that at al. infact i like that, a bit like that my self. So i chatted away to the nurse and anesthetist about my Job as a Clinical Trials Monitor, and next I know, I am in recovery with my daughter and my friends daughter smilng down at me! Awesome! No real pain, mostly discomfort in my upper abdomen. Curretly i have no waist, just a numb and swollen mid section filled with fluid. Wish I had a binder to help with this swelling. Maybe the Dr will order one after he reviews me. Just placed an order for some food. Loving the attention. Happy Happy in my modern private room with a nice view of Winston Salem! Updated on 24 Mar 2016: Hi everyone. Hope everything is well with you all. I'm day 2 post op today. Wao! Can't believe I did this and that it's finally behind me. So glad I had the courage to do this. And that I had my family's support as well. I'm being looked after very well at home. My daughter and sister in law have been simply wonderful. They make sure I have all I need to keep me comfortable and watch me like a hawk! Also have everything at home under control. I'm so comfortable I'm walking straight without and difficulty and have to keep telling my self to bend over. Drains are putting out very well. Have a small ooze from my incision site so I put a sterile gauze over that spot. Otherwise no problems with wound. Belly button looks funky but ok. I'm still supper swollen but it's calming down steadily. I look a bit crooked as I have more swellin on one side that the other. Developed a couple of small blisters above my incision and the word from my PS clinic is to not pick or open these but just let them be. I'm super flat in front but so broad and plank-like and thick in the middle. I know this will resolve with time. Eating clean and taking my vitamins and protein shakes. Taking percocet approximately every 8 hrs or so. Have the binder on at all times Updated on 25 Mar 2016: Swelling continues to receeding and getting curvy! Happy Happy. Feeling almost like my self today . Does anyone else have these weird sensation across there abdomen that feels like ripples? Almost similar to a baby moving around during pregnancy! Feels like mini ripples across different areas of my abdomen. Updated on 29 Mar 2016: I'm a week post up today. Doing good. No pain at all whatsoever... even when I cough. Just a tightness. My drains are still in and draining darkish blood although the volume has droped significantly. No ooze from my incision at all and appears to have lead over nicely. I do however believe I have a moderate size hematoma on my left side extending from above my inscion into my groin. The swelling make my tummy look uneven and croked. I see my PS tomorrow for my first post op visit. Hopefully he will get this fixed without having to open me up. I feel I have lost so much blood since this surgery and was easily worn out with very minimal activivty but I'm getting stronger each day. Updated on 1 Apr 2016: Hi all. I'm doing great. Took a shower for the first time since surgery yesterday! Hot water never felt so good I can tell ya. Also snuck out drove to a mall 32 mins while hubby was at to briefly do an exchange. Bad idea. Mu tummy muscles where in knots half way to the shop! And remained so the entire time till I came home and took some diazepam. Was like being pregnant and having Braxton Hicks all the time all over again! On the bright side, still pain free, taking benadryl for the itch around my steristrips which have left me with blisters that turn to black marks. Can't wait to get all of them off but ps wants them to remain in place for now. Some have fallen off though ;). My scar is so thin you actually have trouble identifying then at some spots. Swelling continues to receed. I no longer look as crocked. I ordered a compression garment that arrived today. Will seek clearance at my PS visit next week to use these. Updated on 2 Apr 2016: Was going stir crazy and feeling full or energy this morning so decided to go for a walk. Walked 2 miles and happy to report it went very well. No I'll effects afterwards. Really pleased with my healing so far. Updated on 8 Apr 2016: Hello all, I have to say, I have had an amazing recovery! All glory and honor to the most high! And so much thanks to My wonderful PS! And my adoring family! I am practically back to baseline. I had to make a necessary trip to my base office yesterday and it is 2.5 hours away and handled it like a champ!! Five hours of driving! I have been driving myself for over a week now, walking, even 10 mins a day on the elliptical machine and I actually catch myself running up the stairs in my home like I did before surgery! Not a twinge or tweak from any part of my body! Swelling continues to resolve. My youngest daughter actually questions if I am sure I had surgery! Only complaint is the Faja which is uncomfortable to sit in and all the dark marks left on me from my reaction to the steri strips. Oh and the fact that I have lost absolutely no weight! But besides that, all is going so well I can't believe it. Thank you Jesus! I wish you all a smooth and happy healing too . Updated on 8 Apr 2016: Dark marks galore! Updated on 12 Apr 2016: 3 weeks post op and having a phenomenally smooth recovery. On a work trip and a look in the mirror makes me wonder why I waited this long to get this done! So worth it! Even with the swellubg! Updated on 20 Apr 2016: Mine is so flat and thin and seamless. Impressive work by my PS! Updated on 2 May 2016: Wao can't believe it's only been five weeks! Feels more like 3 months ago I had this done. Still have absolutely nothing new to report. Besides that tight feeling in my abdomen when I go for too long without my compression garment on, I have nothing to remind me I had this surgery done. That is really great! Just like Mzcutetummy... no BA needed ;)
I am really looking to be a better me. I'm not looking for a barbie doll figure, but i would love to see my abs again. When I'm working out I feel really helpless. I know no matter how many crunches I do, I will never see my abs. I am a young woman and want to look my best. I have given birth to 3 amazing children and need to get my body back. I'm currently at 193 and don't care to be 140. I'm good with my final weight at 160. I just want to be comfortable in my skin, feel sexy when making love to my husband and look amazing in my clothes I design for my line. I'm very nervous, but excited to see a flatter tummy. I have talked about this for years and never had the money or time to do it. I'm truly grateful that I am in a position to help me. My husband wanted to be able to pay for this, but can't. It's ok, because he supports me having the procedure and I am more than thankful for that. Updated on 18 Jan 2016: Ok, so I have been telling myself I can do this and not chicken out. Believe it or not I'm 192 pounds today. Maybe, if I'm lucky to be 185 before surgery. Only protein and milk shakes until then. I have to finish payment today and I'm all set. My grandmother came up from Alabama to help me for two weeks. Thank god for her. My husband will be with me while I'm in the hospital, then he has to go back to work. I am staying overnight, so that makes me feel comfortable. I went yesterday to get my toilet seat riser, walker, and shower seat. I found these at Walmart. I will get my prescriptions filled this weekend. I went to CVS to pick up Arnica Cream and Palmers cocoa butter. I even made an appointment with my dermatologist to get a prescription for scarring. I'm not going to by that expensive Merderma and it may or may not work. The crazy part is the fact someone crashed into my escalade last Friday and put a hurting on my back. This really sucks, because I'm told your tummy tuck takes a toll on your back. So my doctor gave me 90pills 800 MG of Ibuprofen and Valium for muscles spasms. I guess life works like that. My 3 year old is the cutest. He tells me everyday how he loves my giantic tummy. Lol lol the funny things kids say, which actually makes me sad. I know he doesn't know he is hurting mom's feelings, so it's ok. Here are a few more before pictures. My husband doesn't feel I need a recliner. He wants me to sleep in our bed, so hopefully I'm not making a huge mistake by not renting one. Well that's enough for today, work is calling. Updated on 19 Jan 2016: I am so nervous, excited, scared and happy all at the same time. My family is so supportive that it freaks me out. I guess since they ate not having the surgery they can have all the faith in the world. Trust me I'm not complaining, but i honestly don't know how to feel. I'm a one woman show with my new clothing line and I'm freaking out about running my business. I have to help with homework and just don't want to have a nervous breakdown in front of my children. I pray that the gods rain a speedy and not so painful recovery. If it wasn't for my car accident last week, I'm sure I would feel much better. My back is not 100% and I know tummy tucks can put a hurting on your back. I hate looking at cuts, so I'm sure my husband will be strong for me and change my bandages. Thinking about meal prep and if I should get a recliner or not. I am a clean freak, but guess what? I am not going to worry about this big ass house. Spending 5 hours to clean, then my kids mess it up in 30 minutes. Heck no. I am going to relax and get as much work done for my business. The weather is calling for snow this weekend and I have my daughter birthday party. I specifically schedule it after her birthday, so mom could be 100% for her. I'm loving my new breast and feel so sexy. My husband said I'm going to look amazing and he can't wait for me to feel more confident. God I thank you for a good husband. What in the world would I do without him. He is so positive and optimistic. I really hope my doctor delivers, because I have a husband waiting ;) bye bye flab. Updated on 24 Jan 2016: Hi everyone I am really nervous. I went to Wal-Mart today in this ice storm to get any supplies I think I may need. I got a 1. Grabber thing 2. 2 wedge pillows 3. Curad rolling gauze 4. Shower seat 5. Toilet riser 6. Prune juice 7. Foam ear plugs 8. Picked up medication by PA 9. Scar gel 10. Latex gloves 11. Heat pad 12.baby wipes 13. Arnicare cream 14. Dulcolax-laxtives 15 . Thermometer I think that about covers it I'm going to rent my recliner from rent-a-center. It's $90.00 for a month. I go to my dermatologist for my raised incisions underneath my breast from my breast lift and she gives me steroid shots to help smooth the skin out. In addition to that. I use cocoa butter on them and massage twice a day my incisions. I'm a nervous wreck. The nurse called me today and I told her how I have been breaking out in sweats thinking about this surgery. I asked her if I would need a pain pump and she said No. She feels like I have enough pain medication. I just remember that pain medication makes you very sensitive and loopy. I couldn't wait to stop taking it during my breast reduction. You guys say a prayer for me. I am done with surgery after this. I have had liposuction to my inner thighs in November 2014. Absolutely love what it has done for my legs. Liposuction to my abdomen, sides and back. Breast reduction Nov 6,2015 and now this. My husband ordered me nutrisystem for a month. I ate my last piece of cake today and cleaning out my system. About to watch this Panthers games. Much love and I will keep you updated. I really hope I can keep my pain managed, that's the only thing I'm wondering about. Updated on 25 Jan 2016: So, I my nurse called and said be there at 7:30. My potassium tested low. So I have to repeat tomorrow. Everything that go wrong today did. I'm so tired. I'll update in the am. Updated on 26 Jan 2016: I was in a freak accident this morning on the highway. I tractor trailer almost killed us, by throwing a slab of ice stop big off the truck, it came through the windshield. I was a nervous wreck and so thankful god spared my husband. I had to call the police and tell him in would be a hour late. When I got here they made me do labs for my potassium, since it has been low for a while. After a hour waiting, I was cleared. Surgery started at 10:30 am. I am in my hospital bed. I was so hungry. I ate protein shake, 3 bottles of ginger ale and a string beans. 2 cups of water. I started sucking on a cough drop to sooth my throat. I didn't feel the need to cough, but just in case. They have me really comfortable right now, so no pain, just light period cramps. Drinking plenty of water. Dr. Just came in to check on me. He is the best I tell you. He listened to everything I said. My scar is low, my muscle repair wasn't as bad as I thought. Only 1/3 of my muscles were out of wack. I'm up and alert. Watching TV and taking 2 percocets, Valium and antibiotics. Everyone bedside manner here is amazing. He told me no work, twisting, bending, or anything for 2 weeks. He said drains will stay for 2 weeks. No complications during surgery and I'm not nauseous at all. I prayed for a smooth recovery and so far god delivered and I have a high tolerance for pain. Even tho I have a high tolerance for pain, I'm no fool, I take my medicines on time. I get a bath in the morning and this catheter out. My husband is the best and a blessing from god. He is the biggest support system any wife could ask for. Updated on 26 Jan 2016: Hope you don't get grossed out, but the doctor removed 6 lbs. I asked my nurse to take a picture. I'm telling you, Wake Baptist hospital in Winston-Salem, has me blown away again. My doctor did my breast reduction/ lift in November 2015, did my tummy tuck. I am just so please and proud. I have about 20 pounds, left to loose, but at least in have a running start. I'm so excited about progress. Oh and my new belly button, is way more bomb than my old one. He did my flanks for contouring, so I'm sure he got alot of fat with that lol. Updated on 27 Jan 2016: I made it home today around 3:30 pm. My tummy is extremely tight and walking hunched over. My toilet riser came in handy and my Grabber thing. They delivered my recliner, so I'm posted up on my living room. I'm cutting back to 1 percocet every 5 hours. I've been drinking Prune juice, water, green tea and mom. So trying to get that BMW out. I actually feel good. I'm trying to figure out, how to get up and down with out hurting my back or incision. My grandmother said you look so flat. I wish I felt that way. I'm just thankful I was brave and didn't walk out the OR. I have a heating pad on my back and a wedge pillow for elevating my feet. About to watch movies with hubby. Updated on 28 Jan 2016: I'm sorry, but I'm off on my days. I haven't truly slept since the surgery, but i can tell you boy it's a journey. The main complaint is my back. I am putting a heating pad on it every hour. I was walking with my grandmother cane, but today I quickly walked to the bathroom, like an old lady lol. She gave me a wash up and help me put my robe on. I'm just hanging free. Breast and all. This binder that they gave me from the hospital, keeps riding up my stomach. I had to put a wash cloth under each breast to keep it from cutting me. I actually feel really good. I'm resting and eating a sensible diet. No BM yet, but i started taking fiber and Prune juice. Let's see if that doesn't take care of it. I'll probably be holding my butt cheeks together, trying not to poop on myself. Man I tell you, thank you lord for help. Your not totally out of commission, but i definitely could not do this without help of my grandmother and husband. She cooks, cleans, help with the 3 children, wipe my butt and anything else you can think of. I'm trying to stay away, but between the Valium and percocets, I'm done. Here are a few pictures from today. Updated on 29 Jan 2016: Updated on 29 Jan 2016: I forgot to take my midnight medicine, so I woke up to pee and walk around to keep my back from falling off. Man the lower back pain is the worst. Around the clock in putting heating pads and sitting on my heated back massager. I'm actually breathing well. I'm pushing a 2500 on this air device they make you blow in. The only thing I would say suck, is the drain. It burns at times at the incision site. I don't mean to scare you, because it's actually really manageable. I guess anyone would complain, if they had octopus arms coming out they're hip lol lol. As of right now I feel like I'm still in plank position, but not as bad. I would say my pain level is at a 2. I'm more sore than anything which is to be expected. I honestly think I need to go back to grammar school. This site will make up its own words. I'm like dang where is the edit button on here. Any hoot about to drink water and dose off. Updated on 29 Jan 2016: Ok. So lord I had to finally get the strength to clean my butt. Not to bad Andy grandmother helped change my dressings. Let me tell you, that's one thing you do not want pulling. I have to keep adjusting my binder during the day. I guess it's getting to big. I am still hunched back lol. Oh yes my freaking period decided to come as well. I ate a sensible breakfast at 10, then dinner at 6. Not really hungry, but boy when I do eat I clean my plate. Today my grandmother asked me to walk more, so I did. I was posting up on the wall every 10 seconds lol. I know she wants me to get my strength, but lord back off granny. I'm taking my medicines more spaced out now. I honestly don't have pain, but from my back. My 3 year old is crazy busy, so trying to sleep is out the question. My husband has a blow up mattress next to me, since I'm not ready to walk upstairs. How nice is that? I mean I can't believe I was looking at a flat stomach today even with swelling. Everyone talking about swell hell, but i took all the salt in could out my diet and I'm doing just fine. I drink until I can't drink no more. I took a b12 liquid vitamin today. Hopefully this helps with healing. I was able to get a quick picture, while emptying my drains. I think if I had stood 3 more minutes, I was going to hit the floor. Remember I have 3 babies, so looking like a doll is not my idea body. I want to look and feel better in my clothes. Oh and see my private area lol. Bye skin, bye fat. Thank you Dr. DEFRENZO. Updated on 29 Jan 2016: Ok. So I usually do an update in the am and again at night. I scaled back to 1 percocet every 8 hours. To tell you the truth, I only need it to help tyne soreness of my back. My incision I really can't feel it. My drains are still putting out, but less each day. I believe they have to be under 30 for a 24 hour period, so getting there. Now let's talk about this eating thing. I have an appetite, but i try to remember I spent a whole lot of cash to get this tummy, so sweets are out for now. And please don't feel bad for me, because I have no self control. Me and cake have a personal relationship okkkk... lol lol I'm serious, food can be the devil. Now I have to eat to live and not live to eat. However, on super bowl Sunday I will eat some chicken wings. Come on man, we have to celebrate our Carolina Panthers making it to Super Bowl. So, today I plan on working from the recliner and taking orders for my business. Girl can't work, no business, no money. I am so excited to get back on the Rd doing my empowerment speeches to women all around the world. I just love motivating and inspiring women to just be their absolute best. Anyway, with that being said, I am in my recliner, wiggling my toes to prevent blood clots. I Took more fiber today with Prune juice. Have to stay regular right? I did 3 laps around my living room and each time feels better than the last walk. Ok, my medicines are starting to work so gotta go. I'll be back later today for day 4 update. Updated on 30 Jan 2016: Never mind my standing position, I was really trying not to hit the floor. I'm telling you, trying to wake those muscles up again is a beast. Like I said before I was close to 200 pounds and I'm flat, with swelling. That's all I wanted. Yess I will be strolling the beach with my hubby this summer. My friends are jealous lol. Talking about I'm high school fine again. Hmm hmmm. Sure am. But seriously, what an amazing thing we can do for ourselves as women. We are so strong and brave. It takes alot of courage to have a tummy tuck. I'm just happy I was chosen not to have complications. Everyday I feel better, prettier, sexier and smart. I say smart because it is always smart to make a decision to look your best. Why not? We have one life to live and I'm going to be cute all the way through lol. Ladies you are not vein for wanting this. You deserve this tummy tuck, you earned this tummy tuck. Fret not, because this road is worth traveling. Going to do 5 laps around the house today. I'll keep you posted. Updated on 31 Jan 2016: I have to say that I slept so good last night in my recliner. I found that putting a small pillow behind my back gave me instant relief. I ate a great breakfast prepared by my my husband and I watched Joel Olsteen to get my church on. I read a little bit and tried to invent the next million dollar idea. I tell you my mind is always on business and how to help employ other people. Anyways I was able to walk around without my grandmother cane and get 6 laps around the living room. Man my back was hurting, but pushing all this fluid out. Listen very carefully, if you don't do anything else, buy yourself a toilet riser and rent a recliner. It has to be the best investment ever. I'm eating every 3 to 4 hours. I'm hungry, but grandmother making me eat clean. No butter, no salt, no jelly. She is cooking straight from organic land lol lol. Geesh. Can I get some ice cream please. I actually had to take a hand full of peanuts last night and a bite of my son kit kat. Omg that was the best little piece of chocolate in The world. My husband and grandmother on me like fly on stinky lol lol I'm dead. I had to get that out. So with that said don't be afraid to eat, as long as your eating clean. My metabolism has picked up double time. Today I'm standing more upright. I can feel my abs pull more, so I quickly hunched over. I played around with my tummy and boy it is flat. It's still numb and I can't feel my incision. I guess my belly button is doing fine as well. I have minimum drainage, no pain and not emotional to say the least. You have to be mentally prepared to have this surgery. I have read stories of young ladies pulling out their drains, waking up during surgery, trying to cheat the system and pay less money. Honey, there is no amount in the world I would not pay to be safe, Wake up after surgery and wake up pain free. I can't believe all the horror stories on here. Remember this " It cost a few more pennies to be first class" Now let that marinate. I am a motivational speaker, but some people really need to think twice about this surgery, if you can't afford the right doctor. It's more than just finding the right doctor. It's about having help, being mentally prepared, affording prescription medications, being able to be out of work comfortably and most importantly coping with pain. I'm sorry to vent, but a lot was on my mind. I'm doing fantastic, ready to eat string beans, baked sweet potato and t-bone steak. Happy healing guys and keep resting. Updated on 2 Feb 2016: So, Not much has changed on day six, besides I ate myself to death. All healthy tho. So today is day 7 since surgery. I milked my drains this morning and was able to stand long enough to make me some sweet potato pancakes and sausage. I was through after that. I think I was up really early too, around 6:30 am. I usually get up that early to see the kids off to school and have my husband to milk my drains. What would I do without my husband. Their is no amount of money in the world I would pat to switch husband's. He has been so incredibly supportive during this entire process. I give praise to my almost 70 year old grandmother, who flew up from Alabama to watch over me and clean my butt, when I couldn't. During this time in your life you really see who is for you. Ok I have to tell you the drains are officially getting on my nerves. I take a little Tylenol just to relieve the tension. If I turn they pull, if I sit down to fast they pull. I'm just sick of them period.i just have to be too dang careful. So i'm still taking baths in the sink, since I can't shower or take a bath with the drains. I think that's the most annoying part. Honestly I probably couldn't stand long enough last week anyway. It's so funny how things work themselves out. So later today I'll take some pictures of my belly to show you guys. I am really trying to convince my grandmother to throw some biscuits in the oven. Can I get a amen. She agreed to me having 1. I'll take it. Damn it's hard eating clean all the time. It's a mental game that I plan on winning. Ok, so I'm going to order me a treadmill and a elliptical from costco, so I can start walking and getting my light exercise on when my doctor approves me. I haven't been outside in 7 days. Geesh, but i just look out the patio and just thank god I'm still alive and this journey is almost over. A couple of girls died in the DR trying to have this surgery so I am giving thanks all the time that my god spared me. I pray that everyone do your homework on your doctors. Ask as many questions that you need to. If you have a bad feeling about a doctor, go somewhere else. Don't choose a PS because of price. Make sure you have a contract stating the price, so they won't change on you the day of surgery. Ok. That's all for now. I go for my first post op appointment tomorrow afternoon, so hopefully I will be drain free. Then I can get some great pictures. Oh by the way, my abs are so tight, that's all I need to know. I will have a 6 pack come july. Keep up with me ;) Updated on 3 Feb 2016: Ok. So today has been absolutely crazy. I was working in the morning taking orders for my business. It's a women empowerment clothing brand. Anyways I freaking snagged one of my drains and about fell out the chair. Life doesn't stop because of a tummy tuck. I was up at 6:40 am in my home office working on my seminar coming up in march. Lord I actually ditch the cane, but i just scoot like a old woman. You guys are going to Crack up. My 3 year old son, took the cane out and started mimicking me. He said he was walking like mommy. Lol lol that just tickled me to death. Anyways since I pulled that freaking spider tentacle o was ready to see Dr . Defrenzo today. When I got there, they said you ready, I'm like if you want to be kicked yea. Lol I just knew it was going to hurt being pulled out, but i was smart I took my percocets before I went. They still hurt, but I'm sure not as bad, if I didn't take it. I couldn't believe how long that drain cord was. So the doctor said I still have to take it easy just like the first week with the drains out. You can't do any more moving than the first week because you will collect fluid. If you collect fluid they will have to use a needle to get it out or go back and put the drains in. So no shower for 48 hours after drain removal. Water can get in them and they are prone to get infected with water around them. So wash offs for the next 3 to 4 days still. I'm cool with that. No driving for 2 more weeks and sex until 5 weeks. Honey I'm not worried because I'm just trying to stand up straight. Actually I'm getting straighter everyday. The nurse asked me was I holding my stomach in? I said no boo, it's all flat, but let me show you how it looks when I do. Lol lol. Then she asked what made you have the tummy tuck. I said well its really none of your business lol. No I said that in my mind. Lol But what I did say was I am a mother of 3 and I'm ready to be fine like wine again. Then I showed her my before pictures. I said see, if you had skin hanging over your tutu, you would have signed up for a tummy tuck too. Boom don't ask if you don't want the real. It's been great speaking to all of you. Some of you have even made appointments with Dr . Defrenzo. That's is absolutely fabulous. I told him some of my followers on my blog may contact him. He couldn't believe it. He is nothing but amazing. So here are a few pictures from today's visit. Updated on 3 Feb 2016: Updated on 3 Feb 2016: Updated on 4 Feb 2016: Not much have changed, but feeling better without those dreadful drains. Taking it easy and worked in the home office from 6 am to 11:30 am. Then ate around 1pm. I was so hungry the first week. This week I'm eating 2 meals a day and yogurt ice cream for my snack or air popped popcorn. Sometimes I just eat a can of pineapples and call it a day. I don't eat dinner after 5pm, just a light snack. About to find a movie on Netflix. Happy healing everyone. Updated on 10 Feb 2016: Whoo hoo I'm on my way to recovery. Ok so I was cleared at my 2 week check up to take a shower. Still no driving for two more w weeks. I went in at 196, I guess with clothes on, but I'm 189 today. Can you believe I ate a brownie Sunday today. I was doing so good yall, then I ate it yes. And I was full at that. I felt so bad like I cheated on my husband or something. I was so upset with myself. But anyways I said tomorrow is a new day and I guess I deserve a snack. Anyways, back to my appointment today. They clipped my stiches and reviewed my incision. I am now able to go into Spanx, or a waist trainer. I can not drive, walk, lift or anything like that, but i was cleared to have very and I mean very gentle sex with my hubby. I'm so damn excited since it's valentine's weekend. They said it's always better for you to be on top to control everything and a orgasm will not hurt your tummy. But not sure if I'm ready for all that. They said have sex if you think your ready, just easy. Hmm. What else. Oh! They said not to put anything on the incision at this time, just lotion. He did say if I want to order silicone sheets I could. He gave me a list of websites to order from. He also suggested Merderma or scar gel when it is time. I'm selling all my tummy tuck stuff in the next two weeks, so if your in need of that supply list above, let me know. Updated on 10 Feb 2016: I just ate at Applebee's a t-Bone, broccoli, smashed potatoes and brownie sunday. My tummy is bloated and hurting. I ate too much. :( Updated on 16 Feb 2016: Hooray. I'm in week four or starting week four. I will be able to drive next week. I went in at 196 I'm 191 today. I actually lost then gained 4 pounds back, eating to get my strength back. But starting today I'm on protein shakes and nutri system. So the food isn't to bad. I'm just jump starting my weight loss for a month, then after that I got it. I'm super excited. My treadmill, elliptical and bike are on the way. I'm ready to put in work honey for this summer. I have to been beach ready by june 1st. I'm standing straighter and still using my shower chair. I'm sending back the recliner next week. I went to the hotel last weekend for my daughter birthday party, and my hubby pushed me around in a wheelchair. That place was to big to walk. After that I know I'm not ready for the mall. So i'm just chilling and working from home. I'm so blessed that I didn't have a job demanding me to come back in 2 weeks. I promise you it takes the full 6 weeks to heal. My belly button is looking good. It still has some surgical glue around it, but it's falling off everyday. My incision looks great and no problems with healing what so ever. I ordered some silicone tape to start with scar treatment. So I'll let you know how that works out. Updated on 16 Feb 2016: Going to be fly when I get down to 160. 30 pounds to go. Even tho that seems like alot to lose. I'm just happy I'm flat at 191. Updated on 3 Mar 2016: Hey guys. I'm doing really great. My body is looking better each day. I'm not able to work out yet, so I'm about 189 now. Close to 8 pounds down. I'm still swollen, but flat as a pancake. My abs hurt if I twist or bend to fast. I still sleep in a recliner position in my bed. It takes the tension off your stomach. I'm Starting to eat a great diet. I consume about 64 ounces of water a day and 2 protein shakes and 3 meals. I will start working out next week. I am working heavily on my scar therapy. I'm using bio oil, Merderma, scar gel and a prescription from my dermatologist. I see my doctor every two weeks for cortisone shots under my breast, where two areas keloid a little bit. I'm rocking my waist trainer now and all day until bed time. Then I switch into my spank for bed. I still use my shower chair because after a long day of walking I need to sit down. I think I swell a little, but not much. I try to stay away from added salts and sodas. I have been so busy getting ready for my first women's seminar, it's bananas. Lol some of you from this blog are coming so excited if you are. Sex is amazing, but i still have to take it easy. No crazy tricks. I actually thought I saw a ab, but then my husband said it was my ribs lol lol I'm dead. Honey I'm seeing something lol. Oh my grandmother makes me send her a picture of my tummy every week. She said I'm to fine and went through to much to get a fat stomach again. So someone is holding me accountable. My husband still tells me I was fine the way in was, but he is happy I'm happy. I was in Home Depot the other day and I couldn't figure out for the life of me, why they were all staring. My husband said it's you honey. I couldn't believe it. I'm so use to being so sad about not being the right size, that I still think I'm that fat person in my mind. I actually went back to sit in the car. Updated on 3 Mar 2016: Updated on 3 Mar 2016: Updated on 29 Mar 2016: Hello everyone, I feel so blessed to have many of you reach out to me. I didn't know I inspire so many of you. I am so happy to continue to share my journey. For those that have went through the surgery since my last update. Congrats to you. It is just a blessing from heaven to wake up after a major surgery such as this. So I will give you a few updates on me. I started working out at weekend 6, but the pressure from walking was to much. I even started going without my binder for a while, but quickly realized that my tummy still need the support. I recently broke out with a heat rash or hives on the right side of my incision. The crazy part guys is the fact it goes away when I'm not stressed. How if I start thinking to much, they hurt and ache. I never seen anything like it before. I just got back from Tennessee. I walked the smoky mountains. I saw such beautiful waterfalls at the top. But honey my stomach is on fire today. I knew I was pushing it. As I was walked down the twisting and natural turn of your body, is a workout. I recently ordered some workout DVDs from beachbody. I'm so great excited to start working out. I'm at 188, do down 12 pounds since surgery I spoke to my doctor and she said I look amazing at my size and 180, was her recommend weight for me. I told her 160 and she said that would be to small on my frame. My stomach being so flat trick people I guess. I'm a solid girl, so I would be at a 25 Bmi at 160 at 175-180 a 30 I'm currently 33 BMI. Normal is 30 not to be considered overweight. So i'm that's exciting not to worry about losing a ton of weight. Anyways, I'm just enjoying my kids guys and taking this surgery one day at a time. My body is very tired. Remember I had a breast reduction and lift 2 months before my tummy tuck. So I honestly need to focus on just getting well and not the weight. Ummm wahh to all of you. I'll have pictures soon.
