I’m 3 weeks rhinoplasty post op. and deep down I know that this surgery did not go according to our consultation. I made my vision very clear but Dr. YILDRIM Alpaslan did the opposite of what we’d gone over during our consultation.
A rhinoplasty was not the answer to my prayers. “Wish I knew then what I know now” ‘s never been more relatable.
I came to know about Dr. YILDRIM Alpaslan from a YouTuber, Payton Charles. She gave Dr. Alpaslan a five star review and I checked out his Instagram page and thought he is the one. After seeing that he’d worked on multiple African American noses, I believe in his experience & credentials. I trusted him with my life.
During our consultation I emphasized that I wanted the changes to be subtle, that I wanted my original bulbous nose but just a tad bit smaller, keep it natural. I emphasized that I’m not looking to get a European nose.
“ Let’s say your nose is Large, I’ll make it medium. It’ll look natural. Not small…” these are the words the had put my mind at ease. These were Dr. Alpaslan’s words.
I believed that we were on the same page and spent the whole day pre op. Trying not to talk myself out of following through with this rhinoplasty.
The day of, one minute I was laying down being carried out to the operation room and the next thing I know, I was waking up, feeling stiff, drowsy and anxious. It has been done and there is now no turning back I thought.
I managed to get past the first few days of post op. Blues until my table photos were sent to me. My spirit broke. The depression set in and to make things worst I couldn’t reach the doctor to get answers and potential solutions or simply some reassurance that everything went according to the consultation, the money seems to be paramount, end of the day it’s not like you hop on to the next bus and ride down to his office in Istanbul, Turkey.
I have a sliver of hope that this nose will at least turn out to be bearable to wear on my face until I can do something about it. I can only pray.
For those of you looking to put your life in Dr. YILDRIM Alpaslan’s hands … I wish I were you. I wish I still had the option to choose to or not to.
Because had I the choice that you have, I WOULD NOT CHOOSE DR. YILDRIM A.
I plan on keeping you all updated with my journey to recovery.
Updated on 10 Oct 2021:
Woke up today, prayed a little. Banking on the fact that it’s still early on in my recovery. The doctor did send me a voice message assuring me that he remembered what I said, during our consultation. I’m taking his word for it. It’s now all in the hands of the universe. I’ll keep updating.
Updated on 22 Feb 2022:
It’s been 5 months since my Turkish ethnic rhinoplasty by Dr. YILDRIM Alpaslan… the nose is coming together nicely, Erasure of the ethnic identity of my nose was my greatest fear, turns out he did not completely erase the ethnic identity from the nose it appeared as if he did due to swelling. The tip is still stiff & swollen so it does give my nose a ‘European point’ which I’m praying it gets a little round. I’ve been on Accutane for nearly 3 months now and It’s a good thing I got on it. I wouldn’t have considered it if it weren’t for my needing it post op. Taking accutane does dry the skin, so low/no acne outbreaks, the nose is pretty oily post of so you’ll need the accutane to help with that oil… even though there seems to be light at the end of this tunnel for me I still do not encourage anyone to going for a Turkish rhinoplasty just yet. I’ll give a definitive yay or nay about 2-3 months. Stay safe ladies & gents! Take emotional support if you decide to get a nose job or any sort of surgery!!!
Updated on 23 Dec 2022:
I was going to wait til 18 months to post this update but I couldn’t wait anymore. I had to get it off my chest.
The tip of my nose is still stiff & hard, still a bit upturned & pointy in a way that it’s obvious I’d gotten a nose job to my family. I had gotten this nose job in secrecy & figured they wouldn’t be able to tell since I hadn’t seen them in a while… comes thanksgiving & my heart sunk when my whole family pointed out that my nose is different. “It’s so pointy?” they asked. I came up with all types of excuses for that. I don’t know if they bought it. ????
I was really hoping this nose job would be more conservative but I guess it’s not conservative enough. I’ve dissociated from reality & hope there’s still a chance my nose will drop a bit in the next 6-9 months of healing… if it could drop even just a little bit I’ll take it. I just did not want to keep these thoughts to myself any longer…
Updated on 19 Nov 2023:
You guys deserve an update… the nose has come down to a perfect degree, I’d say the swelling has let up about 98%, the tip isn’t pointy as it was before, it’s definitely got more definition to it now but still very much Africanoid coded, it’s impossible to press down on the tip ( but I don’t mind it’s a small price to pay for my designer nose), I get compliments on my nose from people of all backgrounds, to be honest sometimes it makes me feel like ”they know I had work done” but I bought it so it’s my nose! overall I’M IN LOVEEEE & the experience was absolutely anxiety triggering but it was all worth it… I’d do it again!!! I’m so proud of myself for doing me this favor… ladies/fellas please book that surgery, it’s a risk, be sure to take as much time as you need to think it through, find your surgeon & buy you some hair, some tatas, some cheeks or a new nose… ???? I’m so happy with my results (so far, hopefully forever more.)
Updated on 21 Nov 2023:
Got African ethnic rhinoplasty…he did an amazing job… my only complaint is the lack of aftercare and communication… I understand that he’s busy but it’d help if he were available for post of questions, nearly lost my mind because I was in the dark about what to expect…