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There was a time when I cared nothing for my...

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There was a time when I cared nothing for my appearance, disheveled, unkempt, dirty or whatever, and I never received any negative remarks for it.Then Puberty hit I suppose. My nose kept growing, and then I broke it on a porch railing. The shape of my nose took a full 180, turning from ski slope to arching nightmare. My friends teased me about it all throughout middle school, calling me jew nose, beak etc. I took it in stride for the most part, but eventually I suppose I allowed it to get to me. My self confidence began to dissipate, and like many on here who have written reviews, there is not a single thing I do that is not with the conscientious fear of those people who might say the wrong hurtful thing at any given moment. It makes me limit myself in a variety of ways, and I hate that.


Around Freshman year I told myself I had had enough. I asked my mother if I could get a rhinoplasty. She said no; that I should wait until I was finished growing, and furthermore, that she would only let me go through with it if I did well in school.
Today I am eighteen, and heading to Brown in the Fall of 2013. I have had two consultations with Dr. Gallico in Boston MA, and am ready to schedule a surgery for June or late May. I haven't decided yet. Above are my consultation images.As it is now is on the far left, and then two projections, one straight, one slightly curved.


While I recognize the vast improvement, I am just curious as to whether or not the tip on the projections is too long from the surface of my face, and if It is, if there is any way to remedy that for the better. What do you guys think?
So I have a few questions for my surgeon, and I will be updating quite frequently as the time between now and my surgery dwindles. I am so very excited, and I feel much better about the future knowing that I can go through my day with a little more confidence.

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February 15, 2013

Thanks for sharing on RealSelf. You're a good looking guy whichever option you choose! Being someone who should have a straight nose but got a tiny bit of scoop, I like the straight nose best. I think it looks most refined (and more masculine).

I hope you'll continue to keep us updated in this space. You're obviously articulate and well-spoken and we'd really value learning from your experience and following your journey.

February 16, 2013
Thank you for your insight. It's quite the decision, and I will absolutely keep updating.
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February 15, 2013
I agree with Angie and think I think I'd opt for the straight too but also think that all three pictures look good. You look absolutely fine and normal to me in your first photo (natural), but this is about what you want and not what others think. Thank you for sharing your experience with us and Best of luck.
February 16, 2013
Hahaha so interesting to hear you say that. Boy could I have used a comment like that a few times over the last few years. Thank you for your comment!
February 16, 2013
I vote for the straight. Definitely more masculine! Good luck!
February 16, 2013
Thank you very much! I think I agree!
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I'm definitely going to get a few more...

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I'm definitely going to get a few more consultations from other surgeons before I make my final decision! I mean it's my face so I want to be as cautious as possible. It feels like one of the biggest decisions I'll ever make! It's really a drag paying for all of the consultations though haha. Anyways I have another consultation scheduled for this upcoming friday. Should be fun!

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February 18, 2013
Straight one...more masculine...the curve is usually for women. I don't think your nose projects too much...you want the nose to match your chin too. The surgeon could show you in a simulation if he can make it shorter and you can decide which looks better. Either way...you will love getting the hump shaved off. Good luck
February 18, 2013
Totally agree...slopes on men don't look as manly as they should.
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February 18, 2013
Yay! Good for you...smart guy! Paying for a few consultations is much better than paying $15 - $20K for a revision. I applaud you for taking your time and doing your research. You're so right...this is your face and you really want to get it right the first time. Best of luck!!
February 21, 2013
I am in the Boston area too and going off to college next year! This is kind of a strange question but how did the consultations go with your parents? Did the doctor talk to you more or your parents? Also around when are you thinking about getting it done? I don't want to go to college and then have complications but I also don't want to get it done before graduation (just to avoid all the annoying remarks)
March 3, 2013
I'm so sorry, I just saw this. I totally know where you're coming from on the timing. I'm now scheduled for June 3rd, with a different doctor instead of the one I initially wrote about above. I went with my mom, and while I feel ridiculous at this little vanity of mine, she has been understanding despite being clearly annoyed sometimes haha. The consultations have gone well, theyre usually fairly expensive which I guess is a necessary evil. It seems that the Doctor's are accustomed to a little nervousness and embarassment on behalf of the patient. The doctors I have seen, and I've seen two, have addressed both me and my mother equally, answering whatever questions either of us have had. I think June is the perfect month. Around 3 months to heal, and it would be after graduation. Should complications arise it would give you/me enough time to consider the options, and you wont have to deal with all the comments and rumors that come with high school you know? So yeah, I mean that's just my reasoning, but message me when/ if you ever find a surgeon you like, or just to talk. It's always good to talk to someone in the boston area :)
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Haha It's really funny being one of the only guys...

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Haha It's really funny being one of the only guys on this website. It's definitely given me an interesting perspective. I enjoy reading everyone's reviews though, we're like a little community. It's really great. Reading what everyone has to say serves as an everyday reminder for what's in my own future, and I think that's really valuable. Anyways! My second consultation went extremely well. I really liked the doctor. He did three dimensional imaging which was so much more helpful than the projections I posted above. He also discussed a wider range of possibilities which was really reassuring in comparison to the measly "two options or the highway" mandate that I was given at my first consultation (pictured above). The projections at the second consultation even appeared more natural. The nose wasn't so long, and the tip was slightly elevated. This leads me to believe that the first doctor was trying to do as little as possible for the most amount of money, but C'est la vie. I've scheduled surgery for june 3rd and I can't wait. I've become so lighthearted about this whole thing; almost goofy. It's really kind of a funny thing to accept your vanities and pursue a course to satisfy them. I find that sometimes it's nearly impossible for me to not laugh at myself. I'm chopping off a piece of my face, many of you are doing the same, and we're paying some guy thousands of dollars to do it. Do you ever think of it that way? It's fairly unconventional for a young man to go to such drastic lengths to change his appearance, let alone document it. But whatever. It is funny, it's a tad bit humiliating, but through it all, I'm learning more and more every day to be able to laugh at myself, and that alone is worth the experience.

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