Should I Feel Guilty About Getting Tummy Tuck?

If your body has been stretched out by pregnancy, it can be fixed with a tummy tuck. Tummy tuck is not usually just about taking out wrinkly skin. Usually the muscle layer has stretched too, and that muscle separation called rectus diastasis can actually affect the strength of your abdominal wall. If your abdominal wall is not strong, you cannot always support your back and that can lead to other issues. So really, tummy tuck may fix a functional problem and may not be only cosmetic. I think you are brave to be willing to face something that makes you unhappy and be willing to fix it. Feeling better about yourself will probably affect the way you do other things, for the better.

No really there is nothing wrong with having an abdominoplasty or tummy tuck. Lots of women younger than you have opted for that procedure to feel younger and sexier. It is really up to you, if this is something you need in order to feel younger and good with yourself then were is the harm in that. We all need to feel aceepted and loved and this surgery is a way to do just that. So dont feel bad about getting an abdominoplasty, if you're already an amazing person then this surgery will only benefit you.

The concern you express is a common one, and there are a cuople of reasons behind it. First, I think a lot of people reason that it is either nobler to live with one's imperfections, or misunderstand that no amount of exercise and diet will tighten up the skin after pregnancies. Plastic surgery is always for the things that you can't do on your own. Second, parents sometimes have concerns about taking risks, but when the procedure is done by a qualified surgeon in an accredited facility, it is extremely safe. I say go for it and I know you will be glad you did.

You should not feel guilty about wanting an abdominoplasty if the appearance of your abdomen has an effect on your self esteem or sexuality. It is certainly reasonable and appropriate to weigh the cost of the surgery against other potential uses for the money including a car, house downpayment or vacation. Every patient or family has to make choices among options unless they are independently wealthy. This operation has a very high patient satisfaction rate so I would encourage you to plan for it but to make your decision that both you and your husband are comfortable with based on your financial circumstances and priorities.

Thank you for the question.

It sounds like, from the physical and emotional level, that you are a good candidate for tummy tuck surgery.

However, there are other concerns such as family financial planning that should be factored in as well.  From the financial standpoint you should discuss these concerns with your husband and/or a financial planner.

When the time is right,  considering all the different factors in play, you should not feel guilty about surgical correction of the abdomen. Keep in mind that despite aggressive diet and exercise your abdomen will likely not improve in appearance without assistance from a good plastic surgeon.

I hope this helps.