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9 Feelings You Have Before, During & After Tummy Tuck

By Kimmers25 on 07 Sep 2010

• Excitement – yahoo my hanging tummy is gone and I will look great.

• Anxiety – too many topics to cover on this one! Oh good lord I was a mess for about two weeks.

• Happiness – you really are happy you did this.

• Sadness – yes you will cry at the Hallmark Ads. Have no clue why but it passes quickly.

• Depression – mild though irritating.

• Pain pain and more pain – this gets better by the day so hang on

• Exhilaration – ahhhh bliss my double muffin top is gone.

• Confusion – or as I like to refer to as the “What the Heck Was I Thinking” moments.

• Worry – what if my swelling doesn’t go down, will this pain end, what if my jeans don’t fit, hope I don’t gain weight because I am not exercising, my house is dirty and I can’t clean right now. Oh hell the list goes on. As women and mothers I think this is our favorite pass time so just roll with it. Nobody will die, the kids will survive and you can get the house back in order later. If people come to visit and don’t like your dirty house just send them packing……or hand them the mop and dust rag.

All of these feelings are totally normal so just ride the rollercoaster and know it will stop eventually. I am pretty sure my husband felt like he was living with Cybil for a couple of weeks. The moods changed more that I emptied my drains. Come on ladies ride the coaster with grace and be happy and proud that you did this procedure for yourself. We are so worth it. We have labored and delivered children so we can definitely survive this one.

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JOLIE2010 28 Sep 2010
Hello everyone.... thank you for all the postings, questions & answers. I find it very heplful info. I wish I had learned about this website prior to my TT surgery. "I NEED HELP" I had a TT 4 days ago on 09/23/10. I am taking 1 pill of Vitamin E 1000mg per day since my surgery (4 days now). I just found out today by reading the info from this website that Vitamin e cause bleeding. I still have my drain and it's red. Am I in trouble for taking Vitamin E? what should I do now??? "
Kimmers25 (Community Manager) 28 Sep 2010
Hi Jolie, don't panic...just call your doctors office and talk to them. Let him know exactly what and how much you have taken..and for how long. My guess is that he will tell you to stop taking it for now. When I had my drains they were also putting out red but that was apparently normal for the first week. Just make that call to your doctor and I am sure you will feel better.
JOLIE2010 29 Sep 2010
Hi Kimmers25, it is so difficult to talk to my Doctor. All the communications are thru his secretary. I had breast implant & TT at the same time.@ consultation, i told i wanted smaller size than what i had was 350cc. he tried to convince me to get the larger size. i said no, i wanted smaller. now he put in 450cc. I am so dissapointed. I can't stand of this size.TOO BIG for me . I am only 5ft and 120 lbs. I NEED HELP. For my TT, i feel bloaded and feel like somethng is moving inside my tummy. i look at myself in the mirror and feel so terrible. I AM SO SCARRED NOW. I want to ask the Doctors in this Forum for opinions but don't know how and where to enter my questions. This is the only place that i was able to enter my questions.
Kimmers25 (Community Manager) 29 Sep 2010
Oh goodness...your are the same size as me. A tad over 5 foot and 120 pounds. Call the office and tell them that you need an appt with the doctor ASAP...Urgent. It sounds like you may have a fluid build up in your tummy..you need that checked right away. As for asking questions; go to the main page of Realself and on the bottom of the page you will find the link for "Expert Q&A's. Click on that and then "Ask A Question". This is where you will post your questions to the doctors. I would be persistent though in getting that appt with your doctor.
JOLIE2010 29 Sep 2010
How tall are you Kimmers25 ? I kept telling them that the IMPLANT are TOO BIG, and that the whole reason for this surgery is to make it smaller than what I had and hated for so long, cause they made me look very heavy and fat. Now after the surgery, they are much Bigger, but they told me that they are still swelling and need months to go down, but I don't think so. I will see the Dr tomorrow.I will talk to him to see what he say about it.
Kimmers25 (Community Manager) 29 Sep 2010
I am only 5'-1" a shorty!! I also had a breast reduction in 2009 and had him take me down from a DDD to a nice B. Best thing I ever did. I know what you are saying when you say they feel too big and heavy. So glad you were able to get in with him tomorrow. Thatis true you probably have some swelling and they need to drop and settle. That takes some time according to a friend of mine who also had implants. See what he says tomorrow but really express your concerns to him.
JOLIE2010 29 Sep 2010
Yes, I think "B" is a perfect size for us, and that was exactly what I wanted, cause mine was a C,and always thought that they were too big for me. Now i have swelling in my legs from TT. I'm so scare and don't know what to expect next. i posted some questions earlier this afternoon, how & where do i go to read the answers?
spinmama 4 Dec 2010
Im new to this site and just saw your post. How are you doing? Are you happy with things yet? I had an augmentation and my Dr told me to go 450 and I said no only 350...now I wish I had done the 450. When all the swelling goes down your not as big as you think. Hope things are better for you.
Kanajune 21 Oct 2010
I am scheduled for a tummy tuck and lipo on Dec 12. I am so glad to have found this advice. I was wondering if some really creative ice packs would help with the swelling and discomfort post-surgery?

Any and all advice will be welcome, especially from my age group (I am a post-menopausal low-thyroidal 59 year old woman.)
mkell 29 Oct 2010
Hi Kanajune, you sound almost identical to me - although I am older - 61, no thyroid, and nervous before surgery. I had my tt Oct 13, and feeling better every day. I recommend you get the flu shot early so that won't come into play during recouperation. I am still draining so the drains have not come out. Went yesterday to my PS for 2 week check up and he is pleased with things. They put the girdle on tighter than in the past. Ouch!! Anyway, good luck, and God Bless You. You won't be sorry when it's over. Mkell
Kanajune 29 Oct 2010
I wish it were behind me. I have way too much time to worry.

Got the flu shot 2 weeks ago.

Keep me posted, and I am glad you are progressing well.
Gail1962 7 Dec 2010
Wow a few more days for you. Getting excited?
Kimmers25 (Community Manager) 21 Oct 2010

Your day will be here before you know it!  Exciting....Ice packs do feel good after surgery.  But make sure you don't place them directly on your skin.  Have a thin towel between your skin and the ice.  Your tummy will be numb after surgery so you don't want to get an ice burn from the direct contact.  And being numb you would not feel this happening to your skin. 

Keep reading through the site and you will find an endless supply of information to prepare you for our surgery.  Plus you get to chat with all of us fellow tummy tuckers!

Cant wait to read about your process as you go..
Kanajune 22 Oct 2010
Thank you, Kimmers. I feel a whole lot easier from connecting with all of you here. I'll keep you posted.
Kimmers25 (Community Manager) 22 Oct 2010

Keep coming back to the site!  We are all here and understand every emotion you are experiencing.   Hang tough and let us know when you need a pick me up.
Miriam7495 20 Nov 2010
I just had my tummy tuck this past Wednesday 11/17/10. Oh my it has been a ride until I read your posts. My
problem has been the constant coughing due to asthma I'm on Prednisone now and it seems to work. Kimmer how did you coupe with the tight feeling of the skin? When does this tight feeling go away? I have a calendar picture in my mind crossing out every day after the surgery and saying to my sell "it will get better". My friend did it and she looks wonderful. Thanks for keeping this site is really helpful.
Kimmers25 (Community Manager) 20 Nov 2010

Hello Miriam,

You just hang in there and it will get better and better each week.  It is really tough for the first 2-3 weeks but so worth it in the end. 

The tightness and swelling about drove me nuts.  I could not stand up straight for three weeks.  The pulling and tightness will last for weeks; not that is will hurt for weeks but you will feel that sensation for a long time.  Between two and three weeks post OP start massaging the tummy with the Palmer's Vitamin E Oil.  It helps greatly and will soften the skin.  I know it is tough but you can do it. 

Also drink plenty of fluids and eat really healthy for proper healing.  Stay away from sodium and processed foods if you can.  They will make you swell like nobody's business and it hurts.

Try not to keep that calendar picture in your mind because it may just frustrate you and drive you nuts.  Keep your expectations for healing low and slow..I went in thinking I would be up and running in two weeks and was sadly upset then that didn't happen.  This whole process can take up to a year for total healing.  Some heal quicker than others but for the most part it is a slow and long process. 

I am extremely happy for those who snap back and run marathons quickly but that is not the norm for this procedure. 

You just take good care of yourself, rest, take those pain meds and stay positive.  And if you start getting frustrated and sad just hop on line and chat with all of us out here.  We are a great group of support for each other.  You can't do this alone and shouldn't try. 

I am sending good thought and smiles your way :)

Kimmers
Gail1962 5 Dec 2010
Hi,

Just reading your post and wondered if you had any issues with dog ears? I keep hearing about issues with them and it is scary. I am scheduled for January 4th
Kimmers25 (Community Manager) 6 Dec 2010

Hi Gail,

No issues with dog ears at all.  Don't worry about it though.  If it does happen...and it may not; the doctor can fix this quick enough. 

Don't stress yourself over this because not everyone ends up with this problem.  You will be good...
Miriam7495 20 Nov 2010
Thanks for the support. I'm eating the foods you mention and staying away from salt and strawberries cause they trigger asthma. Today I haven't had an attack but I can't sleep because I know that's when its happens. Today I walked around the house and I was able to use the bathroom without any problems in that matter I feel blessed.

I'll forget about the calendar and just take babies steps from the couch to room and back.

I'm happy I found this site because I feel I have moral support and I'm not alone and this one day shall pass. Thank you!
Kimmers25 (Community Manager) 20 Nov 2010

Asthma is terrible and can be very scary.  My son and I both have it and when it gets bad it is really bad.  Night time is the worst for any kind of medical condition.  Not sure why that is but things always get worse after dark. 

I can remember having some anxiety at night my first two weeks post OP.  That then would cause me to wheeze.  What helped me at night during recovery was this....

1.  Sleep in an upright position.  That will really help the breathing and minimize the coughing.

2.  Keep the TV on at night.  Not sure why but the sound calmed me.

3.  Keep the room cool.

4.  Try to just take some slow and calm deep breaths.

5.  Leave a night light on if it helps. 

I am sorry you are going through this on top of the recovery.  It will get better...promise :)  Just tell yourself that tomorrow is a new day and it is all up hill from here.  Log on if you need to chat.
lookingforwardtorecovery 23 Nov 2010
I just had my tt on Friday, November 19th and I am very stiff as well. You are lucky about using the bathroom. My issue is not peeing. We will see, just started drinking prune juice and taking a laxative. Having some anxiety and not really sure since I think I am doing pretty good so far.
Kimmers25 (Community Manager) 24 Nov 2010

lookingforw - Oh the stiffness if no fun at all but temporary.  I took Milk of Magnesia and that worked wonderful for me.  I took it once a day for a week just to keep ahead of the pain meds and the problems that they caused.  You do not want to get backed up :)

A little anxiety also comes with the package.  I think most of that is from being all hopped up on the pain meds.  They are horrible on a body.  If that becomes a big problem just talk to your doctor and he may be able to give you a little something for anxiety.

Hang in these and keep us up to date on your progress.
Miriam7495 23 Nov 2010
Hi Looking: I've started to feel better. My asthma has ease down a bit. The bathroom issue is best to addressed it by eating bland foods. In order to cope with the anxiety I just stay positive and look out the window. I've reading the Dalai Lama fb page and keeping myself focus on me for now. I am also on this site which gives me a lot of mental support.
I'm very stiff as well but my Dr said it will take time to heal and to be patient. Being positive and staying focused I guess is the clue.
Take care, keep in touch.
Kimmers25 (Community Manager) 23 Nov 2010

Hang in there and give a shout if you need to chat :)

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