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9 Feelings You Have Before, During & After Tummy Tuck
By Kimmers25 on 07 Sep 2010
• Excitement – yahoo my hanging tummy is gone and I will look great.
• Anxiety – too many topics to cover on this one! Oh good lord I was a mess for about two weeks.
Part 1: 12 Things I Wish I Knew Before
Part 2: Feelings: Before and After
Part 3: Supplies You Will Need
Part 4: 7 Tips for Showering Post-Op
Part 5: Do's & Dont's After Surgery
Part 6: Funny Things Said During This Process
• Happiness – you really are happy you did this.
• Sadness – yes you will cry at the Hallmark Ads. Have no clue why but it passes quickly.
• Depression – mild though irritating.
• Pain pain and more pain – this gets better by the day so hang on
• Exhilaration – ahhhh bliss my double muffin top is gone.
• Confusion – or as I like to refer to as the “What the Heck Was I Thinking” moments.
• Worry – what if my swelling doesn’t go down, will this pain end, what if my jeans don’t fit, hope I don’t gain weight because I am not exercising, my house is dirty and I can’t clean right now. Oh hell the list goes on. As women and mothers I think this is our favorite pass time so just roll with it. Nobody will die, the kids will survive and you can get the house back in order later. If people come to visit and don’t like your dirty house just send them packing……or hand them the mop and dust rag.
All of these feelings are totally normal so just ride the rollercoaster and know it will stop eventually. I am pretty sure my husband felt like he was living with Cybil for a couple of weeks. The moods changed more that I emptied my drains. Come on ladies ride the coaster with grace and be happy and proud that you did this procedure for yourself. We are so worth it. We have labored and delivered children so we can definitely survive this one.
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Any and all advice will be welcome, especially from my age group (I am a post-menopausal low-thyroidal 59 year old woman.)
Got the flu shot 2 weeks ago.
Keep me posted, and I am glad you are progressing well.
Your day will be here before you know it! Exciting....Ice packs do feel good after surgery. But make sure you don't place them directly on your skin. Have a thin towel between your skin and the ice. Your tummy will be numb after surgery so you don't want to get an ice burn from the direct contact. And being numb you would not feel this happening to your skin.
Keep reading through the site and you will find an endless supply of information to prepare you for our surgery. Plus you get to chat with all of us fellow tummy tuckers!
Cant wait to read about your process as you go..
Keep coming back to the site! We are all here and understand every emotion you are experiencing. Hang tough and let us know when you need a pick me up.
problem has been the constant coughing due to asthma I'm on Prednisone now and it seems to work. Kimmer how did you coupe with the tight feeling of the skin? When does this tight feeling go away? I have a calendar picture in my mind crossing out every day after the surgery and saying to my sell "it will get better". My friend did it and she looks wonderful. Thanks for keeping this site is really helpful.
Hello Miriam,
You just hang in there and it will get better and better each week. It is really tough for the first 2-3 weeks but so worth it in the end.
The tightness and swelling about drove me nuts. I could not stand up straight for three weeks. The pulling and tightness will last for weeks; not that is will hurt for weeks but you will feel that sensation for a long time. Between two and three weeks post OP start massaging the tummy with the Palmer's Vitamin E Oil. It helps greatly and will soften the skin. I know it is tough but you can do it.
Also drink plenty of fluids and eat really healthy for proper healing. Stay away from sodium and processed foods if you can. They will make you swell like nobody's business and it hurts.
Try not to keep that calendar picture in your mind because it may just frustrate you and drive you nuts. Keep your expectations for healing low and slow..I went in thinking I would be up and running in two weeks and was sadly upset then that didn't happen. This whole process can take up to a year for total healing. Some heal quicker than others but for the most part it is a slow and long process.
I am extremely happy for those who snap back and run marathons quickly but that is not the norm for this procedure.
You just take good care of yourself, rest, take those pain meds and stay positive. And if you start getting frustrated and sad just hop on line and chat with all of us out here. We are a great group of support for each other. You can't do this alone and shouldn't try.
I am sending good thought and smiles your way :)
Kimmers
Just reading your post and wondered if you had any issues with dog ears? I keep hearing about issues with them and it is scary. I am scheduled for January 4th
Hi Gail,
No issues with dog ears at all. Don't worry about it though. If it does happen...and it may not; the doctor can fix this quick enough.
Don't stress yourself over this because not everyone ends up with this problem. You will be good...
I'll forget about the calendar and just take babies steps from the couch to room and back.
I'm happy I found this site because I feel I have moral support and I'm not alone and this one day shall pass. Thank you!
Asthma is terrible and can be very scary. My son and I both have it and when it gets bad it is really bad. Night time is the worst for any kind of medical condition. Not sure why that is but things always get worse after dark.
I can remember having some anxiety at night my first two weeks post OP. That then would cause me to wheeze. What helped me at night during recovery was this....
1. Sleep in an upright position. That will really help the breathing and minimize the coughing.
2. Keep the TV on at night. Not sure why but the sound calmed me.
3. Keep the room cool.
4. Try to just take some slow and calm deep breaths.
5. Leave a night light on if it helps.
I am sorry you are going through this on top of the recovery. It will get better...promise :) Just tell yourself that tomorrow is a new day and it is all up hill from here. Log on if you need to chat.
lookingforw - Oh the stiffness if no fun at all but temporary. I took Milk of Magnesia and that worked wonderful for me. I took it once a day for a week just to keep ahead of the pain meds and the problems that they caused. You do not want to get backed up :)
A little anxiety also comes with the package. I think most of that is from being all hopped up on the pain meds. They are horrible on a body. If that becomes a big problem just talk to your doctor and he may be able to give you a little something for anxiety.
Hang in these and keep us up to date on your progress.
I'm very stiff as well but my Dr said it will take time to heal and to be patient. Being positive and staying focused I guess is the clue.
Take care, keep in touch.
Hang in there and give a shout if you need to chat :)