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3rd Time's a Charm? Doesn't Seem It. Toronto, ON

UPDATED FROM 10yearsinthemaking
9 months post

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10yearsinthemaking
So I'm 9 months post-op, and I thought I'd add some updated pics to show why I'm so upset.
I actually think my nose has gotten longer since my early pre-op days, and hasn't gotten significantly more skinny as my doctor said it would ("it's just swollen. It will get better!") Bull! Plus, my nostrils are all wonky still, I can't breathe through my left one, I have a terrible scar where my doc ripped my skin and a large bump above the scar.
I think my 3/4 views are the worst. I am so embarrassed to go in public. I am actually considering applying to be on the show "Botched". Has anyone ever looked into that before?

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November 5, 2016
i don't think botched is running anymore. Botched by nature is, but its only for people who were born with a deformity.
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November 5, 2016
Dr.Nassiff seems to do a good job on revisions. Have you thought about Grigoryants?
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November 5, 2016
I unfortunately do not live in the United States. Revisions are pricey enough as it is, but with the crazy exchange rate are even more out of my price range :(
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November 6, 2016
Sorry to hear that things aren't improving for you. I know what you mean about feeling self conscious. I hate what I see in the mirror now. It's such a hard thing to face day after day. Are you going to get another revision? Any doctors in mind for the job? Jason Hamilton in LA has been producing some great results and he's not quite as expensive as some of the other 'top' surgeons.
November 8, 2016
Right firstly I would like to say, breathe. Try not to get worked up even though I know it is hard. I'm going through a similar problem and have revision in a month and all I can think is that it's going to look even worse than it does now and God help me how will I cope if it goes wrong. Anyway! There is more to you than your nose , I'm sure you're an amazing person and people will see past your nose which btw isn't as bad as you say. I think perhaps let it heal and then seek the help of one of the top surgeons. I would recommend Dr grigoryants in glendale usa. He seems to give girls the perfect nose. And just try stay positive. It csn be fixed if you would like it to be ! Keep your chin up try to stay calm. And be positive [RS bleep]
November 28, 2016
Hi I personally like your nose .. u don't have that hanging columa anymore . Which I find unattractive ( I have too ) If you're seriously unhappy I would suggest getting a consult with Dr Jason Hamilton from California .. his reviews are amazing !! Best of Luck and don't be so hard on yourself ur beautiful :)
UPDATED FROM 10yearsinthemaking
9 months post

I ruined my life

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Guys, I am so devastated, I can't even begin to express it. I still can't breathe through my one nostril, even though I've been on steroid spray for awhile now, and the mystery bump on my nose and buttonhole scar is worse than ever. My PS doesn't seem to give a flying rats @$$ about me ("come back in 4 months for another check up where I'll tell you absolutely nothing and offer no solutions!") I don't know how to keep going anymore. I literally ruined my face and my ability to breathe. I'm embarrassed and ashamed of my face and can't believe I have to go out in public looking like this every day. I don't know what to do. I can't afford a revision, I simply don't have $17,000 to spend on yet another surgery. I feel hopeless like nothing will ever be good again. :'(

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November 2, 2016
Which doctor have you been working with?
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November 2, 2016
I know people want to know, but I'm not comfortable sharing that as of yet.
November 2, 2016
I understand how you feel, but maybe this community can help hold them accountable? I'm so sorry about the way you feel.
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November 5, 2016
Unfortunately, I don't think we as a community can do much about any of the doctors. I know from the reviews on here that no one will choose the doctor I did anyways, so I'm not worried that me not saying will impact others' lives - thank god.
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November 2, 2016
I experience the same emotions every day. The results of my surgery were so far off the mark. I can honestly say that I hate the way I look now. It's hard. Hoping you eventually find some sort of solution. :/
November 2, 2016
I hope the best for you! We revision patients have been through soo much... We do this to feel better about ourselves and instead end up with depression and issues no one understands but people in the same situation. I hope u the best and thank you for keeping us updated.
November 3, 2016
I'm sorry for all the pain you're going just stay strong and console in God. I'm having the same nightmare as you and wish I never thought about Rhinoplasty or the media didn't make it seem so routine. No one prepares you for the outcome or changes. I wish you the best of luck and hope you can find peace.
November 7, 2016
get your money back, babe.
UPDATED FROM 10yearsinthemaking
6 months post

Almost 6 months PO

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10yearsinthemaking
Hi all,
Sorry I haven't updated in so long. I have been going through a really tough time with all if this and felt that looking at other people's perfect nose jobs was making me feel worse. I was prescribed anti-depressants to try and help me out, but those did more bad than good (holy side effects!). Anyways, I'm still not doing great, but thought I'd give an update now that I'm almost 6 months post op.
My nostrils are still incredibly uneven. The one that is more closed drives me crazy because I can feel the two sides of it touching inside and if collapses in when I breathe in. It's a super annoying feeling.
My nose is still MASSIVE. One only has to look at my pics to see that my doc actually made it much bigger rather than smaller.
I have a bump on my tip (made of god knows what, because my doc claims it isn't cartilage). I had a shot of steroid injected a few weeks ago. It helped bring the bump dow slightly, but not all the way.
I think I am getting a bit of polybeak. I feel like my tip dropped too much and now because the underside of my tip is like weird and rounded it looks like my nose tips down a bit. :(
It's still very sensitive. Hurts to touch the tip at all. Kissing is a private nightmare. Also, my ear that they took the cartilage from us incredibly sensitive. There are spots that, if touched, cause extreme pain. My doctor kind if just shrugged this off.
Overall, VERY unhappy. My doc doesn't want to see me again until October/November. Didn't even want to see me for a follow up after my steroid shot. Ugh.
Thinking I'm going to have to start saving my pennies for a fourth revision (with a different doc). Maybe I'll start a crowd-sourcing campaign lol.

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August 13, 2016
hi.. i think your profile shots look very nice and natural. On front view your tip looks a bit swollen but ok overall. I understand about nostrils... since one of my nostrils touches too because of the retraction which i hate! I'm going see if i can get my docs to open up my nostrils so that they are not retracted or touching.. in addition to bringing down my columella. Lots to do... I've had several surgeries.... I hope you the best. Keep us updated. the depression and waiting is the worst!!!! omg. Overall I think you look natural and nice. I had the most horrible upturned nose and everyone asked if I had a nose job! awful !
August 14, 2016
It's frustrating to think about the negative effects this surgery has had - depression in both of our cases, and isolation especially in mine. I think most of us go through this surgery so we don't have to think about our noses anymore - we just want to forget about them and not feel self-conscious anymore. But the swelling in our cases has made it impossible to do that. Your posts have helped me to feel less alone in going through this, and I'm very grateful for that. Feel free to PM me anytime to discuss any of these issues - we seem to be having similar experiences.

I don't know if you saw the comments from honestfella and kepotz01 for your previous post, but they have both been dealing with prolonged swelling and have seen improvement after many months - it's worth reading what they wrote. I can see improvement in your swelling between your current and previous photos. You said you think you're seeing a pollybeak forming, but I don't see that in your photos. As the swelling moves down the nose, you might see it settle in various spots on the the tip before it dissipates - making it appear longer temporarily. I am also still dealing with stubborn swelling that is very slow to resolve. I keep trying o figure out why some people have more swelling than others. I followed my surgeon's instructions and took good care of myself with quality food and supplements...so why? Sometimes I wonder if the way tissues are handled during surgery can impact swelling.

I'm sorry your surgeon has not been more supportive. That's not okay that he dismisses the fact that you feel pain when touching certain areas of your nose and ear. Perhaps another local surgeon could examine you to put your mind at ease.
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August 15, 2016
Honestly, it looks like the swelling has gone down some since the last pics. I know how you're feeling though. I'm dealing with some pretty serious regret and disappointment with my recent revision surgery. I thought I did everything right to ensure my desired outcome. Apparently I didn't. Good luck in your recovery and stay strong this year. Six more months and this nose nightmare could potentiall be over for you. Fingers crossed!