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Trust Your Instincts...Double Skin/Nipple Sparing Mastectomy with Fat Grafting - Toronto, ON

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This cancer nightmare started July 2014. Let me...

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WORTH IT$10,000
This cancer nightmare started July 2014. Let me start by telling you I went to my doc asking for ultrasound of right breast because I had a lot of pain. I was told it can't be cancer because pain is not a sign (BULL). I preferred ultrasound as going thru peri menopause I was so tender I knew I wouldn't be able to have the mammo. Sure enough I couldn't (too tender) and had to go back to doc to pick-up a rec....what a waist of breath and time off.
The ultrasound was at 4pm and by 9am next morning the doc called with the news I needed a biopsy and a mammo (load up on pain meds and do it) and mentioned how surprised he was?? Doc's reading this, please listen to your patients...we know our bodies.

Well, the results were: Lumpectomy of right breast performed -invasive ductal carcinoma, hormone +, Hers-, 1.7 lump removed. All done within 5 days of being diagnosed. No time to think let alone do research. I refused radiation and chemo and tamox after research and went the holistic route.
Back to doc 3 mths after surgery requesting an ultrasound and was told that since I had refused chemo and tamox that I was refused by specialists (WTH am I not still a women with cancer??). Bless his heart he listened and sent me and I begged for an MRI also which he sent me for, I had another tumour!!!!! Trying to keep this short.... 2 biopsies and 7 mths later (both tests showed benign) I had a bilateral mastectomy with first fat graft.
I couldn't push hard enough to hurry because I was listening to my gut! Nobody else was in a hurry. So here I am 3 weeks post op and just received my pathology report at my post op check up that I have active cancer in the right breast .....ugh!!!! How are we to feel confident in these damn tests??? So ladies please trust your instincts and YES pain can be a sign of cancer, this should be added to the list of signs everywhere.
I thank sweet Jesus that it has not spread into the lymph nodes, but if I had waited the year that they suggested for tests then God only knows what stage I would be at now! They are still recommending radiation, dang it all that is why I was proactive and did the mastectomy. Still have to see my PS to see if this will affect my new fat?
Happy healing everyone and I hope this info helps someone in this nasty fight of our lives. I will add pics when my daughter is home to help lol. Try and keep a positive spirit as it keeps the stress hormones down and that helps us heal. And I have appreciated all the sharing of info from everyone here on realself, what a wonderful site this is. BTW these surgeries are not for sissies (lipo hurts like a $%#@&) so lets give ourselves a pat on the back for being strong women. If we can push out babies we can do anything right. And please don't let details scare you off any type of surgery, life is the end goal and feeling whole is the prize...keep your eye on that prize.

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April 25, 2015

Welcome to the community. :) Thank you for taking the time to share your experience and very important message with the community. We really do have to listen to the messages that our bodies send us. I am curious as to what your holistic approach to fight cancer was, would you mind elaborating on that? I would love for you to check in here and get the conversation started. I look forward to your updates, stay strong!  

p.s. Thank your daughter for helping you upload photos :)

April 26, 2015
I am an RN with many years of Plastic Surgery nursing experience and also live in Canada. I am four weeks post bilateral mastectomy with tissue expanders. I wish you well on this journey. I notice that you have $10,000.00 as a cost. Any procedure due to breast cancer is covered under our provincial health care. I hope you are not out of pocket for this.
April 26, 2015
Thank you for caring enough to message me on the cost. Sick as it sounds this pioneering procedure of fat grafting is not ALL covered here yet but I hope to lobby for it when all is said and done. It should be one of the reconstruct options offered and it isn't. Canada is behind the times because I'm told we are very conservative here!! I am paying for extra O.R time, anesthesia and fat spinning. I try not to complain because I was about to travel south to have this if no one willing to try here. Thank God my PS thinks as I do. Gods speed in your recovery edzell
April 30, 2015
In the US, any health insurance that covers mastectomy is required by law to cover the cost of reconstruction and any related surgery or revisions associated with reconstruction for life. So, if you have implant issues, pain, scar issues, or another treatment becomes available , or you are not happy with your reaults, health insurance must cover it. Even ten or twenty years later.
April 30, 2015
The exception to this law of course is that some government insurance including some medicare and veterans benefits have found a way to deny payment. Not sure how but they say they are exempt in some cases. I know a veteran who is not covered for reconstruction. Nice going US government. Way to support our vets!
May 1, 2015
I currently have tissue expanders and on my last fill My rib broke. So now I'm dealing with tissue expanders and a broken rib under my left fake breast!
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May 7, 2015
Except for your deductibles, which in my case was 7k because my husband and I are self employed and can only afford a high deductible policy. And because my bilateral mastectomies were in October, I had to meet my deductible again in January when I had my second reconstruction surgery. So in all, it has cost me in excess of 14k, but that isn't much when you consider what my insurance company did pay!
July 12, 2015
I am just now finding this post. Thank you so much for this info. I am going to look into this further for sure. I was ready to eat it but it sure would be a treat if it was covered. Bless you
July 12, 2015
I agree disgusting way to treat a cancer victim / vet. Keep pushing those pencils CFO's but let's see how you feel when it's you or someone you love!!!!!
July 12, 2015
Just seeing this post now??? I am so sorry! I hope your doing better now. God speed in healing.
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August 2, 2015
hi Karen, I haven't posted in a very long time but, was diagnosed in Feb 2012 w "Triple Negative Invasive Ductal Carcinoma", PCP said over the phone after my biopsy, that everyone, including the biopsy doc felt that it was just a fibroid. Then she calls me at work to tell me it's invasive and aggressive!! I needed to have a lumpectomy and immediate chemotherapy then radiation. I didn't have any family history of cancer to my knowledge and wanted to be tested for BRCA Gene. They needed to start chemo right away because of the aggressive nature of my cancer and then tested me. I came back positive for the BRCA1 Gene.
Still going through the horrible chemo visits, I went for the Rad consultation and mentioned possibly wanting a bi-lateral mastectomy. The Rad Doc informed me, if I was going to have a bi-lateral mastectomy, I would not need Radiation!!
After they explained all of the damage that radiation can do along with the high risk of reoccurrence of cancer because of the BRCA,.... It was basically a "no brainier" to me, yet still a very difficult decision and procedure to go through with!!
After my rambling explanation of my diagnosis and my decisions, I have a couple of questions. One is,.....why are all of the stories I'm reading who've had mastectomies had to still go through radiation? The next question is actually a statement to your comment right here to " must believe" about insurance paying for cancer related surgeries for life in the U.S.!! I thought so too until I just went for hopefully my final procedure for a long time. (It's been 3 yrs of surgeries including removing ovaries and tubes because of the GENE). I chose the expanders and silicone implants for my breasts and there was no skin or nipple sparing with the mastectomy so, the final step was to get nipples. My PS referred me to a very talented 3D tattoo person to make my nipples and areola. I think some places may have a tech do it in the Dr office but I think the new, better trend of PS is to use a cosmetic artist. Who can give a realistic look for us women who have already been through so much and deserve not to have breasts that look like a very bad botched job!
Well, I was given all of the procedure codes and the paperwork, the cost was around $1,000 , I am extremely happy with the look and prior to the nipple/areola tattooing, I did not feel complete.
Well, BC/BS will not reimburse for the procedure!!!! I was in tears today and asked them why would they pay for wigs and scarves but when it came to reconstructing a breast..... You would leave me without a nipple and make me pay for it myself???
I'm so sorry for the rambling but, I've been reading a lot of stories today and it's gotten me a bit emotional. Then the insurance Co. Leaving me to pay for the finishing of my reconstruction!!
This is a great site, I come here just to see I'm not alone. I was on a high dose of Taxol at the end of Chemo and it has left me with excruciating Peripheral Neuropathy in my feet a a small amount in my fingers so, I fight every day still to get up and try to put one sock on at a time so I can be a normal person in society again. Sites like this just show me that I'm not the only one out here.
Thanks for listening!!
Deb
April 29, 2015
I also had pain initially and found a lump because of pain. Everything I read from reputable sources said pain was atypical so I was thinking it would turn out to be fibrocystic breast disease. Wrong. It was cancer.
April 30, 2015
How scary is that
April 30, 2015
Omg this site needs to fix itself as I wrote you a very lengthy message only to read a one liner
April 30, 2015
When I have ore te I will rewrite to you. Care for now.
April 30, 2015
Ok. You take care as well.
April 30, 2015
What I was trying to say was this.... Everyday I am able to spread the word that pain is a sign I scream it out. I could have been at the DIC stage instead of stage 1. Happy to hear you saved yourself too. Don't give up your fight. Keep fighting for every test you feel necessary. Let's pray for the cure in OUR time.
April 30, 2015
I had my first abnormal mammo in 2011. They repeated and decided what they were seeing were calcifications. I actually believe that if they had biopsied me at that time they would have found dcis. By the time I felt the lump in 2014, (same breast and in area of calcifications) it had become invasive. I had two large invasive tumors and the entire upper third of my breast was dcis and idc. I was low risk (or so I thought) so I was lulled into a feeling of security by my condition being labeled as benign. When I felt the lump some part of me knew it was cancer but because it was painful, I was still hoping for another benign diagnosis. I was in job transition so I had to wait nine long months for diagnosis. I was very lucky to have early stage cancer and no lymph node involvement even after waiting so long. But I tell everyone else that if their mammo is abnormal to ask for further testing. I think I may have been diagnosed years earlier had my suspicious areas been biopsied. I may have been able to get away with a lumpectomy and avoided mastectomy and chemo perhaps.
April 30, 2015
Yes your correct, these tests are not the end all to be all. We need to spend some of the donated money into more defined imaging technology (non invasive or carcinogenic of course). I asked about heat images but was told too broad? Although I read positive early detection for DCIS which mammo cannot detect, he'll it couldn't even detect I had active cancer just before my mastectomy!!!!!!! We can only thank God we are early stage and pray for no reoccurance. I only have weeks to decide on radiation or not, killing myself researching if risk worth reward??!!
May 1, 2015
Amen! And that's all I have to say to that!
May 1, 2015
Amen sister ;)
UPDATED FROM mustbelieve
22 days post

Start of the crazy train

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August 11, 2015
I have DCIS in situ (non invasive) left breast. Lumpectomy this past Friday. I'm going to accept the radiation. Not sure about the tamoxifen. Had biopsy 20 years ago on right breast, no cancer. Thought I would get a mastectomy at first sign and be done with. But a mastectomy with non invasive, localized, stage 0, level 2 seemed like overkill. Tamoxifen seems like overkill. Radiation seems like being safe, I think what about Mr heart, my lungs? Are you having reconstructing?
September 15, 2015
I apologize for the delay in reply but I find this site could be layed out better (down right confusing actually). I had no idea this message was even here except by accident today! I am reconstructing with fat grafting, had first fat fill to pectoral muscles at time of bilateral mastectomy. I just updated my review so you can read that and get up to date with the rest if you like. I did not take tamoxifen because of the research I found on it, only 2% difference is not enough for me with all the side effects that come with taking it. I did take the radiation because they found DCIS (which is stage 1 cancer) when they did my mastectomy!!! And all the MRI's and ultrasounds and mammograms showed non of it, only the pathology showed it was there. VERY scary to say the least. I had stage 1 invasive ductal carcinoma that was non invasive and negative BRCA testing. But I still felt my gut telling me to move forward and so I did and Thank God I listened and pushed. A long, happy and healthy life to you Meh527
September 15, 2015
Thanks for getting back. Just had post mammogram, no calcification seen. Saw the rad and oncologist last week, neither were pushing for further treatment. Leaving it all up to me. Racked my brain so much my left eye is twitching. Had the oncotype test with score of 28 which is high intermediate for recurrence after an invasive cancer, but is a low number for non invasive (15% recurrence of in situ and 6% for invasive). BUT read an article sent to me today by a member of breastcancer.org site and several studies here and in French and Sweden show backing down from 'over treatment' may not be advisable when radiation is statically positive to reduce recurrence for even lowest risk, small DCIS, in study after similar study of both non and invasive.   I'm not sure of my HERS or BRAC but get those results from DNA testing the following week.  Given that tiny micros could be there, just not yet seen, I'm leaning to rad, yet both the don't and do decisions are still scaring me add radiation has side effects to best and lungs. Mine is left breast.
September 15, 2015
I meant side effects to heart and lungs.
September 17, 2015
I hear you sister, been there and done all your doing. It's dizzying!!!!! Only you can decide. There are two sides to the rad fence. Some say it could increase stem cells to more aggressive state and the other side says the risks are very low with new technology and it kills everything?? I know they have way too much to learn and it's a crap shoot we will only know later which is the right way to go. My feeling was, I've been given a second chance and come this far so make sure to kill what I can and worry about secondary cancer years down the road then and hope by then they have a cure or at least can control the beast. You only have a short time span after surgery to accept rad and I didn't want to say later ... Holy sugar I should have done it buts it's too late now. That's about all I can share on that subject. Try not to send yourself to the crazy farm trying to make a decision. God bless your heart.
August 19, 2015
Thank you for sharing. I think for sure we need to be our own advocate for our selfs. This is my second time around after 19 yrs.
September 15, 2015
I am so sorry for the delay in response but this message has a date of recent and below my pic from the beginning when I first posted and I find that very confusing? This site is hard to navigate I find. Anyway thank you for your message and sorry to hear your second time around, not ideal for sure. Just do your research and you'll make all the right choices and I would look deep into natural sites as well. They have been sorely squelched by the huge money from big pharma and they have wonderful proven methods. Try Suzanne Somers book Knockout too, chalk full of world renown doctors that have great insight. Many healing vibes to you my fellow fighter.
UPDATED FROM mustbelieve
22 days post

Above pic was months after lumpectomy in 2014

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Sorry new to posting. Should have explained that the pic was a few mths post lumpectomy. Not sure how to add from camera to site, will get help with that ASAP. That was the start on the crazy train wreck ride you get on with this diagnosis. My pics of the bilateral mastectomy 3 wks ago to follow. I am 22 days post mastectomy NOT lumpectomy. Sorry for the confusion.

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April 26, 2015
This is a long process and certainly not for the weak of mind. I had my implant surgery done on the 17th of April so 9 days postoperative and I agree the lipo part is difficult. I had saline implants but needed some fat grafting to correct a problem caused by the expanison process. I will tell you this surgery has been the easy one for me. I feel a release as I know I am close to the end of this journey. Stay strong and keep your positive attitude. It can be hard on those tough days but truly our minds are a powerful tool. Blessings and healing wishes to you.
April 26, 2015
Thank you for your support and Gods speed recovery to you. I will keep posting to help in the decision making process for the newly diagnosed. . I pray daily we can find THE cure for all cancers. It truly is the beast. But we must never give up!!
April 28, 2015
My post op went well, looking good but still lots of healing to do. I am pleased with the shape it is taking