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My motivation for my nose surgery is the quick...

motheroftwoocdtsAugust 13, 2012
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My motivation for my nose surgery is the quick passing of time. I've been considering this surgery for as long as I can remember (I'm now 43) and it's like a right of passage for me. When I was a child I injured (broke) my nose at school (phys ed accident) and was afraid to tell my parents about it, so I didn't. At that time I would have needed their support to get it fixed, but at this age, I certainly don't. In fact, I made this decision without discussing it with any family (of origin) member at all. It feels great finally not worrying about what anyone else will think. Once my decision was made though, I spoke to my husband (very supportive) and my children. My sons support me all the way.

My personal goals are to finally get this taken care of and move forward from here. For me, it's not so much a vanity issue (although looking better will be a positive outcome). I was always quite popular and never teased so I believe that this is just a personal growth decision-under my own power. My nose will be straighter with hump removed and the tip should be more refined as well. My nose won't be so 'boxy' after the surgery if all goes well.

My emotions range from fear to excitement and my thoughts are usually on the exact steps of the surgery (I've been watching rhynoplasty surgeries) and the exact process of recovery. Being someone who really doesn't even like a paper cut, and actually choosing to get surgery on my face, is at times confusing! I also, no matter how hard I try not to, wonder about doctors' performances when they are tired or under their own kind of stress. I'm pretty sure I'm my own worst enemy...and I'm thinking too much!

I've read that Arnica tabs and gel may be helpful to ease swelling and bruising pre and post op. I've been reading as much as I can on it, and a lot of information states that Arnica is meant for post trauma. I'm thinking of only taking it after the surgery along with applying the Arnica gel. I've read some comments on this site about after effects of the surgery, and some of those reported are actual side effects listed of Arnica.

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UPDATED FROM motheroftwoocdts

Today I emailed Dr Solomon with a few more...

motheroftwoocdtsAugust 13, 2012
Today I emailed Dr Solomon with a few more questions that came to mind. He personally responded to all of my concerns which provided me some comfort. I can't wait until this is over with so that I can think of something else! It's funny how an injury as a child that hadn't been dealt with has taken me this far. I'm somewhat glad, in a way, because although I've never been happy with my nose, I doubt I would have done anything about it unless that accident had happened. It was only then that I started to wonder what it would be like having a different appearance. Four days to go...

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Angie_M
August 13, 2012

Thank you for starting your story and sharing your photos on RealSelf! I hope you'll keep us updated throughout your process. You might want to check out this post about supplies to get before your surgery!

motheroftwoocdts
August 13, 2012
Thank you very much. I have been perusing this site seemingly forever! I feel that since I've been able to gain so much knowledge and understanding of issues from others who share, that it's important that I give back. Rhinoplasty is a huge step (at least for me), and the more knowledge that we have, the better prepared we'll all be! This is a great support site. I know I need it now and will continue to need it as I get through this experience. Thank you!
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Little_Robin
August 15, 2012
You're very brave for watching surgeries. I know if I did that I would probably back out. it seems so scary! I also hurt my nose a lot when I was in sports. I remember getting a soccer ball kicked right into my face and my nose wouldn't stop bleeding lol. It's understandable that you're thinking a lot about the surgery. It's a major change after all. I'm starting to get more nervous each day because it's so close. I can't imagine how you much feel knowing it's only a few days away! I'm excited for you :))
motheroftwoocdts
August 15, 2012
Thank you very much. I alternate between excitement, calm, and sheer terror. lol. Sounds extreme, but it's very true. Reading these posts strengthens my resolve to move forward. I even put my pics up without a stitch of makeup so that I couldn't talk myself out of the surgery by saying, "it's not that bad". Mind games. Thanks again for your comments!
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Little_Robin
August 15, 2012
I often think about not going through with it, but reading how happy everyone is with their results is also helping me stick to it. it reminds me I'm not alone after all=]
motheroftwoocdts
August 15, 2012
You're definitely not alone. I bet most of us have/had those feelings. Just keep chatting to get us through! And for sure..watching the surgeries was eye-opening! But once i watched one, I had to continue to try to erase the fear from my mind. The first once really set me back. After a few more I was a little more at ease with the process. A 'little' lol.
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Little_Robin
August 15, 2012
lol maybe I'll watch one after I get the surgery done, but for now I'd rather not know lol :)
UPDATED FROM motheroftwoocdts

My surgeon's office carries Arnica tabs. But since...

motheroftwoocdtsAugust 15, 2012
My surgeon's office carries Arnica tabs. But since I'm 4.5 hours away, I thought I would get them locally. I called the PS office and asked their dosage and the receptionist tried, but couldn't thoroughly answer my questions. She told me that they have 500mg tabs that are only available to doctors. I emailed Dr Solomon, and he responded in a short amount of time, saying that I could use the ones from the health food store...but I still didn't know what dosage.

As luck would have it, when I called the store to see what dosage they carried, I spoke with a homeopathic doctor. She advised that nose surgery entails a lot of trauma, so she recommended the 1M dosage, 2 tabs day before surgery and every day after that until healed. She also recommended (and I bought) two other types of tablets that promote faster bone healing: #2 CALC PHOS 6X along with SYMPHYTUM OFFICINALE 30CH. They are to be taken 3 of each, 3 times daily. Does anyone know anything about these 'meds'?

Aside from that, I'm exhausted. Of course the things I needed for surgery and post surgery couldn't be found in one place...but after a long shopping trip, I think I have most of what I need now. I'm pretty nervous now that I have stopped and am actually writing about it again.

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