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TT MR and Lipo - Scottsdale, AZ
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Journey to reclaim my body and self-esteem. I'm...
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Journey to reclaim my body and self-esteem. I'm not sure at what point I accepted my post baby body but when I looked in the mirror I didn't even see the stretch marks and loose skin. I am sure it was around that time that I also started to gain weight, I just stopped caring what I looked like. I ate whatever I wanted and really took comfort in food and I stopped working out. I also stopped getting my hair and nails done regularly and buying new clothing for myself (probably because shopping for cloths was not fun on my heavier body). For the past few years I've lost weight only to gain it back eventually, that really brought me down. I never reached my pre-baby weight after my third child (I got close a couple times).
Then one day I asked myself who are you? I had become self-conscious of my weight (more the shape of my body), how I presented myself to the world or rather didn't I was becoming a hermit, easily done as a SAHM. This was completely opposite of who I was. I was the kind of woman to walk into a room with confidence and I never found the need to compare myself with others. I was just that confident and self assured. I want her back, I want to become her again but need a little help. A boost in the right direction.
My current weight is 190. Having the surgery to look forward to has motivated me in the area of health. I'm hoping to get closer to 180 by surgery date, Apr 11th and to actively lose some weight after this surgery as well. I am having a TT and lipo of back, flanks and thighs. I prefer a curvy body, I have lots of curves, haha, but less of them and in to right places would be nice.
Then one day I asked myself who are you? I had become self-conscious of my weight (more the shape of my body), how I presented myself to the world or rather didn't I was becoming a hermit, easily done as a SAHM. This was completely opposite of who I was. I was the kind of woman to walk into a room with confidence and I never found the need to compare myself with others. I was just that confident and self assured. I want her back, I want to become her again but need a little help. A boost in the right direction.
My current weight is 190. Having the surgery to look forward to has motivated me in the area of health. I'm hoping to get closer to 180 by surgery date, Apr 11th and to actively lose some weight after this surgery as well. I am having a TT and lipo of back, flanks and thighs. I prefer a curvy body, I have lots of curves, haha, but less of them and in to right places would be nice.
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Replies (22)
March 7, 2016
Hi Mrs Darcy. You and I sound like we are in the same boat! I have 4 children and after my last child never went back to my prebaby weight but was still "OK". I moved to the US 2 years ago and have gained 10kg since then! I can't believe the image I see in the mirror is me. It give me nightmares and I lie awake at night worries about my appearance. I currently weigh 200 pounds anD have made a commitment to myself to shed at least 10 pounds but hopefully more before my surgery on the 12th of April. I recently started working from home and it has not been a positive experience as far as weight gain and self esteem is concerned. It's like I just let go of myself and now walk around with chipped nails and no make up. This is not me. This is not who I am inside. I am bringing me back. I will follow your journey and perhaps we can help each other do this. I'm starting a diet today and will walk at least 3 miles a day and spend 20 mins on the elliptical. What are you doing to reach your goal?
March 7, 2016
Hi sss101, our stories are very similar and I'd love to follow you as well. Starting today I'm going to cut carbs, I do 25 minutes on the elliptical 3 times a week and 2 aerobic type activities. I should add walking everyday as well, it would get me out of the house.
March 7, 2016
Nice. Yes add the walk. It will leave you feeling really good. What with all the fresh air and mother nature to admire! :). I love the name, Mrs Darcy....as in pride and prejudice? I am a fan of the old English classics.
March 7, 2016
The weather is great and it's really beautiful out this time of year. Yes, Pride and Prejudice, I am a fan also.
March 8, 2016
Wow, your story sounds like mine. I am glad I came across your profile. I have been struggling for years. I have 3 beautiful children and now I just want my body back. I let myself go and I am not happy with my appearance. I gained even more weight after I broke my ankle and had to have a plate and screws installed. I am currently 180....:-(....my surgery isn't until April 21st and I am praying that I can at least lose 20lbs. I am going to follow you and keep up with you if thats okay. I am wishing you the best. Reclaim your life and be happy. Wishing you a safe surgery and speedy recovery. Happy healing!
March 8, 2016
Many thanks. I look forward to us following one another, it will be nice to go through this with someone and share our experiences. May our results be better than we can imagine.
March 8, 2016
Thank you so much and same to you. I am so excited, nervous, anxious, and scared. I know one thing though, I am ready to get rid of this stomach.
March 21, 2016
Hi I am also April 13th I need a tt buddy!! How are you feeling? I'm so nervous!
March 21, 2016
I was nervous at first but now I feel an incredible calm, I'm ready and excited! Being able to read about so many positive journeys helps.
UPDATED FROM Mrs. Darcy
27 days pre
New date and calm thoughts
My surgery date has been moved back to the 13 of Apr. My pre-op appointment is the 23rd of March, I'm excited! I've been feeling really good about the upcoming surgery. I have a lot of confidence in Dr. Leber, he has beautiful work.
I had my first dream about my "after" body, it was a very good dream, I loved the results! I woke up feeling happy and even more ready. Less than a month to go!
I had my first dream about my "after" body, it was a very good dream, I loved the results! I woke up feeling happy and even more ready. Less than a month to go!
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March 17, 2016
Great news! I'm really happy for you. Your enthusiasm is running of me now. Hopefully I too have happy new body dreams tonight :)
UPDATED FROM Mrs. Darcy
20 days pre
I'm so ready!
Just had the best pre-op apt! All questions answered, I'm feeling very confident in my PS and excited! Exactly 3 weeks to go!
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March 23, 2016
My pre op is Thursday!!! So anxious & excited
March 29, 2016
It went well I expressed my fears and had all my questions answered I feel a little better now I am so excited to get this over with and be happy in a bikini :)
March 29, 2016
Tell me about it. At this point I'm like let's get this show on the road. Hahaha Glad to hear your questions were answered and you're feeling better.
You are going to do this and get yourself back again. Â You will come back better than ever and will be happy. Â Glad to hear you are taking charge and putting yourself first now:)
I remember that feeling very well:)