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SOFTGIRL...taking a poll: Do you think I'd look ok in a bikini? Or...should I just forget it...be honest ladies..

UPDATED FROM softgirl
3 years post

3 yr boobiversary!

WORTH IT$5,090
Hi ladies, not sure how many are left here from 3 yrs ago! The boobs look great and I'm still glad I had them done. Wishing you all happy holidays and a great new year!
OH and my bra size ended up being mostly a 34DD, or a 36D occasionally, depending on the cut and brand.

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I'm left! Cheers and happy New Years to you too :)
OMG. We're the only ones left of the old gang... lol...
Lol Never regretted this! You?
I'm 27 and can't wear a 2 piece bathing suit because I desperate need a tummy tuck lol I had my BA but I don't think I could handle the pain of a tummy tuck. I was 90 pounds and got up to 170 when I had my son. My body didn't like that lol but I think you should rock a bikini. I know I would if I were you. You look amazing :)
You look great! I was so glad to read your husband had come around! I've also experienced what you have regarding friends who are really not your friends. Good for you for confronting her.
UPDATED FROM softgirl
7 months post

I am being viciously stalked online, shocked by who it is.

Dear friends, I have found the source of my husband's malcontent regarding my boob job. I have gone into his FB acct and found old anonymous messages dating right back to 9/2012, exactly when i started going for consults and starting my whole implant process. Each message was sent by a 'stranger', from all over the US. The last one contained information that identified the sender to me. It is a 'friend' that I've had for 25 yrs, that was kind to my face but apparently turned against me once I decided to upgrade my body. The malicious messages said that i was cheating on my hubby and that the boobs were not for him, and a few other things i won't post here. I was gutted, hurt, aghast, appalled. I called and confronted her, but she merely laughed it off, enjoying the damage she has inflicted upon my marriage and family. She is cut out, and I shut everything out and down on both mine and my hubby's FB acct. She does not have the balls to contact him in her real name.
So the old saying goes: Keep your friends close, and your enemies closer ...if u know who they are, lol.

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Oh my! Sounds like a former friend of mine!! She would stir [RS bleep] all the time because she was so unhappy with her own life and was jealous of mine! Luckily my husband knows me better and knows she was full of [RS bleep]! I can hardly wait for all the drama to resurface once I have mine done...especially since I will see her quite often after I have it done since both of our daughters are in cheer leading!
a bikini, def!!!
Wow I'm glad I don't have friends like that . I hope all is ok now for you . I say bikini yes !
Communcation with hubby is key! I have one of those shitstirers in my life...me and hubby laugh at the absurd crap she says. Your boobs look great--dont hold back--enjoy them!
Bikini definitely yes!!! You should be proud of your body you look fabulous!!!
Why thank you Jenni! I have 2 so far...i should take some pics and post them, i'm all tanned now...!
UPDATED FROM softgirl
7 months post

Hey Girls, new pics! 34DD-36DD bras!

I finally found some bras that don't pinch, pull, poke, scratch! There's a great sale going on right now at Kohl's, buy 1 get 1 50% off, plus i have coupon for 30% off on top of that. Very hard to find anything in DD, but I did manage and then came home to look onlin at Kohls.com as well. These are don't have pushups, the pushups [including VS] that I've tried so far actually cause me pain, digging into my sutures on my ribcage [I had quite a bit of crease lowering due to constricted breasts]. So it's a challenge to find the cut that will enhance me! I spent about $35 for the 2 bras, panties on sale too so total bill was $45 with tax.
I now realized that the balconette, balcony styles work the best for my shape! Which was the exact opposite my entire life. I used to avoid balconette for so long that when shopping I didn't even reach for them, until yesterday, and WOW was I surprised and very happy. Had admired them from afar my entire life! yay for boobies!!

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you are looking awesome!!! those balconettes definitely look hot!!! :-)
Thanks Lilac. And how are YOU doin?? Find any good bras, swimsuits or clothes lately? post your finds!
yup I did.. vs just had a semi annual sale not too long ago and I had so much fun!!! :-)
Looking beautiful and those bras fit you very nicely :)
Thanks Mini! Hubs eyes popped out when I showed him the bras, then he scowled and said "cover em up". Party pooper. But I like em and even my 13 teen girl said WOW mummy, you look great! I take her shopping sometimes with me now...she's honest and will tell me if something is too much or not the right look for me, even tho her style is a little different than mine.
Looking fabulous. I love that lace bra. How are you feeling? Wishing you heal fast. Have you hit the bikini stores yet?
Hi Mina, actually i found a Becca brand at TJMaxx, D cup top, and it was on sale for $30. It has a fun pink paisley pattern, halter top, tie back. I will get a pic up of it soon.